Catherine Rae Photography

Happy Saturday!!!  Today Stacie is sharing her story on her diagnosis and her survival.  Stacie came ready with her glam outfits and ready to go.  Her son was with her and he had a good time watching his mom get the glam squad treatment that she deserved.  He was her personal cheerleader on this day!  Stacie was so sweet and I am glad that I could provide this service to her!  Everyone....Meet Stacie!

1. What type of cancer were you diagnosed with and when?

I was diagnosed with Breast Cancer 29 Jan 2015. 

When I went in to initially speak to the doctor, she assumed I was a stage 2. I spoke to the plastic surgeon who made a double mastectomy sound like the "boob job" I'd always wanted.. I did extensive research to learn that even with that kind of surgery, there was still a chance of recurrence. I opted for a lumpectomy. The surgery went well, and I waited for the pathology report. My parents and I sat in a small room to be told that 18 out of the 24 lymph nodes they removed were cancerous putting me at stage 3C instead of the 2 that was assumed in the beginning. It was like the wind was knocked out of me. All I remember asking is if I was going to die. Because there were so many nodes involved chemo was in my future. I started chemo April 29th, and it wasn't too bad to start. The horrible part is the shot that you have to take for the white blood cells. I've never felt that kind of pain, ever: and I've had two children. Chemo for me lasted 4.5 months, and it sucked. Some days I could meet my Soldiers for lunch (I'm Active Duty Army), and other days I couldn't even get out of bed. I took my last chemo treatment June 28, and drove 10 hours to PA for my grandmother's 103d birthday party June 29. I wasn't missing that for anything. 

After chemo I had 6 weeks radiation therapy which made me very very tired but I managed to go to work. I remember on the last day walking out the hospital after ringing the bell thinking "now what"...

It's been 19 months since I ended treatment. I'm learning to adapt to the physical side effects from the partial hysterectomy (the cancer was estrogen fed), and the hormone blocker I will take for the next 10 years. My eyebrows grew back, so I'm happy about that. Mentally, I feel like I was in a dream.. and I say dream instead of nightmare because I came out of that year the best person I've ever been. I learned what is important and that faith will see you through the darkest days. I learned to live life to the fullest and love on your people as often and as hard as you can. Tomorrow isn't promised.

2. How old were you when you were diagnosed? 37

3. What/Who helped you get through your treatment?

I was a single parent to two, so my mother and father flew in from MD and Ca. to help me with treatment.

4. When were you deemed Cancer Free?

I use 11 Mar and my cancer free date

5. What did you do to celebrate that special day and your anniversary day?

Last year, I went to Dominican Republic, not sure what we will do this year.

6. Do you have any special charities that you are involved in or host as a survivor?

I am not involved in any charities, yet

7. What advice would you give to someone that is just being diagnosed?

Great Saturday afternoon to you all!  Today's survivor and newest Catherine Rae Photography family member is Ms. Judith Fitzgerald.  Judith is amazing and had the best personality.  We clicked immediately and had the best time during her session.  I love being able to meet new people and getting to know them through this process.  Her love of life and cupcakes had us laughing the entire session.  We celebrated her birthday the next Saturday and in this short meeting I know we will continue to be friends with each other.  Everyone please meet Judith and share her story so that it might bless someone else.

1. What type of cancer were you diagnosed with and when?

I was diagnosed with Breast Cancer, Stage 1A on February 6, 2016.

2. How old were you when you were diagnosed?

I was 52 years old when I was diagnosed.

3. What/Who helped you get through your treatment?

My faith in God is what helped me through the diagnosis, the lumpectomy, the radiation treatment, and the medication treatment. My family, as well as my friends who are breast cancer survivors, have also helped me through the process.

4. When were you deemed Cancer Free?

I was deemed Cancer-Free April 5, 2016.

5. What did you do to celebrate that special day and your anniversary day?

I had a Celebration of Life PINK Party at the Rusty Scupper and every year on or around my birthday, I will have a Pink Party Celebration.

 6. Do you have any special charities that you are involved in or host as a survivor

I participate in the Making Strides Against Breast Cancer Walk as a Survivor. I am also a member of the Eydies' Angel Club, which is a part of the Edith P. Wright Breast Cancer Foundation, Inc. 

 7. What advice would you give to someone that is just being diagnosed?

Hey everyone!!  It's Survivor Saturday and today I bring you Mrs. Charelle Barnes.  She came to the session with her son who was so attentive to his mother and so sweet.  Charelle's personality is larger than life and she knows how to have a good time.  I have been doing these sessions for a while now and I have not had one with a person that has been given a terminal diagnosis.  Hearing Charelle's story really touched me and to see her still working and taking care of her family was inspiring to say the least.  Please read her story and keep her and her family in your prayers.  Please meet Charelle...

1. What type of cancer were you diagnosed with and when?

I was diagnosed with cervical cancer on May 10, 1994 just less than 2 months shy of my 21st birthday. I didn’t know what cervical cancer was or how you could get it. My doctor scheduled my surgery date less than a week later. After having surgery, I was advised that all the cancer had been removed, but I would never have children. I was devastated because I was so young and all I ever wanted to do was get married and to be a mon. As it turns out, I got pregnant and had my first child on April 23rd, 1995. I tried breast-feeding my son, but he would not latch on. When I went in for my six-week check-up, the doctor found a lump and recommended testing. After all the testing was done the results came back that I had breast cancer. I had a lumpectomy this time I had to have chemotherapy and radiation. Between all that, I got married on July 7th, 1995. After finishing radiation, I was told I was CANCER FREE. In early 1996, I started not to feel well but I didn’t think anything of it. Went in for a check-up and he doctor was concerned because my blood counts were a little off and I told him how I’d been feeling and the pains I was having in my chest. He ran more test and I was told my cancer had returned. It was a Stage IIIB, like I really knew what that meant. The oncologist recommended that I get a double breast mastectomy. I had no one to talk to because there was no one my age going through or had gone through what I was going through. I talked with my husband and he said I’m behind you whatever you decide I’m not going anywhere. I prayed about it and decided not to have it. My doctor was furious but the decision was mine to make and live with the consequences. I was scheduled for surgery and started chemotherapy shortly after. I was going in to have my bloodwork done to get my 2nd chemo treatment and was told I was pregnant. I gave birth to my second son on December 31st, 1996 and immediately started back on chemotherapy.

In 2010, at the age of 36, I was told my cancer had metastasized to my lung, stomach, bone, and brain. My cancer is now terminal. In 2012, the doctors gave me a year and then less than 6 months to live. I’ve out lived that time frame. I’m still here; I’m still fighting.

2. What/Who helped you get through your treatment?

My family, especially my husband, and my relationship with God. (and not wanting another taking my place😀)

3. What did you do to celebrate that special day and your anniversary day?

I've only celebrated once and that was when I celebrated my 20th Warriorversary. I went out to lunch with my bff Shay and her mom Ms. Jackie and we had brunch with a cake.

4. Do you have any special charities that you are involved in or host as a survivor?

Shay Sharpe's Pink Wishes

5. What advice would you give to someone that is just being diagnosed?

After a short break to take vacation and get some much needed rest; I am back with another SURVIVOR!!!  Tonyia came to her session with a heavy heart after losing a loved one but she pushed through and we had a great time.  Tonyia had a smile and even though some tears were shed we still had an amazing time getting to know each other.  Everyone meet Tonyia! 

What type of Cancer were you diagnosed with and when?

I was diagnosed with stage 2b cervical cancer is February 2006. But only after having suffered severe pains and bleeding for 3 years leading up to a final diagnosis. 

2. How old were you when you were diagnosed?

I was just turning 30 years old.

 3. What/Who helped you get through your treatment?

I suffered in silence and was very alone from the very beginning of my process. I suffered from bleeding and pain in a way that I couldn't explain to people without feeling like I was complaining too much. Family members and friends knew something was wrong but I didn't confide in the truth until after having the cancer removed. 

 4. When were you deemed Cancer Free?

I was deemed cancer free in January 2007 at my 6 week follow up after a full hysterectomy 

5. What did you do to celebrate that special day and your anniversary day?

Honestly I don't have a ritual. I find myself celebrating being cancer free spontaneously. It hits me every so often and I GO OFF! I sing I cry I write...I just PRAISE God that I'm here!

6. Do you have any special charities that you are involved in or host as a survivor?

I have been active in a few charities since feeling comfortable enough to share my cancer story. I am currently the D.C. Chapter Leader for the National Cervical Cancer Coalition (NCCC). I've also been a part of Cervivor a Cervical Cancer awareness organization created and ran by Tamika Felder and We Can-Cer Vive an organization geared to supporting suffers, survivors and caregivers of ALL affected by cancer created and ran by Mia Wright.

7. What advice would you give to someone that is just being diagnosed?

Hello everyone!  It's Survivor Saturday with Ms. Vatesha!  We had a time trying to get this session scheduled but she was a trooper and we got it done.  We had a great time and laughed so much during this session!  I love a person that can laugh through life and have a great time.  This school teacher came ready to get her glam on and pose for her life!  Everyone please meet Vatesha...

1. What type of cancer were you diagnosed with and when?

          Breast Cancer- diagnosed February 27, 2014

When I was diagnosed back in 2014, I was diagnosed at stage 2B, which meant that my cancer had spread into my lymph nodes. From the time I received the news until I began treatment was a whirlwind. I got the news in February and my team of doctors wanted to start treatment right away. Because I was so young and had no kids, it was suggested that I see a fertility specialist about getting my eggs frozen. During the month of March I was under the care of Shady Grove Fertility Clinic and I had my eggs frozen. Soon after I began my chemo treatment on April 4, 2014. I finished on July 11, 2014. A month later on August 20, 2014 I received a lumpectomy to remove the tumor and the lymph nodes affected by the cancer. Finally from September from to November I received radiation.

Upon diagnosis, my family, friends, and colleagues were there for me from the very start. I had so much support from everyone that it was overwhelming. I was so grateful for all the love and support I received. It really gave me the strength I needed to fight and beat the disease.

2. How old were you when you were diagnosed?

            36

3. What/Who helped you get through your treatment?

           My faith in God, my family, my best friends, colleagues, my sorority sisters

4. When were you deemed Cancer Free?

           August 20, 2014

5. What did you do to celebrate that special day and your anniversary day?

            Participated in the Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer walk with family, friends, sorority sisters Had a big dinner party at one of my favorite restaurants

6. Do you have any special charities that you are involved in or host as a survivor?

            Participate in the Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer walk back home in Charlotte, NC

7. What advice would you give to someone that is just being diagnosed?

After a week off we are back with another Survivor at Catherine Rae Photography. Let me tell you that I love the Hawkins family!!!!  LaQuisha came to her shoot ready to go and her two sisters accompanied her!  They were a blast to have over for the session.  We laughed, changed lipstick and just had a great time.  They are a close family and their sisterhood and love for each other was evident.  Please read LaQuisha's story and share with all you know!  Everyone, meet LaQuisha!

1.  What type of cancer were you diagnosed with and when?

I was diagnosed with Breast cancer Stage 0 DCIS and I was diagnosed on March 14. I had gone to the doctor(on March 4) for a severe headache that I had had for a couple of days that wouldn’t go away after taking medication while I was there the doctor saidit was time I have my mammogram so I took it that day and on March 10 the doctor called to say that it was abnormal could I come back in to retake it so I did and they saw calcium deposits in my right breast so I was asked to take a biopsy that same day (Friday, March 11). Then on Monday, March 14  on my day off while I was shopping in Target I got the call that I did in fact have breast Cancer Stage 0 DCIS(Ductal Carcinoma in Situ) which means in place that it has not spread. Needless to say I was devastated and couldn’t even finish shopping or drive myself home. I managed to call my Mom and she sent my Dad and cousin to come and pick me up.

2.  How old were you when you was diagnosed?

I was 45 when I was diagnosed.

3.  What/who helped you get through your treatment?

My faith in GOD and my family/friends have been and still are my ROCK. I never questioned God as to why this happened to me I just trusted that He would get me through and He did. He says I will never leave you nor forsake you and my family and friends were there right from the start when I first got the news and have been there ever since every step of the way changing their eating habits with me, going to doctor’s appointments, throwing me a Pink and White Party just being there for me for anything that I needed and I’m truly so thankful and blessed to have them.

4.  When were you deemed cancer free?

I  had a mastectomy and reconstruction on JULY 22 so I am happy to say that I am cancer free. It has been 7 months and although I’m still getting adjusted to this new boob for the most part I feel great and very grateful that I didn’t have to do chemo or radiation. PRAISE GOD so yeah I am BLESSED!!!!

5.  What did you do to celebrate that special day and your anniversary day?

I haven’t really celebrated and I’m not sure what I will do on my 1 year Cancerversary I’m just thankful and grateful to be here to share my story so that it may help someone else.

6.  Do you have any special charities that you are involved in or host as a survivor?

Not as of yet

7.  What advice would you give to someone that is just being diagnosed?

Hello everyone!  Survivor Saturday belongs to Shanicka Rice.  Shanicka came with the most amazing wardrobe and was ready to embrace her full inner diva and was more than joyful to have this session!  Breast cancer was and is not stopping this young lady from living her life.  Her amazing husband was at the session also to offer his support as well.  We had a good time and just laughed and talked.  It is truly amazing to hear what each of these women have gone through.  Everyone please meet Shanicka and read her story!

 1. What type of cancer were you diagnosed with and when? Breast; 12/28/2010 & 11/14/2016

Well it was the second week in September 2016, almost 6 years after my initial Stage 1 BC dx. I was scheduled to see my plastic surgeon for my annual exam. I wasn't going to go because my implant felt fine. I'd already had five surgeries and I didn't want to endure another, so I had made my mind up and decided I wasn't going. The day of something just told me to call the plastic surgeon's office and that's what I did. After briefly speaking with the receptionist I decided I'd leave work and make my way downtown to Mercy Medical Ctr from Middle River. After a little wait, I saw Dr Chang. He examined my right breast which was my natural breast, the breast I paid more attention to because I always felt like if cancer reared its hideous self in my body again, it would be there. I had some sagging, but I was OK with that. My husband is fine with it , I'm fine with it and most importantly I didn't want a sixth surgery. So he gets to the left (my January 2011 mastectomy side). He says "you have something here under the skin that doesn't feel right; you need to get in with your breast surgeon". I've had a few scares in the past, so I was hoping it was just like the others- just some scar tissue or something of that nature. So on the way home from my plastic surgeon visit, I made a call to my breast surgeon whom I hadn't seen in close to four years. That next week my husband and I went to see him. He told me, there is something there so let's just get you in for ultrasound. So when I got home from the appointment, I  called advanced radiology. They had an appointment a few weeks out and it didn't seem urgent, so I took that date. I had the ultrasound which showed suspicion. The radiologist told me to get in touch with my doctor, then schedule the biopsy. I told her "no, I'm scheduling today". So that's what I did, and had it the next week. On 11/14, I got a phone call. The young lady on the other end of the phone said your breast surgeon wants to know when you'd like to come in. I replied "come in for what?" She says to discuss treatment options. I had just walked through the security gate at my job, planning to do a full days work.

I was able to do almost that , but around 1:30 it hit me like a ton of bricks. Over the following few weeks the devastation started to consume me. I couldn't believe this was happening to me again- 37 years old with BC twice. I did everything as the doctors instructed and was even on Tamoxifen, and not only did it return in the removed breast but it had spread to my lymph nodes. I had just celebrated my five year cancerversary of my last chemo on June 2. I went through so much emotional turmoil. I felt like I was not going to be here much longer. I also had thoughts of not doing treatment and just riding it out until God wanted to call me home by traveling to places I've never been, doing things I've never done and just living life to the absolute fullest with no worries, no treatment until it was my time to leave earth.  But here I am now. Had extensive surgery in December, today had my six of sixteen round of chemotherapy. I have another surgery ahead of me to redo my 2011 mastectomy that left too much breast tissue, reconstruction to my right mastectomy and port removal, then after I heal 30 rounds of radiation. After all of that is done, I also have to go on hormone therapy which will also change my life and not for the better. However, as long as I am here to share love and laughter with my loved ones, travel the world, truly feel good mentally, spiritually and emotionally and look good while doing it,  then I'm good with that!

2. How old were you when you were diagnosed?

31 & 37

3. What/Who helped you get through your treatment?

My will to watch my son grow up to be successful is the what. My husband, aunt, mom in law, sister friends & loved ones who visited me during surgery, recovery & treatment is The Who.

4. When were you deemed Cancer Free?

I consider my cancer free date 6/2/2011 my cancer free date as it was my last chemo in my first battle. 

5. What did you do to celebrate that special day and your anniversary day?

My husband gave me (and my brother in law who has renal failure) a surprise survivor party

6. Do you have any special charities that you are involved in or host as a survivor?

I am a mentor through S.O.S. (survivor's offering support) & Making Strides Baltimore

7. What advice would you give to someone that is just being diagnosed?

I often am asked, "What led you to featuring cancer survivors?"  The answer is simple; everyone has a story and everyone should share their story to help the next person who they might not even know!  Just because an individual goes through cancer doesn't define them and I hope that this experience gives a little beauty back to the person because cancer wears a person down in so many ways.  This week our Survivor is Camille a breast cancer survivor and here is her story:

1. When and what type of cancer were you diagnosed with?

I was diagnosed twice with right breast cancer after I felt a palpable lump during self breast examinations both times.  The first time was in June 2004 at age 26 years old (one month before my 27th birthday) and the second diagnosis recently at age 38 in December 2015 (about a week before Christmas).  I was diagnosed with Triple Negative Breast Cancer both times in Stage 1, but with the most recent breast cancer I learned that the cells also have a “Grade” and my pathology report showed that my Grade was a 3, which meant that the cells in my tumor were poorly differentiated and more aggressive this time around.  A Triple Negative Breast Cancer diagnosis also meant that I had fewer options for treatment and could not be treated with hormone therapy such as Tamoxifen because it would not respond to that type of treatment.  I don’t have any family history of “breast” cancer although other types of cancer does run in my family.  I did genetic testing in 2004 BRACA 1 and 2 to see if I carried a gene mutation that could be passed on to my children.  I have two children - a 19 year old daughter and a 11 year old son. My daughter was 8 years old at the time of my first cancer diagnosis and my son wasn’t born yet (he was born a year later in 2005). The genetic testing came back negative.  I also did genetic testing after my recent diagnosis in January 2016.  When I met with the genetic counselor, she told me that there were more test now then back when I had the previous testing in 2004 to check for various gene mutations that they didn’t know about back then.  All the test came back negative, which was a relief for me but still didn’t answer where did the cancer came from.  I decided to go with an entirely different medical care team with the second diagnosis which consisted of an oncologist, breast surgeon, plastic surgeon, and my primary care physician.  Every year after I had my first breast cancer diagnosis, I had my mammograms and was clear each time with negative findings for any malignancy.  Around 2010, when I went to get my annual mammogram the radiologist started seeing areas that they wanted to further evaluate and biopsy in both breast, but the findings were all benign (no cancer) until December 2015 when the cancer came back.  Each year after 2010 was a very nerve wrecking experience when I went for my annual mammogram screenings.  I opted to have a double mastectomy with nipple sparring breast reconstruction after my second diagnosis.  I had made up my mind that I was going to do whatever I could to lessen the chances of a recurrence so I could live as long as possible.  I met with my oncologist and nurse and we discussed my treatment plan.  It was strongly suggested by my oncologist that I do chemotherapy this time around, which I dreaded (I will terrified of chemotherapy) but again hoped that maximum treatment would give maximum results.  My oncologist during the first diagnosis felt that chemotherapy would not make too much of a difference as apart of my treatment plan due to the size of the tumor, clean margins and no lymph node activity. I was also younger and wanted to have another child. The chemotherapy drug that was suggested could push you into early menopause and cause infertility. I had a strong survival prognosis with my first cancer diagnosis. I went 11 years without a recurrence. During this second diagnosis my treatment plan included the chemotherapy drug - Adriamycin (also known as the “red devil”), Cytoxan and Taxol.  This type of chemotherapy is harsh and causes alot of side effects, but my oncologist prepared me as much as possible with anti-nausea meds, nutrition plans, and other helpful resources. I read as much as I could to cope with all the symptoms and physical changes, but to actually go through it was another story.  I lost every strand of hair on my head and body.  My hair started coming out a lot after my second chemotherapy treatment. I tried to have some control over the situation and asked my husband to shave my head on April 20, 2016. I will never forget that day!  I actually started chemotherapy on March 31st, almost a month earlier.  My plastic surgeon had inserted the tissue expanders during my double mastectomy. The tissue expanders were hard and uncomfortable but their purpose is to stretch out the muscle in preparation for the breast implants. I had several complications while getting chemotherapy throughout my entire treatment which resulted in a total of 5 surgeries from Feb - Dec 2016.  To make a long story short - the previously radiated skin on the right breast from my first breast cancer would not heal from my original double mastectomy surgery in February 2016. The surgeon tried all kinds of ways to get it to heal but the skin was so damaged that the wound underneath my breast just would not heal.  I had to get the right tissue expander and my right nipple removed in May 2016. My surgeon and I discussed me having a latissimus dorsal flap procedure. He wanted to basically take muscle from my back to reconstruct my right breast, but suggested that we wait until I was done with chemotherapy for that procedure. He also had to insert a new tissue expander on the right side after my chemotherapy was completed.  I completed my entire chemotherapy treatment plan on August 18, 2016 surrounded by the infusion center staff, my husband, and my mom. I rang that bell and got out of there as quickly as I could! It was such a relief. What a long journey, but I was finally done for real after several delays due to complications and my treatment plan had been extended at least 2 or 3 times.  It had gotten to the point that I didn’t want to discuss what I thought would be my last actual date to be finished because my oncologist had to change my treatment plan due to all the issues that occured during treatment.   I really had a tough time, but I made it to the end. I experinced so many side effects that included things such as a bladder reaction - frequency and urinary spasms, intense itching, skin peeling, fingernail discoloration/nail loss, neuropathy in my hands and feet, excessive weight loss - I lost around 24 pounds and really felt grateful that part was finally over and I could begin to live again.  I could finally look forward to building myself back up physically and mentally.  I was off from work for about 6 months and was looking forward to getting back to my “norm” again.

2. Who helped you get through your treatments?

My husband and my mom helped me get through my treatment.  They were a HUGE support system for me. My mom bought vegetables, fruits, and whatever else she thought would be helpful to almost every infusion appointment.  My husband cooked every meal and took care of everything at home.  I never had to go to a doctor’s appointment or chemotherapy treatment alone. They sat with me during EVERY treatment no matter how irritated or unpleasant my attitude was on some days -they were there. I also got support in various ways from other family members and a few close friends and co-workers.  I got text, phone calls, cards, flowers, meals delivered, and gifts which reminded me that I was being thought of almost daily or at least weekly and I wasn't alone in my fight to battle cancer.  I am a very independent and a private person that would have probably tried to do everything alone but I am so glad that I accepted all the support that I received.  It was overwhelming at times, but so appreciated.  I am and I will always be very grateful.  I even got a surprise at my final chemotherapy infusion from a friend that I haven’t seen in years.  She was one of my closest childhood friends. I've known her since elementary school.  We hugged and cried - that moment was so special and priceless in the middle of waiting room of the infusion center.

3. When were you given the all clear?

I was actually deemed cancer free when I had my double mastectomy on February 16, 2016. That was the big surgery where the cancer was removed.  I can’t believe that it’s been almost a year already.  I plan to set the tone with this 1st anniversary and do something special for myself like this Survivor photoshoot every year moving forward. Enjoy time with my family - maybe we’ll go out to a nice quiet dinner that evening.  I can really celebrate on my birthday this summer in July that I made it to 40 and pray that God blesses me with many more. I am planning either a big party or trip.

4. Do you work with any charitites or have one of your own?

I am not affiliated in any special charities at this time.  I hope to get involved and mentor other survivors in the near future.  I have done breast cancer walks and given donations to various charities in the past.

5.  What would you like to tell someone who might have been just diagnosed?

Crystal Jones is out feature for this Survivor Saturday!  She is a ball of energy and we are not FAMILY!!! She has an amazing personality and we hit it off immediately!  She came to slay for her session and we laughed the entire time she was at the session!  Her strength and joy is infectious and I can't wait for you all to read about Crystal....

1. What type of cancer were you diagnosed with and when

I am diagnosed with non Hodgkin lymphoma

2. How old were you when you were diagnosed?

I was 47 years old

3. What/Who helped you get through your treatment?

My family and friends. My partner of 6 years decided to cheat with someone I thought was a friend, so not only was I dealing with that, the cancer attacked my kidneys which they had to treat before the cancer with dialysis.

4. When were you deemed Cancer Free?

That hasn't happened for me yet

5. What did you do to celebrate that special day and your anniversary day?

I celebrate every day I'm alive!  I've traveled to places where I wish I could visit and thought I'd never see... like Paris.

6. Do you have any special charities that you are involved in or host as a survivor?

Yes, light the night walk. Also sharing my story of survival not only cancer, kidneys and betrayal

7. What would you say to someone that is just being diagnosed?

Hey everyone!!! It's Saturday and today I am featuring this bright light known as Lynette Franklin!  She was so grateful for the is opportunity to tell her story and to help others.  During our session it was emotional for Lynette and this was part of her healing process and her moving forward in life.  Most time people that have cancer get stuck and these sessions are to remind them of their beauty and to help them see that IT ISN'T OVER, but a fresh start!  Everyone meet Lynette...

October 15, 2013 At the age of 38 I sat in my car and read a medical report which confirmed my biggest fear…I HAD BREAST CANCER.

On that day my life changed forever. Mentally, physically and emotionally I had to prepare myself for the battle of my life. Things that mattered previously no longer mattered and things that never mattered now mattered the most. I had no choice but to regroup. I had to keep praying, trusting and believing as I had always done before.

At this time I was a solider in the United States Army. I was hundreds of miles away form my family and friends. The ones whom loved me the most and would pray the hardest for me were the furthest away from me. During the emotional journey I was blessed with prayer warriors. They would pray for me when I was too weak to pray for myself.

I was blessed with women, ‘sistas’ near and far who encouraged me, inspired me and prayed with me and for me. I endured chemotherapy, radiation, a bilateral mastectomy and reconstructive surgery. This journey tested me on every level.

However, through my heartache, hurt and scars I am thankful and forever grateful for this part of my journey. It made me dig deep and prove to myself what I was truly made of. God has used me to create awareness, promote self-examination and encourage each other spirits.

AMAZING is the word I use to describe Doretha.  She was so appreciative of the session and grateful for our time together.  I had a blast with her and her daughter.  Shecame ready to be photographed and had the most up beat personality!  Doretha is a force to be reckoned with and she is a mover and shaker.  Please read her story and share with others so they might be encouraged.

1.      What type of cancer were you diagnosed with and when?

I was diagnosed on January 3, 2007.  I was diagnosed with Stage II Breast Cancer and it was an aggressive form of breast cancer.

2.      How old were you when you were diagnosed?

I was 50 years old at the time when I was diagnosed.

3.      What/Who helped you get through your treatment?

My lovely daughter, Andrea, my granddaughter, Jayla and at the time my significant other, Jim helped me get through my treatments.  My granddaughter, Jayla was only 2 years old and she would accompany her mom to my treatment and would sit right next to me in a chair as I was administered chemotherapy.  She is now 12 years old and she supports me along with her mom, Andrea on anything I do regarding workshops, walks, etc.  I am truly blessed with my support system now ten years later. At the time of my treatments, I was living in PA and my sisters drove there to visit me.  A friend, Jean, was the brave soul that came to the house to shave my head, which was devastating to see the hair fall to the floor. Having the faith, strength and courage to battle this disease, breast cancer, made me mad and angry for a little and getting mad with it made me push harder to fight it.

4.      When were you deemed Cancer Free?

I considered myself cancer free as soon as I went thru my surgery and was told by my oncologist that I was cancer-free.

5.      What did you do to celebrate that special day and your anniversary day?

To celebrate that special day and my anniversaries and actually EVERY DAY, I spend time talking and praying to GOD to thank him for allowing me to see another day and keeping me cancer-free.  Normally we go out to dinner to celebrate , but this anniversary date which was my 10 year anniversary,(Jan. 3, 2017), my morning started off at Patient First to get checked for a bad cold that I had picked up and I wasn’t feeling well.  So, sometimes plans do not go as we want, but one thing for sure, I was getting checked out by the doctors by having blood work performed.  So even though I was not able to celebrate as I had planned, I am still fine with the day because I am ALIVE and CANCER-FREE. After I left Patient First feeling relieved that it was nothing but a cold virus, I proceeded to Macy’s to catch a few after Christmas salesJ.  I had a nice quiet day to myself and shopped.  I made the best of the day and will continue to celebrate EVERY DAY! I NEVER work on my anniversary date.  That date is ALL ABOUT ME! After all, I deserve it from all the cries, .treatments… chemotherapy, radiation, surgery, Herceptin and the many prescriptions needed to help with the recovery.

6.      Do you have any special charities that you are involved in or host as a survivor?

I formed a 501 c3 breast cancer foundation, “Y-U Breast Cancer Foundation”.  Our mission is to take 3-4 women per year on a Road to Recovery Excursion.  The day is all about her.  Thus far, we have granted 3 women for the trips.  We actually returned from a road trip on Dec.29, 2016 as the last one for 2016.  Our breast cancer survivor chose to tour Washington, DC.  Her mother from Florida accompanied us along with our marketing director.  We had a great time touring the Thomas Jefferson Building, The Library of Congress, and The Supreme Court and then we had the opportunity to ride the Big Bus Washington DC, where we enjoyed a lovely bus ride for 2 hours.  We finished our trip with dinner at The Cheesecake Factory in Annapolis. I usually fund these trips from my own monies because we do not a lot of fundraising events and funding, but I do know one day real soon someone will donate lots of money to us so we can get that RV to take these women on the excursions.  For now, I put the “Road to Recovery” signs on my car and we keep it moving.  I have faith that we will get the funding needed to keep these trips for the women battling breast cancer!

 7.      What would you say to someone that is just being diagnosed?

I know first-hand how devastating it can be to hear the words “you have cancer”. Please know that you are not alone.  There are many of us willing to call you, talk with you, cry with you and do anything that we can to comfort you.  You will begin to converse with people about varies subjects and you will find that more times than not, many of the people that you talk with have either been diagnosed with cancer or is a care-giver to someone who has or is currently battling cancer.  Stay strong and focused, pray and keep the faith!

As I get older, I grow to appreciate home the more I travel back.  The small town of Atwater, California that I grew up in, where nothing ever happened now has a movement that is uniting humanity in a time when it is most needed.  Human. was started by Stephen Hillyer while he was a student at Buhach Colony High school and he now attends UC Davis where he a Senior and Psychology major.

Human. is a movement dedicated to pursuing respect and equality for all people. The organization is steadfast on removing labels that society has implemented and they are advocates for EVERYONE!  The cores values for this company are easy and if you believe in them then you should show support by joining the movement.  They are RESPECT for all human beings, Envision all human beings as EQUAL and, ADVOCATE for those that are marginalized, singled out, groups and communities.

When you get behind this movement and you see another person in this apparel, it is an understanding that you see each other only as a HUMAN.  That you can respect differences, treat the person fairly and as you would want to be treated and you will advocate on their behalf should they ever need you to do so.  I was in awe of the drive for this organization and had a wonderful time visiting this family with such a sincere heart for change and equality.  With every purchase a sweatshirt is donated to the local homeless population of Merced County.

Hello everyone! Meet Jasmine the most recent to grace the blog as a cancer survivor.  Jasmine's session started calm and quiet as she didn't know exactly what to expect but once she sat in the makeup chair and the music started she was all in for this session!  Jasmine has the sweetest spirit and we had a great time.  Please read her story, like and share on social media to help raise awareness.

Jasmine was diagnosed with Stage 3 Colon Cancer at the age of 23 in March 2016. She is currently 24 turning 25 in May.

What/Who helped you get through your diagnosis?

That was the most difficult time for me but with the help of God, family and friends I got through it. My mom and dads side helped out a lot and helped me to see things in a positive way. My friends and family took me to my appointments and came over to keep me company. My friends were always there to cheer me up and to make sure I wasn't down. I leaned on God when I needed strength and he gave it to me, he might have made me wait but he never failed me! Another reason why it's was difficult was because I was told I wouldn't be able to have children unless I got my eggs frozen and that I would have to get my ovaries moved up and one taken out so I wouldn't go into menopause at a early age. I did complete those procedures. I was on chemo April 2016 to may 2016 and had radiation for 6 weeks as well everyday. The radiation caused me to have pain urinating and having a bowel movement.

When were you deemed Cancer free? August 2016 is when I had my surgery to get my Cancer out. They also put a ileostomy bag on me for 8months. I was then cancer free. My pathology report came back negative for no signs of cancer. I was on chemo for four months just to make sure it didn't come back. I finished chemo January 15, 2017. I will get my ileostomy bag off in April of 2017. 

What do you do to celebrate your anniversary? I officially celebrated going into remission January 15. I went out with some friends and had a great time and the next weekend spend the weekend at Massenuttin resort in Virginia with a girlfriend, the celebration is still not over. I celebrate everyday for getting a second chance at life!

Do you have any special charities that you are involved in or host as a survivor? I am involved with the organization We Cancervive. I give back to any one affected by cancer who is in need when I can. I go out and support the organization when they have fundraiser functions. It makes me happy when I can help out a cause like this. We are survivors. 

When I started this journey to help women that have survived various forms of cancer, little did I know that these women would be so grateful for this small opportunity to have their portraits taken.  So much is taken from them in the time of their diagnosis and treatment that I wanted to be able to give back something fun and exciting.  All of these women have a story and I wanted to hightlight them and give them a chance to tell their stories.  Tabatha Smith is the newest Survivor to grace my blog and share her story!  You never know who you can help! Meet Tabatha...

I was diagnosed with stage 2A breast cancer at the age of 24. The date to be exact was March 24,2016, 3 days after I started a new job . While getting in the shower one day I decided to give myself a breast check, my right breast felt  great , so I moved over to my left breast , as I went around my breast it felt great , I decided to touch my left nipple and I felt a lump right behind my nipple .  I thought about it for awhile , as I started praying.  Cancer came across my mind, I prayed "God give me strength". I finally stepped  out the shower and went on about my day. I called my twin sister and I asked her what was the name of the Breast doctor.. she replied to me as she was giving  me the information and stated to me  you are ok, no worries, as I told her I found a lump in my left breast . I found the lump in my left breast in February 2016. I made an appt with the doctor, he did an ultra sound, felt my breast as well and stated to me I looked great and he was 100% sure it was no cancer and nothing to worry about!  I went home after leaving the doctor still praying and talking to God! I prayed that God would guide me and lead me in the right direction. I arrived home and my gut feeling told me "something is not right" I Went back to the doctor and I stated to him you have to give me a biopsy , It's the only way you can prove to me you are right!

He stated to me he did not have time for that, that day and my ultra sound was Normal .. I stated "well I have all day so I am not going anywhere until I get one" so finally he did the biopsy...he then stated "Tabatha your breast look great with no signs of cancer." Weeks and weeks went by , and I heard the results "your results came back as cancer."  I started talking to God, I called my mother and told her , she then hung up in my face. I never told my mom I had found a lump in my breast from the beginning.  I then called Darius and he stated I'm coming to get you , I replied back , it's ok I'll make it home . I made it to my car and drove with tears just flowing and talking to God. I stated to God , if you bring me to it, you will bring me through it! I never even realized I was strong, I believe I surprised my own self.

The best thing about this personal project for me is all of the amazing women that I am meeting through this and the stories that I am hearing!  Ms. Mia Wright is no exception and we had a great time laughing and talking during her photography session.  Here is Mia's survivor story!

Mia Wright is a lover of all things fashion forward, she is full of life, and a three-time ovarian cancer survivor. Mia was originally diagnosed in 1999 at the age of 23, experienced a recurrence in 2007, and overcame a terminal diagnosis in 2013. Mia triumphed in her fight against this disease, and now uses her experience to help advocate and educate other women on the importance of recognizing the silent signs of ovarian cancer. Creating creating a nonprofit organization called We Can-Cer vive (WCV). WCV is a 501 (c)(3) cancer awareness, patient advocacy nonprofit organization that supports cancer patients and survivors financially, physically, and spiritually. WCV also educates the community on prevention, risk factors, signs and symptoms, as well as, raise funds to support cancer trials in hopes of finding a cure for cancer. She has been honored and received numerous awards for her creative and authentic way of encouraging everyone in her presence or attendance at her numerous events-not just the CANCER HEROES participating- to candidly and openly share health experiences, information related to care, and network with others. Mia’s inspiring story and message will be featured in an upcoming cancer anthology, as well as, her own personal memoir.

Mia wrote this in an essay...I should be dead. At least that's what oncologist wanted me to believe. The disease that has plagued me for the past 15 years had returned and quite frankly, at stage IV, there was nothing left to do. It was over. My doctor suggested palliative care: hospice. Mind you, months earlier I had a routine PET scan, which included a biopsy, which demanded having my right ovary and fallopian tube removed along with a teeny, tiny portion of my colon uprooted and reconstruct it. My recovery plan – initially – was simple: radiation therapy treatments. Which oscillated into a chemotherapy/radiation cocktail that eventually would produce absolutely no success of shutting out, ejecting or even destroying this ugly, awful illness -cancer. The harsh reality: I was getting worse. I was dying. Period. Still very desperate to live. And while I prayed feverishly to God asking, no begging to be healed I also stalked the internet for any answer… any cure. I was willing to do anything at this point. After calling several Mayo clinics, Cancer Centers of America, even as far as Paris, France, I unearthed a highly effective, yet dangerously experimental, chemotherapy drug called Avastin. Avastin drugmakers vaunted about improving the survival rate of ovarian cancer patients who have been unsuccessful with all the chemotherapy drugs. But Avastin was FDA approved for colon cancer, not ovarian cancer. And even though part of my colon was affected, in the crazy cancer world the area where you are initially diagnosed is the type of cancer you always have. Let me give you an example: I'm diagnosed with ovarian cancer. It moves to my toe. I don't have ovarian and toe cancer. No, I have ovarian cancer that metastasized (moved) to my toe. Despite how excellent Avastin appeared to benefit my fight, it was considered not conventional and my insurance company was not going to pay one dollar towards any such treatments. The side effects alone -they warned – from this marvel drug could kill me. Internal bleeding, liver failure, kidney damage, severely damaged bones and teeth. I didn't care. The fact that it would probably cost me an estimated $48,000 per treatment and I would need at least 10 didn't even ruffle my feathers at all. I just wanted...no I needed to be cured and I didn't care how. I was going to make a way!"