Ebb and Flow

she’s beauty she’s grace her passport’s just a face

I shouldn’t be laughing this hard

you should never date someone for the sake of dating someone. you should be good friends, if not best friends with your partner. if you cant go to your partner for personal advice, if youre afraid to call your partner out on something, if you cant laugh and have fun with your partner, or if your conversations are only ever performative affection, you don’t have a good relationship

“if your conversations are only ever performative affection” woah my bones grew more bones and shook 

I told my coworker that I really wanted a baby girl, and she told me all about how raising a girl was so much harder. Because she had 3 boys and 1 girl, and her daughter wanted to be treated like her brothers. She told me all about how she forced her daughter to wear dresses, be pretty, wouldn’t let her cut her hair. She said that when the boys started to be involved in sports, that she did too. So she pushed her into dance classes. And as this went on, it was such a surreal moment. This is why we have so many unhappy, trans, nb teens on our hands. This poor girl.

She wanted to be a person but was forced to be a decoration.

Gender obsessed parents be like: it is so hard to raise a daughter, it is so difficult to completely destroy her personality and then fill her up with vanity and sexism

girlhood is being treated like a bonsai tree

my sense of humor: getting birthday cards with the wildly incorrect age on it for people

this is now available in prints, stickers, shirts and more! my shop 💌

obsessed with those stone stairs and archways in the middle of the woods that remain standing after the rest of the building has fallen to ruin

Don’t walk up the stairs

if i want to get abducted by the fae that’s MY choice and you can’t stop me

This is what it feels like to be in training at a new job