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Pirate!

We all are here for a reason, and there are many reasons to be here. Everyone wants to feel needed, included and even flirted with, we all have a need to be desirable. Please keep in mind that we are emotional little animals and can take things to heart.

If all you want is playtime and nudies, be up front about it, don't hide what you want because there are others that want the same thing. Some of us are fragile and don't want to be manipulated.

If you want romance, make it clear as to what you desire. Don't let someone guess what you want, only you know the answer to that, we're not mind readers.

If all you want in a relationship is to have someone guide and encourage you, let them know. Don't wait until they try to expand the relationship and get hurt because they didn't know.

Be honest in all your words and actions, it'll come back to bite you if you aren't.

Giving yourself over to someone is a very serious decision, don't let them rush you, make it clear up front what you want and need. Likewise, taking on someone as a sub or little is an extremely important role. Take time, lots of time to decide, keep them in the loop.

Be upfront if all you are seeking is friendship and not a serious relationship. Is it possible for something to arise from the friendship? You bet, just always be communicating. Don't be upset if they don't reciprocate, they have been living off of your initial intentions.

If all you want is a high headcount on your blog, don't flirt and tease people to get you there. These are real people with real emotions, not numbers.

If someone messages you or sends you Asks, respond. I don't care who you are and how many DMs you think you get, everyone deserves a response. Be open about your intentions, but for crying out loud, these people invested time in you to message, message everyone back. Trust me, you're not that important to brush someone off.

I want to make one thing very clear, if you do develop a relationship with someone and do move to the sexual aspect of it, aftercare is the most important thing that you can do. Do not, and I mean never ever have playtime then immediately leave. If you don't have time for aftercare, you certainly don't have time for playtime. Both parties need aftercare, it is more important of a connection than the sexual portion.