hi ^.^ I’m Bee! I’m a disabled, Australian lesbian and after lurking on wlw tumblr for literal years, I’ve finally bucked up the courage to start a lil sideblog of my own!
some housekeeping:
this is an NSFW blog. if you are under 18, you should not be here. I will block you without a second thought because this content is not for you.
cis men are not welcome here. there’s plenty of other porn & erotica for you, don’t invade spaces that aren’t yours. Don’t follow me, don’t like my posts, don’t reblog them, don’t message me or send me asks. If you interact with my blog I will block you.
trans, nonbinary, intersex and he/him lesbians are welcome here <3 love your work babes.
I will not post or send pics so don’t ask. I’m not comfortable with that.
I do post writing when I feel like it. I tag it with #sweet pea fantasy. feel free to reblog them, put cute/hot comments in the tags if you wish, absolutely tell me if they get you off, just don’t be creepy about it, k?
feel free to send me asks but be gentle with me. there is a list of limits and kinks below for your perusal - please read them before sending me anything. anon is available but if you abuse it, I will block you. feel free to pick an emoji that isn’t listed below if you’d like to keep an anon conversation going so I don’t get you confused with anyone else.
taken emojis: 💙 | ❤️ | 🖤 | 🌸 | 🌼 | 🧡 | 🧢 | 🦋 | ⚡️ | 😵💫 | S | 💕 | R | O | L |
so that’s a start! let’s see how it goes from here. I can’t wait to get to know the lovely lesbians of tumblr <3
original posts of mine will be tagged #sweet pea op
Kinks - this is not an exhaustive list, just the ones I’m comfortable sharing. if it’s not on this list, avoid it or ask before sending
i’m a submissive stone bottom, please treat me as such
i’m butch4all - femme, butch, neither, I don’t have a preference
pet names include bumblebee, sweet pea, honeybee, baby, good girl, good boy, angel, prince, princess, princeling, sweetie, prettyboy, loverboy. if you want to come up with your own, the softer the better but nothing else animal related.
oral, fingering and penetration (tongue, fingers, strap or dick) are all fine.
if i am giving oral, it needs to be gentle. i do have a bit of an oral fixation but the idea of being rough with my mouth squicks me out. don’t talk about forcing me down, controlling my movements, or throat-fucking me
biting and hickeys are fine but, again, be gentle.
light spanking is fine, either on my pussy or my butt.
light bondage is fine, cuffs, being pinned down, blindfolds, etc.
I’m not into degradation. Praise will get you a lot farther.
some orgasm denial is okay. more along the lines of “be good and wait for it” rather than full-on denial, though.
cumplay and light spit is okay but other bodily fluids are off-limits.
I loathe the c-word, please don’t use it.
butt stuff is a hard limit. groping and gentle spanking is fine but anything beyond that is a no-go.
“dumbification” makes me uncomfortable. I like the concept of being fucked so well my brain turns off, but “dumb” is an ableist word and I’d prefer people not use it with me if engaging in this kink.
if I think of anything else, I’ll update this list and maybe just put a lil note on the blog that it’s been updated. looking forward to any messages y’all treat me with 🥰 (last updated 3rd July 2023)
credit for my profile pic | credit for my header pic
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I've been busy too, studying and working when I'm not studying. I haven't even touched myself in so long I'm really desperate rn, it's not even funny.
The worst is that the semester won't end until like right before Christmas.
I've missed talking to you too, but I didn't have enough mind to hold a conversation:(
-R
aww poor thing 😘 it's the worst when you don't have the time or energy to touch but your body's still craving it
don't worry about not being able to hold a conversation <3 I've been like that a lot lately too. but you're always welcome in my inbox whenever you're up for it
I'm not keeping me queue going on this blog at the moment but I check in every day so you'll get me eventually lol
I just got a notification about you and realized that I haven't talked to you in a LONG time.
So, how are you doing my darling? Something new in your life?
-R
it has been a long time <3
i'm doing okay. i'm endlessly busy which is driving me nuts. i really need a week where i can just sit at home and do absolutely nothing but I don't think I'm gonna get that before the end of the year 🙈
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Lesbian love teaches you to love yourself. When you love another woman’s body you are loving your own body.
I reach down and grab my own hip. It’s soft and covered in stretch marks and I wonder if anyone could ever find me beautiful. I reach down and grab my lover’s hip. It’s soft and covered in stretch marks and I wonder if Aphrodite is reborn in every woman or just this one.
To learn to love another woman is to learn to love yourself.
while i love the butch/femme dynamic it really does grind my gears when someone talks about butch/femme like they are inseparable halves that need each other always because as someone who is butch4butch i don’t like the implication that my butchness would be lesser or incomplete if i was dating another butch rather than a femme or even if i was simply dating someone unaligned
I love butches as much as the next femme, and absolutely love it when we see each other as we are, and are there for each other. It's a wonderful sense of community and kinship. And yes, it can be an amazing dynamic in life and certainly in the bedroom too. I'll hold myself back from writing more there and derailing ;)
But, I am fully a femme with or without anyone else, and you can take that away from me when you can prise it out of my slightly-chipped nail-polished fingers. And, that community mutual-defence thing? I will defend to the death any butch who is made to feel like (or outright told) that they're any less butch for not having a femme on their arm.
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To all my stone butches/studs/femmes high femmes pillow princesses please know you are perfect and amazing just as you are. Don't let anyone tell you you need to change anything otherwise you're somehow missing out or not doing it right.
Having boundaries is not a bad thing
It is not selfish and it is not silly. It's important and everyone should know and communicate their boundaries.
In case you wanted to know what these terms mean in terms of the butch/femme community (not ballroom culture), I'll try to make it quick:
butch/femme ≠ aesthetics !! These are community roles first and foremost. Not just being masculine or feminine as a rule of thumb, especially because masculine and feminine are presented and expressed in multiple different ways, there isn't just one way. Butch and femme are complex and subjective identities (it's not one size fits all because everyone is a little different).
Butch and femme are about subversion and belonging. About your role in your community.
Butch is authentic, transgressive, beautiful in its own ways, it's taking masculinity that for a long time was seen as only belonging to men and making it their home, their comfort, finding their true self there and giving it their very own meanings, much like femmes' femininity, their masculinity isn't one size fits all and it shows itself in different ways. Femme, for me, is taking femininity and making it your own, presenting yourself for others in your community, femme is strong, it's brave, it's fierce, it's demanding when we need it to be, it's making your voice heard for your sake and for others, because that's the important bit, it's all about community. Femme is being safety and community to butches and vice versa. Being femme is being proud. Femme is taking care of your community, it's making a home together where we all belong. If femme meant just being feminine every feminine lesbian would be femme and that simply isn't true.
Here's an article dividing feminine and femme - butch/femme - in terms of their functions.
stone butch = sexual role. stone butch ≠ most masculine butch/hard butch - this misinformation was reinforced by the futch scale and it is not correct, as said previously, stone butch is a sexual role! Stone butch is a butch who has boundaries regards receiving/being touched by their partner(s) in sexual situations, a butch who doesn't like/feel comfortable/would rather not be touched in certain ways for whatever reason they might have.
futch: silly joke started by the futch scale that reinforces butch and femme being simply looks and aesthetics when they're not :)
high femme/stone femme/pillow princess/stone bottom femme: means a femme who has certain boundaries when it comes to giving or touching their partner(s) in a sexual situation, someone who doesn't like/feel comfortable/would rather not touch their partner(s) in certain ways for whatever reason they might have, it's important to understand that each stone femme has their own subjective boundaries and what, and to what extent, they're comfortable with, so you shouldn't assume one size fits all, same goes for stone butches. High femme does not mean an extremely feminine femme. That's another twisting of the concept reinforced by the futch scale that I wish everybody would quit listening to.
Do you have to be butch or femme to be lesbian? No! You do not, it's so ok to be unaligned.
Do you want to simply talk about your presentation? You can say masc as in masculine presenting or fem as in feminine presenting.
something just hits different being butch and chivalrous in mundane moments… helping carry groceries, opening doors, giving directions, making sure your friends have eaten. it makes my heart happy ♥️
I keep seeing this monolithic, one size fits all, notion of how mascs/butches/studs should be treated and I think all of us need to take a second to realize they are individuals that hold those identities and have preferences and (should, at least, have) autonomy on how they want to be treated, you can't just decide it for them for how you think they all should be treated lol
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everyone pray that the orange, white and pink Chinese lantern trees I planted this afternoon all grow healthy and strong so I can have a botanical lesbian pride flag in my backyard 🥰
this post is i think over two years old & i think darcy the person who made the archive stopped updating it like over a year ago…. & people keep saying the link isnt working which there is nothing i can do about ! but if you want to try to access some more info about this darcy made a zine about making the archive/the archive itself which i dont think you can buy rn but you might be able to at some point so here is the link / info to that
