regarding shibari fixing the lad: what does the lad like most, as a rope bottom? compression vs exposure, particular shapes and postures to be put in that he particularly likes (or particularly dislikes)? i am (unsurprisingly lmao) interested to hear more about his relationship to being bound
but also yes that boy deserves to get absolutely cocooned as a treat
eeehehe :3c so bear with me because I am not so versed in the vocabulary of rope BUT!
with compression and exposure, it's about equally both; he likes a full body harness, and behind-the-back arm ties like this:
and legs either preferably tied together like this as well all the way down, or tied ankle-to-thigh if he's kneeling. he also likes his head tilted back-- either by his partner just pulling his hair, or bound backwards by the gag or by the ponytail (although honestly on reflection I think there's a strong preference for this being a Getting Manhandled thing more than a bound in that position thing 🤔). there's the physical comfiness of full-body pressure and close-to-the-body binding, but also the vulnerability of his throat and the entire front of his body being exposed and accessible 😌 I think ties that bind the arms to the front of the body would physically feel really good but would be much less sexy for him, and poses that are very much more open or spread out he's less into, although I think arms/ wrists together up over his head would also be good in positions/ situations that facilitate that, like lying on a bed. on the other side I think very much more strict and closed ties would start to feel too claustrophobic? like he doesn't wanna be compressed into a little ball, I think the strictest he'd be comfy with would be something like a hogtie, which like again creates that very open and exposed feeling, arching the back and pulling back the limbs.
he likes to be picked up and physically maneuvered, which is part of the appeal of simpler poses, and also part of the appeal of suspension. shoutout to shutterstock of all places having something decently illustrative that isn't outright porn fdkjhgfd but like something like this would be insanely sexy to him, although preferably with more rope along the body as well

















