Blu

It's a lot ik 💔

Its been a very very long path

Doesn't know what LGBTQIA+ is

Knows only what gay and lesbian are and I guess I supported it I never thought about it but I never thought bad about it. Also my "Ew love is disgusting it's like a virus" phase but I didn't know what was aromantic

Started to like a girl (Also the same girl I like now I never stopped) - "Am I lesbian?!" So I guess I was a questioning lesbian

Did some research and came out as Bisexual (But I liked girls more) and I was a proud bisexual for a good 8 months

Did some more research to find out about the other labels and came out as Pansexual :D I actually thought I was set.

A lil bit of questioning if I was trans ftm. Was questioning my gender for a good 1 or 2 months before finally coming out as Gender-fluid :D And was a proud Pansexual Gender-fluid for a good 4 months

Came out as Transmasc (This was actually pretty recent like around April or May)

3 DAYS AFTER COMING OUT AS TRANSMASC I came out as Panromantic Asexual :D

And that's me now :D An EXTREMELY PROUD Panromantic Asexual, Transmasc, and Gender-fluid person (They/Them) :D

Homophobic (yea idk, my childhood was weird as shit and me and little me do NOT align on like anything) > she/her straight + ace > she/her lesbian + ace > she/her pan + ace > she/they pan + ace > she/they/he pan + demiromantic + ace > she/they/he (identified as trigender) abrosexual + demiromantic + ace > she/they/he abrosexual + aroace > they/them lesbian > they/them bi > they/them pan > he/they aroace > he/him abroromantic + aroace > he/they abroromantic + aroace > he/they (with neos) abroromantic + aroace spectrum

:D yea idk a lot of these were weird in-between phases but like… had their time

clueless (and mind you raised muslim) -> oh cool gay people. Anyways -> oh no oh no best friend is hot oh dear… lesbian? -> wait but . men. -> men sometimes? -> omnisexual -> maybe some gender stuff -> nope nevermind -> ah sure why not

oh also new Tay loredrop lol

This is mostly guesswork and what little I remember, such is ADHD

Started knowing LGBTQ+ ppl exist and are cool(fav aunt is enby(dw they're okay with being called aunt) and aroace) -> nonbinary bitch -> nah defo a girl but also like girls I think? -> but girl doesn't feel right... -> she/they and people are gross -> no actually i love people romantically if I know them well, I think I just don't like mankind in general, sex is still super gross though -> WHAT THE FUCK IS MY GENDER -> I love everyone but cis men. Based. -> I haven't got a clue what I'm doing and quoiromantic is close enough to that so -> ooh neopronouns nice nice stealing those -> I think I'm girlflux -> nah nah am I demigirlflux? -> oh, nebularomantic! That's more like what I experience -> am I agender(still questioning) -> ✨️To Be Continued™✨️

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Didn't rlly care Abt it but was chill if u were lgbtq++ any/all pronouns I nevered cared Abt them ➜ bi curious ➜ bisexual ➜ pan demisexual ➜ omni demi ➜ ooooo did a lot of pride flag searching cuz the flags are freaking awesome and became Aego, cupio, and myrsexual ➜ Monoflexable, Lotusromatic ➜ Omnipanflux ➜ OMG CASSGENDERRRR any/all pronouns perfect label!!!!! ➜ oh wait I feel boyish genderfluid ➜ androgynous genderfluid faesari ➜ apagender any/all ➜ semifictoro ➜ still questioning Lithosexual and aroace

i said aroace seven times

She/her straight girl -> "oh I like women too" -> she/her bisexual woman

Only tagging @pinkparrotwrites for this one bc I know yours is gonna be a rollercoaster :D

Ok, so I was raised religious, so of course I thought i was straight and cis

Then Covid came along, and I got on the internet more and started seeing stuff that opened my eyes to what other people go through.

Tiktok is the reason I realized i like girls because of the amount of lesbian thirst traps I got on my fyp. I thought Pansexual was the term that fitted me most.

From there, I found connection in the nonbinary and masc community because I had a huge disconnect with femininity at the time. So, I decided on trying out genderfluid. From there, it became genderfluid/nonbinary.

As time went on and I became more inquisitive and confident in myself, I realized I felt more nonbinary, but nonbinary didn't fit well for me. So it became Genderqueer Genderflux.

And when I thought i was pan, I was also trying to figure out where I was on the Asexual Spectrum. First, I thought Demi, then I thought i was wrong, then it was back to Demi, then I thought I was Ace.

I also realized i wasn't really that into men and happened to discover the term Berri.

Berri did not last long.

I quickly realized from there i was fully into girls and not guys and started to use the label, Lesbian. I also dropped Genderflux because I realized it didn't feel as fitting as Genderqueer. I also finally realized I was Asexual.

Most recently I realized I was Aroace due to FUCKING RYLAND GRACE FROM PROJECT HAIL MARY 😭

So I spoke with my friends AND APPARENTLY THEY ALREADY KNEW AND THOUGHT I JUST HADN'T COME OUT YET

Thanks a lot, you guys 😭

Also, I went through 3 different names before settling on the one I use now with close friends.

Gender was a bit weird I had a dream where I was on this cloud island and I signed a form to change my gender to a boy before jumping off the cloud I weant from Demi girl -> non-binary -> agender in the span of a year. I figured out I preferred they/it pronouns last year and now I’m back to questioning my gender again