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Tough times don’t represent how your life will always be.

This is a post aimed at me and other people who constantly fall into guilt spirals over all the things they can’t do, and feel they should somehow magically be able to do anyway.

For me, and for the others, this is a gentle reminder:

- Posts asking for monetary donations are speaking to people who have money. Not your broke ass, still worrying how to buy food next month.

- Posts asking you to care about [extreme injustice of the day] are speaking to people who have energy to care. Not you, hanging onto your sanity by the fingernails. 

And, most importantly: posts telling you that you are horrible/cheap/awful/rude/unworthy/unlikable if you don’t pay/reblog/signal boost/care? Those posts can fucking die in a fire.

TL;DR: Posts asking for shit you are not physically or mentally able to give? 

learn to find love...

... within yourself. while it's always great to make friends and be socially active, it can be somewhat difficult for some people to do. other times, friends can end up hurting you and forcing you to spend time alone every now and then.

for this reason and also for the sake of genuine emotional independence, it's imperative that we enjoy spending time with yourselves.

it doesn't always have to be weighted stuff like self-reflection and thinking about the path of your life. it can also be spending time on hobbies, watching a movie nobody else agreed to watch with you or reading a book.