Canadian Hustler

The goal is to create an air of desire about you. Seduction (especially in romantic relationships) is impossible if you are not deemed desirable by society or at least in your community. When people are drawn to you and you seem exclusive you will have the power over anyone under your spell. This is why traditionally pageants would always choose the same girls, why we all have the same image of what a “trophy wife” is supposed to be. Unfortunately, those tropes also have racist/ colorist undertones. But do not be discouraged. A thin blonde is born with this trope projected upon her but you as an individual can cultivate that image for yourself. ( you still have to be beautiful and in shape I.e Miss Universe 2020 isn’t the standard but her beauty threatens the standard) Beauty is important even if it doesn’t fit the standard.

A high Self esteem and confidence are imperative For any of this to work.

Create a brand for yourself, and make it exclusive. The campier the better. You want to be extra, you are a dream after all. Appeal to a certain desire. In this case, the trope that should be your inspiration is the ideal lover. (these tactics transcend romance) Be reminiscent of a fictional character. You need a social media presence to do this.

Create mystery. The best way to do this is to not be an open book or common. Add a little campiness to your personality and cliches. Be the girl who effortlessly wears heels to class or to the office everyday. You won’t look like a try hard if it matches your energy.

Never publicly deny or confirm rumors or assumptions about you. Don’t get mad at gossip. In fact, you need people to gossip about you, it will only add to your mystery. Even ignite gossip about yourself. It’s good to have gossips around you, but only let them know what you don’t mind getting out.

The ideal lover is a fetish. This is not pc, but stop being afraid of being a fetish. You don’t think the exotic look is a fetish for pro-athletes? It is! But those women stay winning in said field. In fact, when someone sees you as a fetish, you shouldn’t run away- monetize it! Be the token if it will benefit you. (I’m not encouraging use your position to discriminate against your own or to crab climb. As a bw, I didnt make the game, and I’m not gonna play fair when no one else does.)

People want what others want. Only date men of a high status who display a passionate effort. (Think about Lauren from love is blind) When people see how much he caters to you they will think higher of you. His want for you will make them want you or want to be you. These relationships can be temporary so don’t harp on character. If and when he messes up leave. Never be afraid to leave and maintain your standards at work and in relationships.

Cultivate an inner circle but stay friendly to outsiders. Your circle needs to be desired obviously. Be strategic; the people you keep around you greatly impact your lifestyle, mindset and perceived value. It’s important to have at least one true good friend but don’t harp on how “real” everybody is. You need strong and diverse connections. Have a friend who is crazy supportive of you.

I am evolving into my best self

I am always thinking of the most positive outcome

I am a magnet for joyful experiences

Control your speech. Cleopatra was known for her inviting voice, Marilyn Monroe’s voice was calm, soft, and slow. (breathy)