Spira's finest

Now, I’m gonna try to not sound like a “nice guy” but I need to vent somewhere. It gets frustrating when I try to be super considerate, friendly, caring, etc. all to show interest in a girl and want to take her out on a date only for them to cancel on me or ghost on me. It’s not like I’m seemingly chasing a lie bc all of them have shown hella interest towards me and openly expressed it.

Now in one’s defense she canceled before things got too deep and I’m glad she did, but it’s quite ironic when they say they don’t want a guy that plays around then drop guys that does the opposite. I mean, you complain about guys not texting you back immediately or leaving you in the dark only to turn around and do that to others. That gets very frustrating.

But maybe I’m just over exaggerating due to how much hopes get killed for me when I get overly excited. But can folks blame me tho? I’m usually over here enjoying my lonesome then a lady shows ME a lot of interest just to flake out on it in the end which just leaves me hanging.