blacking out the fructose

I need to stop replying to “how do you make friends in your 30s?” threads because all my answers boil down to “you have to want to know people instead of have friends” and I don’t think people wanna hear that

It’s like. People can tell if you don’t really like or connect with them. If you aren’t truly enamored with someone you will have a hard time coming up with activities to do together to deepen the friendship. Because you don’t really like that person that much.

cool. another black child died in a hate crime

im posting this here despite the website being extremely white centered, I want people to understand how in this country it's basically ok to murder and victimize black people, especially women and children in the name of "self defense" and white America will reward you for your antiblackness.

forever thinking about that girl at my uni orientation who, after being told to pour out her water bottle before entering an event, looked at me and said "they tell us to stay hydrated and then make us pour out our water, this is like totally kafkaesque" and then poured out what was very obviously an entire water bottle full of whiskey. hope she's doing well.

I’ve never seen the second photo before.

This is why the land acknowledgement that canadian institutions do is worth less than nothing

the angel does not concern itself with gender norms

You love fat women so much but you won't learn about fatphobia, refusing to acknowledge it exists, ignoring the fat experience at all costs, with all the discrimination, medical murder, and suffering that fatphobia causes? Fat women don't owe you the time of day. Pick up a book and examine your biases, or you are just another dehumanizing, fetishizing coward in a sea of them.

Sometimes high tech is worse

happy fucking pride month we should never have ceded to let drag queens speak for trans women