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This is not what you thought your marriage would be like. But it's not as if your wife is really offering you a choice.

This is not what you thought your marriage would be like. But it's not as if your wife is really offering you a choice.

What could you say? It was obvious she was really looking forward to seeing her ex again, and it certainly would feel awkward for you being there while they wanted to reconnect, so you simply replied "I'll call the motel and make a reservation."

"And needless to say -- don't wait up hun. I'll be spending the night with him."

"Then tell him I'm in here waiting for him -- and then you should go out for a few hours -- like the good friend that you are!"

Caption by @brazilianc.

Your wife is right, of course. It really isn't good for you to think about what she and her boyfriend are doing, because it just causes you discomfort to get aroused, and thinking about them having sex always does get you really aroused.

Being absolutely faithful to our hubbies makes us feel owned; having extramarital affairs makes us feel powerful, improves self-esteem, and puts our hubbies in their right place; diverse experiences in bed make us wiser and happier. Ready for some practical info?

You have known from the day you married her that some day she would find a better man than you to be with, and now that she has, you accept that it is only a matter of time until she fully discards you to be with him. But as painful as that is, you also feel a sense of pride in knowing that by encouraging her to date, and by stepping aside to enable her relationship with him to flourish, you have done whatever you could to bring more happiness and romance into her life -- which you feel deeply is what she deserves to have.