What has fascinated me about the response to this post the most is that a large number of responses to it have come in the form of ITâS MY HOUSE DONâT TELL ME WHAT TO DO or CLEARLY WHEELCHAIR COMPANIES HATE PEOPLE WHO CAN WALK, THEYâRE NOT BUILT TO USAIN BOLT or whatever.
And all that this tells me is that people jumped as fast as they could to what would allow them to be pissy, and didnât actually follow the things I said. And thatâs cool, I guess. But what I was actually explicitly addressing was the idea that small houses (which are touted as the new, environmentally-awesome, space-okay, cost-efficient, way to live) donât need to be accessible, because tiny houses are, by definition are just not âmeant for you.â
That, yes, is ableist. If the ânew way of buildingâ and so on - if this movement actually gets off the ground - is explicitly exclusive of disabled persons, thatâs a problem. And if saying âtrololol this isnât for you, why are you making my house about youâ is your response, yeah, thatâs pretty ableist, guys!
And this isnât theoretical in its long-term effects. Thereâs a pretty predominant house type that was faddish a while ago near where I live â a tall, skinny rowhouse thatâs really, really not accessible at all. If you want to buy a house near where I live (and no, âjust moveâ isnât an answer), the affordable houses are all these tall, narrow rowhouses. The difference between buying one of these homes and a house which either is already accessible or can be made accessible is an order of magnitude. The ranchers or potentially-accessible homes cost literally twice as much.Â
These buildings have narrow doors; narrow, turning stairs which are not even easy to install a chair lift on â even if your insurance company will pay for you to get a chair if you live in one, which, guess what, thatâs why my wheelchair was declined; they usually have multiple sets of stairs leading up to the front door, making installing a wheelchair ramp nearly-impossible.
These houses were built more than a generation ago, and cannot easily be modified to become accessible. (I know, because weâre currently trying to find a way to make it so that I can get my wheelchair into and out of my house without someone else doing it for me. Thatâs kind of the opposite of accessible, if an able-bodied person literally has to fold up my wheelchair and carry it down two sets of stairs for me to take my wheelchair out of the house.) They also form the entirety of affordable housing where I live.Â
âJust rent an apartmentâ isnât an option either. Not only is that a blindingly ableist response in and of itself, because inherent in it is âyou donât get to/need to have the stability of a mortgage payment, or the ability to built equity or eventually have a house thatâs paid offâ but rent for an accessible apartment around here actually costs more than my mortgage. I could absolutely not afford an accessible apartment where I live â the last time I checked, a ground-floor, wheelchair-accessible apartment in a neighborhood similar to mine cost half-again as much as my mortgage payment.
Which is kind of my point. Housing movements and trends matter across generations & if you dismiss the entire thing as âwell this is my house, itâs not about you, why should this movement have to think about you?â then, yeah, thatâs exactly the ableist mindset Iâm saying is pretty bullshit.