you're gonna carry that weight

"i can fix him" ok well i will try to make him realize how loved and cherished he is outside of the narrative he created for himself

people aren't even getting a little bit genghis khan anymore. you guys used to love getting a little bit genghis khan

the dynamic between two people who love a third person so much and come to understand each other because of that is so important to me. you would put them first, and so would i. you understand why we have to save them from themself. i trust you with their life, and so, that means more than if i trusted you with mine. the love doesn't have to be the same, but it's powerful enough that you understand why you're not the only satellite drawn into their orbit.