trying to love you through an open wound.

about me:

names I respond to include: Sunnie, Inky, Meg, and various pet names -- if you've earned the right to use pet names, that is

I go by she/her and they/them pronouns, and I don't particularly have a preference between those options

I am 30 years old, and reside somewhere in the northern midwest area of the US with my tremendously fat cat, Bug

currently in an open relationship with a wonderful human being 💜 [note: this is not an excuse to hit on me, thanks]

I'm a mentally ill adult with multiple diagnoses who is also somewhere on the ADHD/autism spectrum. I struggle with socializing and I am protective of my time and energy, so I am not always quick to reply to messages, but I do like to talk to people!!

some things you should know:

fuck ICE, fuck MAGA, fuck racists, fuck bigots, fuck supremacists, fuck blind nationalists, fuck homophobes, fuck transphobes, and fuck you if you support this current administration 🤠

I consider myself an ✨ ANTI-AMERICAN, RADICALLY PRO-TRANSGENDER ANARCHIST ✨ aka I am a democratic socialist

DO NOT FOLLOW ME OR INTERACT WITH MY POSTS IF YOU ARE UNDER 21!!!!! THIS IS NOT A RECOMMENDATION, THIS IS AN EXPECTATION. I will block you.

DO NOT interact with me if you are going to sexualize me in my inbox or dm's !!!!!!! my body is not up for your debate and I don't care about your opinion on it! don't fucking comment on my body in my fucking inbox or dm's

I don't respond to "hey" or "hi" messages with no other content. if you want to talk to me, you can put actual effort in to having a real conversation. you are welcome to message me so long as you aren't weird or creepy towards me. shockingly, people don't like it when you unleash the freak before establishing a relationship so like, just be a decent human being, please

if you got this far, thank you for respecting my boundaries!! I hope you have a beautiful day, and, as always, remember: fuck ICE, punch nazis, peace and love on the planet earth 🫶