When you get home you’re obviously tired . But the biggest trap is touching your phone the minute you walk in cuz the second you lie on your bed, you’ll start scrolling… and suddenly you “forget” about homework. So try something different: as you’re walking home, delete your social media apps if you know you have a lot of work it helps sm .

When you arrive, eat, relax a bit, but don’t touch your phone. Go do a little self-care routine instead. u’ll feel better, lighter, and more ready to work.

Then sit at your desk, open that little notebook, and look at what you wrote. Start by organizing your tasks from easiest to hardest. Begin with the easy ones. Don’t overthink or drag them for hours , use that phase to build your focus. Set a two-hour timer and just get started reading, writing small things, finishing quick exercises. Finishing these small tasks gives you a little boost of motivation.

After you clear the easy stuff, take a short break. Drink some water, eat a fruit, stretch. Then come back and start the harder tasks. At this point, your brain is warmed up. Don’t listen to music when doing high-focus work It just distracts u. Maybe some very light lo-fi can help, but silence builds deeper focus.

For the hardest homework, I really recommend using the Pomodoro technique: 35 minutes of focus, short break, repeat. The first two days might feel forced, but after that you’ll notice real results:

You’ll finish your schoolwork faster, without feeling stressed.

Coming home to study won’t feel impossible anymore.

You’ll still have time to rest.

And most importantly, try to actually enjoy the vibe of studying. Light a candle, make a cup of coffee or tea, especially now that winter is coming create a warm atmosphere that makes you feel comfortable to take care of yourself but also get your work done !

PUT. IN. EFFORT.

PUT. IN. WORK

GIVE. 100%.

FALL. GET UP.

FAIL. TRY AGAIN.

• Remember that your relationship is only a part of your life. You are more than your relationship.

• Don't put your partner on a pedestal. Have a life outside of your relationship

• You are too young to take your relationship too seriously. Have fun in your relationship but don't stress too much about your future.

• Don't forget your friends, they were in your life before you get into a relationship. Your family were there for you. Spend your time with people beside your partner.

Compatibility is about sharing the same values, principles, morals and ways of handling life

If your rhythms align (sleep, work, social life, health choices)

Can you solve problems together in a way that makes both of you feel respected, not one abandoning themselves to keep the peace (or the person)

It’s about feeling seen, heard and understood in each other’s presence

Are you both committed BY YOUR DAILY HABITS AND ACTIONS to growing in the same direction, not just landing in the same destination? Two people having completely different views about how to land in the same place also matters and actually can speak to their values

Revived from the dead and felt like sharing my two cents because I have freedom of speech and a platform so why not???

Hence, here goes nothing:

1) Be busy. Like truly busy in doing things you love, you need to do, you must have something to do. Just do.

2) Procrastination kills creativity and rhythm. I said what I said.

3) Have dreams. Be multifaceted. Be like Barbie. (P.S I don't mean appearance wise).

4) Morality is what you make it to be. Not what people tell you it is. I have learnt it from my own experience. Something can be immoral to you but completely moral to someone else. Different people, different realities, different moralities.

5) Life is short but your paycheck doesn't need to be that short.

6) Never I repeat never let someone else dictate how you feel about something. You feel it you own it.

7) It's your body please don't be so harsh on it.

8) People skills>>>>>>>>>>>>>

9) Trusting a man blindly is like walking towards your death foolishly. Trust but with awareness.

10) Stop doomscrolling.

11) How about we start planning to escape living from paycheck to paycheck?

12) Money,security>>>>>>> marrying for love.

13) Educate educate educate.

14) Invest in your outer appearance not like plastic surgery etc type but be pleasant to be around, be easy on the eyes, be presentable,be charming. People really are shallow in that sense.

kocham jesienne poranki, gdy świat wydaje się być pod wodą.

szkoła odwołana, cisza jak aksamit,

wkładam czarny płaszcz, słuchawki w uszach,

idę do Starbucks,

uczyć się jakby to był performance, nie obowiązek.

czarna kawa.

bez mleka. bez słodyczy. bez litości.

rytuał ponad głód. rytuał ponad chaos.

czyste dłonie, zimne serce.

tumblr to nie strona.

to religia.

moje kości, moja twarz, moja dyscyplina

są tu święte.

jestem cieniem.

sylwetką.

moje ciało to niedokończone zdanie.

nikt nie odważy się wypowiedzieć zakończenia.

ludzie?

tylko szum w tle.

kocham dni, w które nie jem.

są ciche.

święte.

jakby czas zapomniał o mnie celowo.

a potem — idealna ocena w szkole.

jakby wszechświat był dumny,

z tego, jak pięknie znikam.

"We trained a pigeon to recognise cancerous cell clusters and somehow they're really good at it" okay great, that's something that could plausibly be a thing.