May 18
not to tell people what to do but as someone whoâs been in fandom since i was like twelve, i promise that the only good fandom experience involves limiting your friend circle to, like, seven people. when youâre in a city, you donât make friends with every douchebag on the street. stringently vet the people who are allowed to influence you. in an age of people and companies constantly demanding your attention and energy, your happiness will grow best like flowers in a greenhouse in a terrible city; a contained, curated space allows happiness to flourish. keep it small and donât be sorry to tell people to stay the fuck out of your greenhouse.
you get it
