Can I genuinely ask about what to do; as a heteromantic but very demisexual/pansexual woman:
I feel kind of fetishized/pigeon-holed because only 1 race of men hit on me. I’m curvy, white, & kinda tall (at 5’8) so MY preference is guys at least 5’11. (Real 5’11’s, like my dad who doesn’t lie cuz he’s not a weirdo)
So, the question is, how can I express interest (maybe online) so that maybe I don’t have only 1 specific option who gets interested in me.
It sucks feeling like I I’m excited to be welcomed into any culture and very few have interest.















