hi um you dont even have to answer this i just feel like i got fucking ROBBED is all and i need to cry about it to someone. so, im medically diagnosed with ADHD, but i recently found out i show a fucking LOT of symptoms of autism, and have shown them since i was like 2 or 1. but i highly doubt i can even get a diagnosis for it because of my parents so that sucks i guess haha
Oh friend, oh goodness gracious. I am so sorry you are feeling upset. My sympathies to you truly.Ā I think a lot of undiagnosed girls feel this way. A lot of neurodivergent girls if they are lucky enough to be diagnosed with anything get diagnosed with ADHD before they find out about autism.Ā
I am especially sympathetic because I got talked to about ADHD years before anyone ever told me about autism.Ā
Parents obviously play a blockade for minors especially if they arenāt open to those sort of topics. If it is important to you however I would surely recommend pursuing it in adulthood. It might be more difficult but I think it would be good for you.Ā
I didnāt find out until I was basically an adult, and I was so damn upset, so you cry all you want hun. But, the brightside is, you donāt have to think about what you missed out, you can focus on all the things you can get right from this moment forward!Ā
If you know about your struggles you can help make accomadations for them, you can talk to people about things you struggle with even if you donāt call it autism!Ā
I feel you have a right be upset, 100% , but I just hope you donāt feel like itās hopeless because there is hope. It may feel crappy right now but I think youāll be happy you found the connection someday.Ā
You can talk to me anytime, my asks are open! Or, my message box! Please do not feel that you canāt.Ā
I hope you feel better, and have a nice day tomorrow. <3













