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The Transgender umbrella now encompasses anyone who does not identify with their birth sex. Transgender activists have opened up the umbrella to ensure that anyone, who does not identify as binary, is welcomed with open arms.

On paper this sounds great to have such inclusiveness and provide a safe community for people searching for answers to their identity and to provide safe space in which to talk about feelings and life experience.

However, this willingness to accept anyone gender questioning under the umbrella and the embracement of queer theory , means that the Trans community has scored an “ own goal” and now has to accept & support a variety of Trans people who have murdered, raped, molested children and are involved in various lifestyles considered by many to verge on perverted.

The recent case of Stefonknee Wolscht, the 53 yo who identifies as a 6 year old girl, enjoys play therapy with young girls and who openly admits to getting erections while thinking about this and anal sex is ever increasing evidence of the embracement of people for their gender questioning, without batting an eyelid about their lifestyle choices.

The fact Stefonknee also abandoned a wife & 7 children, was tried in court for abuse , violent nature & pays no maintenance for the children, again is lost in the fact that “She” is a Trans woman ( or Trans girl) who falls under the Transgender umbrella and must be supported by the community.

There are many, many, transgender people who just want to live a life free from pain & depression and they far outweigh the waifs, strays & perverts currently finding a home under the Transgender umbrellas.

Public opinion, public acceptance has changed towards Trans people in recent years, with some high profile celebrity transitions, but people like Stefonknee Wolscht and the continuing acceptance of murderers, rapists & pedophiles who transition while in prison etc, will turn that public opinion.

I'm more inclined to believe these women because there are multiple women claiming the same thing and sexual assault in the porn industry is not unheard of. 

How can you expect a sexual assault or rape victim to immediately turn around and be a hero to save other women? When a person is sexually assaulted or raped it is mentally and emotionally taxing on the person. And every victim/survivor reacts differently. There is also the fear of not being believed and having people go after you instead of the rapist even when you are telling the truth. Often times the rapist has more power than the victim as well. Rapists tend to pick people who they believe are weaker than them. There are many reasons why a rape victim might not speak out right away.

Stoya continued, saying, “It took me months and months and months, over a year of months, to be able to call it what it was — which was rape.” Arabelle Raphael, a porn performer whose friend had told her she’d been assaulted by Deen, said there was fear in the porn industry about even showing support for Stoya, saying,  “Just showing solidarity is something people are having to talk about and question.”

It’s great that people are finally listening to women about rape in the porn industry.

They know there isn’t all that many opportunities for women in general. They know that many girls have been previously abused and have already been beaten down and groomed.

They are doing this to us and ruin many women’s lives and then they are going to turn around and say we ‘choose this‘ and it is how we handle ‘freedom‘.