One Sane Person In A World Of Madness

It was a beautiful day in non-binary land, the sun and the moon were in the sky, the flowers could not decide whether to come out and bloom, the birds were walking as they identified as dogs, the cats were trying to fly as they identified as birds and the dogs were trying to walk on two legs as they were trans species.

Mx non-binary was happy, they were off to an important conference and spent time getting ready, to look their best.

They set of down the road and as they turned the corner, Mr. Happy was on the other side, “Good Morning Sir” said Mr. Happy cheerily.

“Transphobe, bigot” shouted Mx Non-binary, “Misgendering is violence, can’t you tell I am non-binary?”

‘Oh, I am sorry” said Mr. Happy “But how can I tell?”

Mx Non-binary glared as they replied “ I am wearing my They / Them earrings, eye shadow, lipstick and nail varnish, how can you not tell?’

“But you have a beard” replied Mr. Happy, “can’t men wear eyeshadow, lipstick, nail varnish and earrings?”

“Transphobe, bigot” replied Mx non-binary and they hurried off. As they passed the bakers, they felt hungry and popped in for some snacks’\.

“Good morning Mx non-binary” said the Baker; Mx non-binary’s chest puffed with pride, as validation of ones lived experience was the ultimate in identity politics, “We have some nice Chocolate cake” said the Baker!

“Racist, Racist, imperialist, colonial racist” shouted Mx non-binary, “Chocolate is a racist term and workers are paid a pittance under slave conditions on the plantations”.

The Baker, clearly rattled hastily rewrote the sign which now said “ Ethically sourced, climate friendly Cocoa flavored cake” Mx non-binary brought a Vegan Sausage roll. Oat milk, soy Macchiato and strode happily off.

As they turned the corner, Mx non-binary spotted Little Miss Lesbian coming towards them “ bigot, transphobe, homophobe “ shouted Mx non-binary’

Little Miss Lesbian looked rattled, “What have I done?” she said looking very upset. ‘You refused to have sex with me, last week at the LGBTQ2SIXXXX+++ party, as you said you don’t like Penis, but its not a Male Penis, it a Female clitoris” said Mx non-binary “Therefore your a bigot, transphobe, homophobe”.

Little Miss Lesbian run off crying and very upset.

The bus stop was in sight and Mx non-binary quickened their pace as the No 69 Bus could be seen in the distance. They hopped on the bus and sat down.

The bus driver set off and over the intercom, issued a hearty “ Good morning Ladies and Gentleman, Boys and Girls” This was to much for Mx non-binary, who shouted at the top of their voice “ bigot, transphobe, misgendering is violence” and vowed to write a formal complaint to the bus company in regard to their non inclusion and diversity of LGBTQ2SIXXXX+++ people, who as a minority deserved to be fully recognized in inclusive language.

Mx non-binary ate their vegan sausage roll and drank their oat milk, soy macchiato and felt good as the bus pulled up outside the conference center

They stood and looked in awe; the sign said “UK Labour Party Conference” and it was truly a safe space, a conference of diversity, equality, minorities where Black Lives Mattered and comrades, trans comrades, non-binary comrades and LGBTQ2SIXXXX+++ comrades were valued, as this was a party for the many , not the few.

Little did they know.

Trans is becoming more and more trendy. The mainstream media are reporting more trans stories than ever and identity politics continues at a pace, with countries passing laws to recognize individuals self right to both gender identify and gender express. All bad news of course for the sex class known as Female.

It is of course transphobic and extremely bigoted, to not date a transgender woman because she has a dick. Not only are lesbians accused of this regularly, but now straight men, with Zinnia Jones making the news with her outburst on the very subject.

It is difficult dating as a transwoman, I know that from personal experience and it seems more and more transgender woman are proclaiming to be “Lesbians” and dating other transgender woman (or indeed a number at the same time, as it seems the trend to be in relationships with a number of transgender women all at once). I guess it helps when more than one partner is reinforcing the myth of lesbianism.

On a personal level, I don’t believe these transgender woman are Lesbians, not because I feel they are not women (they are transgender women), but because by definition, Lesbians are members of the Female sex, that don’t date, or want to have sexual partners of the Male sex (which normally come with a penis).

A large number of these transgender woman are into Lesbian porn, from which they get their sexual pleasure, while being with their transgender partners (or just masturbating). There is a marked amount of autogynephellic fetish about this, imagining oneself as a woman while watching porn and masturbating or indulging in actual sex with another transwomen).

These transgender woman are not Lesbians, but Transbians (trans women with Lesbian fetish) and it is not bigoted or transphobic to recognize this fact. Lesbians dont do penis, full stop.

Many years ago, I knew a transgender woman, who like me was going through transition. She would remove blood stained sanitary towels from female toilets and wear them in her own panties to experience “what it was like to have periods”. Again this is fetish behaviour, which many transgender women seem to be driven by and in their world is normal.

It must be tough being a man these days. Males have had their role eroded as women make gains in industry, in politics and even in pay equality.

If you look at certain members of the Transgender community, it is clear that many are escaping from their male existence, not really wanting to be women, but clearly not wanting to be male. But what are the alternatives? Its not easy being a gender non-conforming male, so why not claim trans status.

There are a number of key themes that appear to be driving gender identity politics and the number of males claiming trans status. It appears there is escape from the pressures of society, the reality of being male in a stressful environment.

There are many true trans people, but there are also a number that claim that status in order to escape from reality and society.

Many trans people have an underlying mental illness.

I am not saying that trans in itself is a mental illness, I firmly do not believe that. But many trans people have ongoing mental health issues and it is difficult for any person (let alone a male) to be labelled with mental illness. It appears the world is more acceptable as a non-binary or trans person rather than a male with mental illness.

Many trans people are gamers, developers.

The number of people in the trans community who are online gamers, or game developers is large. Many of them identify with the female characters they create in the games they play or develop.It is an easy escape from reality to identify as the female characters you create and only a short step from that to the character becoming your reality in real life.

Many trans people are furries or anime focused.

Again, creating female animals with breasts, drawing cute pig tailed girls in short skirts and long stockings, girls kissing or furry female creatures entwined, is prevalent in the trans community. Plenty of opportunity for escapism from reality and to live the lives of your characters, especially if you are trans. Does this tie in with the living your fetishes? As a trans identified person you can cry transphobia every time anyone questions your motives?

The chance to live your fetishes.

Dressing up, wearing female clothes, taking selfies in front of the tampon dispenser in the ladies rest room, taking selfies sitting on the toilet, wanting that true lesbian experience. Many trans (gender non-conforming males), find this irresistible. One trans activist constantly tweets about Female sanitary products, even talks about the “Trans Period” which many trans activists now subscribe to, as you know hormones can do that. And of course uterus transplants for trans woman have to be a focus of medical funding and research.

The other part of this is to have multiple partners, you must be in relationships with at least two other “Lesbians” or indeed even have an owner. I reality your a gender non-conforming male living your dreams and fetishes.

Didn’t Stefonknee Wolscht prove this to be the case?

None of the above is normal behaviour for Lesbians or indeed women.

The rise of identity politics has done a number of things. 

Women & feminists in general have now become hated as more gender non-conforming males identify as non-male and claim a right to womanhood and the continued erosion of female spaces.

Trans activists defend any person who identifies as trans, no matter how heinous a crime they may have committed. As a trans woman they should be in a woman's correction center, doesn't matter that their crime may have been rape or murder of women.

There is only one view allowed, that of transgender ideology and anything else is transphobia or trans-misogyny Trans activists cannot even agree among themselves on terminology or language.

The trans umbrella will continue to grow, more gender non conforming males will find a way under its welcoming cover and with that the fetishes and sexual perversions that many men have, will be legitimized by the trans status.

@Vanguardvivian erases Gay, Lesbian & Bi people, another example of trans normative thinking.

Let me start by saying I fully support trans rights and any discrimination against trans people is wrong. As a trans woman myself, I have experienced this first hand and know how distressing, depressing and hurtful it can be.

There are many good trans people out there, going about their normal life and who knows, you may interact with me daily and not know my background, my history and the pain I went through to get where I am today.

The rise of Gender Identity politics has seen a new language come into common use along with the rise of a hateful and at times potent new breed of transgender activists, mainly trans women.

The use of the word Cis, is now very common as trans activists prefix this to encompass anyone not under the transgender umbrella, which in itself is now so wide it would cover a small country.

Terms such as cis normative, cis gaze, cissexist are used daily, by activists to describe people who have opinions different to their own. The more hateful trans activists also came up with the disgusting hashtags #diecisscum #fuckcispeople and #killallmen.

This got me thinking deeply, as cis is the opposite of trans, then the terms equally apply to trans people, although I have yet to see the hashtags, #dietransscum and #fucktranspeople in everyday common use. So what does trans normative look like when applied to trans women, especially transgender activists.

Well trans normative, also contains the terms; trans gaze, trans envy, trans jealousy even trans arrogance, as subsets when they talk about cis women. Many trans activists bemoan they do not pass and wear there visible transness, as a badge of honour.

But dig through their tweets and postings and they really would like to pass as cis, have voices that allow them not to get misgendered on the phone, height and size that meets cisnormative beauty standards. This is truly trans normative beauty as opposed to cis normative beauty.

Trans normative is about NOT liking everyone under the transgender umbrella; stealth, cis passing, successful trans women (such as myself) draw a particular trans hate from visible trans women, as we are seen as traitors to the cause. Caitlyn Jenner is hated amongst the majority of trans activists, but she has gone through the same pain, depression and anguish as they have, albeit by a different route. Yes, its trans normative to hate these people as they draw attention to trans normative beauty standards.

It is trans normative to dismiss biology, science, medical understanding or any kind of research that does not support trans activist’s opinion. Society in general understands the concepts of Male & Female, Intersex, Men & Women, and even that gender can be a spectrum. It is now trans normative however for trans activists to believe they are Female, born Female and have always been Female, which not only erases the lives of Females growing up, but the experiences they go through, in socialization & puberty. Being born Male, there is no shared girlhood with girls growing up.

Only this week a well-known trans activist posted a tweet, proclaiming “If a cis woman & trans woman have a baby, it has two mothers as they are both Female. It is trans normative and transsexism to force “girldick” as a concept on people born Female.

Trans normative appears to be that you have to be queer (yes straight trans people – or cishets as trans normative language defines them) are again a hated element of the transgender umbrella. It also is more trans normative to be queer, poly and obviously declare yourself lesbian (although your 2 or 3 girlfriends are actually trans women).

Trans normative also encompasses all young children, who must be trans if they like to play the opposite gender roles, opposite gender toys or express any kind of non cis gender attributes. Trans kids, trans youth are again trans normative children, some of whom may wish to eventually define a different gender to their birth sex and some of whom may keep with that birth sex, that their cis normative parents have nurtured them into. 

It is now trans normative and indeed bigoted to have any opinion other than what trans women activists believe. In fact, most of these other opinions are labelled, transphobia, transphobic and people who hold these transphobes. I myself believe I am transsexual, being born Male and longing to be Female. I transitioned to live as a woman, but that is seen as transphobic as it harms the trans normative views and opinions of many activists, who insist they were born Female (and assigned Male at birth – AMAB) obviously by a cissexist doctor.

It is trans normative to label any Female who talks about her vagina, periods as transphobic and cissexist and obviously trans activists would love it to be trans normal to centre trans women in all discussions about feminism. It of course should be trans normal that feminists fight to allow trans women rapists, murderers and cis women beaters to be held in women’s jails, no matter how much this potentially threatens the safety of cis women.

I don’t want to get drawn into the bathroom issue, but it is trans normative that anyone, under the transgender umbrella should be allowed to use the bathroom of their choice, even the non-transitioning, non-hormone taking, bearded person who dresses in Male clothing, but who identifies as a trans woman. Gender neutral toilets surely must be the answer to this complex issue.

For a long time now, identity politics has been a fighting ground. Transgender activists defend their identity by dismissing gender and now sex as a social construct, ignoring biology, medical science and any evidence, which puts the species Homo Sapiens into a dimorphic species, as this does not support their arguments or beliefs.

Man (and Women) have sought to understand our existence, being,  by science, by biology, by medical science, by classifying species and defining their behaviour, which has led to the current societal view of our species, males, females, men, women and the roles we play in society. These are all wrong if you follow transgender ideology or beliefs.

It is no longer about how you were born, what assigned sex you were, how you were nurtured or brought up, it is about how you feel, what you believe and how you identify.

The rise in transgenderism has been phenomenal, more and more people, children are self identifying as “other “than what they were born, which has become a very modern thing to do.  Now you can identify as anything you want within reason. Going back only 50, 100 years I doubt that this drive to identify as something else other than your birth sex or gender was as prevalent as it is now.

I am of a belief that through the ages, this phenomenon has not been pronounced as it is now.

What has changed?

Well, awareness and availability of information has changed, with the internet, smart phones all being able to give easy access to information on transgender people, treatment and transition.

Availability of self treatment & medication has become more available, hormones can be purchased on the black market & prescribed by Trans friendly doctors”. Of course these days you can self diagnose, which makes it far, far easier to believe you are doing the right thing.

Its also easier to do … absolutely nothing, no medical transition, no societal transition, no hair removal, as we have taken self diagnosis to a level, such that anyone who believes they are non-binary or trans has a right to do so.

Society has seen a host of high profile transitioners in recent years, people living as Men transitioning to live as women, sportsman, producers, all raising the profile of transgender people, but ensuring the wrath, anger, hatred of many transgender activists. This is not the real transgender struggle, just rich people having the resources to follow their beliefs. There is at times a degree of trans jealousy and trans arrogance in some of this vitriol.

It is also becoming more acceptable to transition with fetishes, the case of Steffonknee Wolscht, who identifies as a 6 year old girl, is a sign that more men who have fetishes involving women, girls, who knows what will surely come out the closet and claim the title Trans.

What is clear is that society in general is more accepting of Trans issues in the modern society we live in or the other option is that the majority don’t care.

People born Male and who lived as men for however long, no longer want to identify as men, be men, or associate with men, but they also don’t actually want to be women, hence the rise in the number of people, who identify as trans, queer and lesbian, when at the very most they are actually gender non-conforming.

The Transgender umbrella now encompasses anyone who does not identify with their birth sex. Transgender activists have opened up the umbrella to ensure that anyone, who does not identify as binary, is welcomed with open arms.

On paper this sounds great to have such inclusiveness and provide a safe community for people searching for answers to their identity and to provide safe space in which to talk about feelings and life experience.

However, this willingness to accept anyone gender questioning under the umbrella and the embracement of queer theory , means that the Trans community has scored an “ own goal” and now has to accept & support a variety of Trans people who have murdered, raped, molested children and are involved in various lifestyles considered by many to verge on perverted.

The recent case of Stefonknee Wolscht, the 53 yo who identifies as a 6 year old girl, enjoys play therapy with young girls and who openly admits to getting erections while thinking about this and anal sex is ever increasing evidence of the embracement of people for their gender questioning, without batting an eyelid about their lifestyle choices.

The fact Stefonknee also abandoned a wife & 7 children, was tried in court for abuse , violent nature & pays no maintenance for the children, again is lost in the fact that “She” is a Trans woman ( or Trans girl) who falls under the Transgender umbrella and must be supported by the community.

There are many, many, transgender people who just want to live a life free from pain & depression and they far outweigh the waifs, strays & perverts currently finding a home under the Transgender umbrellas.

Public opinion, public acceptance has changed towards Trans people in recent years, with some high profile celebrity transitions, but people like Stefonknee Wolscht and the continuing acceptance of murderers, rapists & pedophiles who transition while in prison etc, will turn that public opinion.