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not usually jealous of alloromantic people but the whole 'you have a guarenteed roommate for the rest of your life, who you presumably are pretty fond of being around' aspect of marriage DOES sound like a sweet deal. i'll give them that one. it seems useful.
This is a big reason why I decided to start dating in the first place. Guaranteed life-long friend and roommate
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are people under the impression that aromantic people never want to have close personal relationships with the people in their lives. "oh i wish i was aro it would save me all this drama!" actually human relationships are always deep and complicated and messy and have the potential to hurt and help and change your life and being romantic is just one possible aspect of that. aromantic people want to be close to the people around them just like anyone else. and i know the real issue is that people think romantic relationships are the only way to be truly close to someone else but it's weird and off-putting to constantly hear the implication that aros are somehow fundamentally incapable of forming relationships that would impact their lives negatively cause they don't wanna go on dates with people. not even mentioning the aros who do
Yeah that character is cool but what if they were aromantic
I’m not in love with him but we were driving and he let me interrupt every other sentence he said to point out something I saw along the road.
I’m not in love with him but he met my family and they do.
I’m not in love with him but I can just sit next to him with my book and let him deal with the people around us.
I’m not in love with him but he makes me feel seen.
I’m not in love with him but I trust him.
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Your aromanticism/asexuality isn’t invalid because you want to feel wanted btw
I have tested it and yes, you can do that platonically. Anything you can think of that is considered romantic is actually possible in a platonic context. Yes, even that. And that too. Like I cannot stress this enough, there is no act of affection and intimacy that takes you from being friends to being lovers. No exceptions. The only difference between friendship and romance is what the people involved decide to call whatever it is that they have going on. And like. Romantic attraction I guess, but that's not a thing I experience
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Cute how people who say this shit dont say transphobia doesnt exist just because shitty parents might kick out a trans kid because they think it's because they're gay. It's all terrible and parents being bigoted and neglectful and abusive. To parents like that it doesn't matter if you're gay or trans or ace, it's all the same to them and they don't want you in their family.
Using this as a "gotcha" to belittle the experiences of those who've gotten kicked out after coming out with the bonus of not even being believed for what they came out as is disgusting.
If you're someone who's so wrapped up in your exclusionary ideology that you're denying the experiences of fucking children kicked out of their homes and abused after coming out, for the love of whatever you believe/don't believe in, fucking re-evaluate.
Also to everyone like “this fake, aces don’t get offered conversion therapy”
In this recent UK study cis asexuals were the most likely to have conversion therapy equal to cis gay/lesbian people. And the most likely to have it offered.
https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/721704/LGBT-survey-research-report.pdf
Stop basically yelling Fake News!1 and re-evaluate why you refuse to listen to victims of abuse.
Also people should stop reblogged this with “why would a parent kick a kid out for not having sex??.”
1) Stop equating sexuality to behavior. Don’t do it with gay people, don’t do it for ace people.
2) Faith based groups, especially those who are not pro-LGBTQ don’t magically see aces as acceptable. They view them as not-straight therefore wrong.
3) If you are abstinent it’s supposed to be a sacrifice you suffer through to show your strong faith. Sex is meant to be your reward for being married. Being abstinent in a faith based groups works until you are meant to get married, be fruitful, or summit to your husband. The moment you decide you don’t want any of that for yourself now or in the future it’s a seen as a problem.
4) You’ll note that lots of number 3 is sexism, sex negativity, and the forced continuation of nuclear families something that directly and indirectly adds to homophobia and transphobia. And instead of saying “hey this ace, this victim of abuse, gives us an opportunity to discuss all of those wrongs in society, plenty of people just reblog “but why would you kick a virgin out??”
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i drew this in like ten minutes but do u see the vision
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*takes your hand* Look, I'm not good at this, but you really gotta move away from "I wish I weren't aro"-type sentiments, okay? They're not good for you.
I'm not saying your feelings aren't valid, what I mean is the way you're framing them isn't helpful. Is your aromanticism the reason you can't find a partner who accepts you or is the problem that people are too unaccepting of aromanticism? Is you aromanticism the reason you're scared you'll end up alone or is it because your friends choose to stop hanging out with you once they have romantic partners?
Are you scared and sad and lonely because you're aro or because we live in a deeply amatonormative society?
Idk I just don't think directing it all inward and acting like it's because there's something wrong with being aro, like there's something wrong with you, is healthy.
Aro and ace activism is housing reform, is well-funded public housing, is an expansion of affordable housing, is allowing single people to get affordable and public housing, is rent controls to make it possible for single people to be able to afford to live alone on a single salary.
Aro and ace activism is healthcare reform, so that no one needs to rely on a spouse for health insurance, so that healthcare is available to everybody regardless of income, so that no one’s lived experiences or basic dignity are dismissed or overridden by doctors
Aro and ace activism is well-funded and expansive public transit, so that you don’t need to have someone on hand to drive you places if you are incapacitated, so that you don’t have to pay for an ambulance if you need to get to the hospital quickly
Aro and ace activism is disability and elder care services, so that no one needs a spouse to care for them, so that no one needs children to care for them, so that marriage is not a bind for disabled people, so that people on disability who want to and can live alone can
Aro and ace activism is community-building, it’s public events, it’s free social activities, it’s mutual aid, it’s activities that bring community members together without socializing relying on just a romantic partner
Aro and ace activism is developing a culture of believing when people tell you who they are and what they want rather than assuming you know them better than they know themselves
Aro and ace activism means a better world for people without “normative” desires or “normative” social support, which means a better world for everybody
feeling so aromantic today hashtag love loses #loveloses like and reblog if you HATE amatonormativity peace and vibes on planet earth
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Had my first Valentine’s Day yesterday in a relationship and it was really nice. Lovely dinner, great music after, he got me flowers, and all in all, it was a great night. I loved how much he enjoyed the food (I picked the place) and I got to surprise him after with a dessert buffet.
But I’ve had amazing nights with my bestie like this before and I have no clue how being in a romantic relationship is any different than being in a platonic one. Aside from the making out bit. Like yeah, sure, I’ve decided that I might just legally tie myself to this human legally for the rest of our lives, but there’s no new emotions there. Nothing especially out of the ordinary, aside from the fact that he’s a best friend I’d be cool with banging.
I guess yesterday just has me contemplating. I feel like I’m stealing something from him sometimes. I constantly want to tell him I love him, because I do, but it’s not the type of love I know he’d interpret it as. Not the type he’d want.
I adore him. I’ll marry him, when he asks me. But I guess I’m grieving a bit, for the fact that I’ll never feel the way others do for their partners, and on his behalf, because I’ll never actually return his emotions, even though I’ll go through all the motions for him.
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this valentine's day remember that relationships are optional, you can only date the present version of someone, and you can break up at any time for literally any reason without having to prepare a fucking thesis to justify it!
