Marii

Aroace culture is disliking being called asexual in isolation, but being fine with being called aromantic in isolation.

IM GONNA THROW UP WHY DID THEY LET JOE BIDEN DO THE FINGER HEART THING IN HIS PHOTO OP WITH BTS

yeah so if bell hooks is right that “the essence of true love is mutual recognition-two individuals seeing each other as they really are" then aces and aros are lonely because we all recognize that many people won't even consider taking the time to truly see you unless you're in a romantic+sexual relationship. for so long society drills into you how important those relationships are that you realize you're aspec and on the one hand it's freeing to let go of all that conditioning and discover who you honestly are but on the other you watch people around you pair up and be so comfortable and get what society told them they would get and you sit there on the sidelines and think "what the fuck, they're putting in far more effort to know their partner than they ever will me" except its with fucking everybody.

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