Armieeeeeee1983

Okay so, this isn’t short or hand-written but here it is:

Dear Armie, thank you so much for being such a light in my life. You’ve shown me what it means to be the best you can be. Not for others, but for yourself and your family. Not in a way that means being perfect, but that means you’re trying. You’re doing your best - which is all we can really ask of ourselves.

I admire your tenacity, your gumption and most of all, your heart. It shines through in all you do and it’s how we’re sure of who you are. People change but there’s a part of us that no one else can touch. It’s that part of you that I know is bringing you through to the other side of this and that’s inspired us to stay with you and believe in you - regardless as to what others would like us to believe.

You’ve helped me move through fear and you’ve helped me find love. You’ve helped me trust my intuition and become more of myself. Also, you indirectly helped save my life. I used to put pressure on myself to be “the best” or “perfect” at all I did. My dreams were big and usually involved some sort of outward achievement. I was constantly looking at myself through others eyes and feeling less than.

At the same time I was severely anxious and depressed. I didn’t have the energy to do any of the things I dreamed of - never mind take care of myself. I was suffering and felt like I wasn’t the person I wanted to be. What weighed on me most though, was not being the mom I wanted to be.

It was you prioritizing your mental health and well-being (in part so that you could be the best dad to your kids) that inspired me to do the same. I realized that if I was not okay, my little one would not be okay and I took action.

I have now been on medication for a few months and the change is night and day. I can function and be present with my little. I’m starting to feel joy again and I’m watching him thrive. I still have so far to go but I know that prioritizing me is what’s best for him, even if it means letting go of some of my bigger dreams temporarily. I was trying to do it all and thought that I was supposed to be able to, but the truth is that I only have so much time and energy. Right now there’s only enough for me and him and that’s okay.

You’ve shown me that as much as it might hurt sometimes, what others think doesn’t matter. That I matter more than anyone else’s opinion of me and that my worth is not derived from others or my achievements. I knew it cognitively before but now I feel it in my bones. Thank you for being an example and showing me the way.

Also, I am extremely mindful of how I spend my time and who I spend it with. You are worth every second I spend on you and the people you and Timmy have brought into my life. You are a light and you help light up my life inside and out. Take it easy and stay true to you. You’ve got this 💗

Someday

When my life has passed me by

I lay around and wonder why

You were always there for me

One way

In the eyes of a passerby

I look around for another try

And fade away

Just close your eyes and I'll take you there

This place is warm without a care

We'll take a swim in the deep blue sea

I go to leave and you reach for me

Some say

Better things will come our way

No matter what they try to say

You were always there for me

Someway

When the sun begins to shine

I hear a song from another time

And fade away

And fade away

Just close your eyes and I'll take you there

This place is warm without a care

We'll take a swim in the deep blue sea

I go to leave and you reach for me

Someone said you tried too long

Someone said we got it all

Someone said we tried too long

Is there a place where I belong?

So far and so long

So far away

So far and so wrong

So far away, away, away

Some day

When my life has passed me by

I lay around and wonder why

You were always there for me

One way

In the eyes of a passerby

I look around for another try

And fade away

And fade away

And fade away

And fade away

🧿❤️

And it’s not just Armie’s lawyer she has to worry about when that happens.

She thrives on the attention and support of the woke crowd now. But, what does she think will happen when Armie proves she’s lying?

Think of all those people who have spent weeks defending her, putting themselves out there on her behalf for everyone to see. What will they do when they realize she betrayed them, made a fool out of them, abused their trust?

She thinks charmies are bullies? Just wait until the woke crowd turns against her. She made a mockery of MeToo, used innocent kids in the process, dismissed real victims that reached out to her, has made it much, MUCH more difficult for real victims to be believed in the future.. I could go on.

So yeah, they are going to rip her to shreds.

The greatest act of courage is to be yourself, even and especially when you've the whole world against.

A critics take on Oliver/Armie

“ In Call Me by Your Name, 17-year-old Elio Perlman (Timothée Chalamet) is taken aback to discover that, underneath a varnished surface, Hammer’s Oliver is a man with fear, pain, and desires of his own. In casting Hammer, Guadagnino allows us to go on the same complex journey as Elio: we are entranced and infatuated by Hammer’s image, and therefore just as disarmed as Elio is to discover the complex man (and gifted actor) hiding underneath his intimidating, statuesque beauty. As unfathomable as it might seem given his leading-man looks, Hammer has the talent, the bravery, and the will to strip away every trace of that persona and expose his soul on screen.”

I hope he returns to independent movies 🎥

Fuck mainstream.

Lord what did he do to deserve this? Married a woman he thought he loved at a young age? Acted in a movie that supports lgbt, was close to his co star he filmed that movie with?

What had he done even before all these false allegations came out? Why did people hate on him so much at that time? Now it's his divorce, custody, all this social media controversy is destroying him.. Please let that man BREATHE. truth is right in front of us. Why are we ignoring it?

I'm so heart broken knowing that some people in fandom need time to think about this, some are very disappointed and don't know what to say, and some say they can't do anything sitting at home. Give this man all the support and love at least once, if the crowd that supports Armie gets vocal, it'll be a big help. He's already been through a lot. I am so so so thankful that so many are working their ass off to expose truth.. I can't begin to thank you all, and after all this ends, I will be proud to say, WE ARE THE ONES THAT NEVER LEFT.

Thanks so much for these touching words, anon. Your message overwhelmed me deeply because gave voice to all my feelings about this situation so painful for me.

You can’t imagine how I wish I could do so much more to help Armie but I’m nobody and have no power, except my unconditional love for him. The only one thing I can and want do is totally support and defend him in any way is possible and anywhere, let him feel that he’s not left alone and that there are still so many people who firmly believe in him and love him just like before this filthy madness exploded.