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Don’t take away support disabled students rely on at university

The UK government is attempting to take away DSA support necessary for many students to access higher education.

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kwgt, I love you for giving me the ability to do things like these.

for now I edit how many "spell slots" I have by going into the widget and editing the global number or whatever it's called, but I really like the general premise I have going on here. I'd like to refine it, though.

#spoon theory #kwgt widget #kustom widget #disability #autism #actually autistic #autistic adult #disabled #autistic #actually adhd #adhd

My toki pona board is now in a usable state :D

#aac #aac user #typingtalk #toki pona

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bell hooks mentioned going through a time in her life where she was severely depressed and suicidal and how the only way she got through it was through changing her environment: She surrounded her home with buddhas of all colors, Audre Lorde’s A Litany for Survival facing her as she wakes up, and filling the space she saw everyday with reinforcing objects and meaningful books. She asks herself each day, “What are you going to do today to resist domination?” I also really liked it when she said that in order to move from pain to power, it is crucial to engage in “an active rewriting of our lives.”

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I have come to think of the suicidal impulse as the brain waving a flag to say three things:

something needs to change here

this is urgent

I don’t know how to do it

death is the ultimate metaphor for drastic change. it’s a general specific. whatever your problems are, it is very likely that dead people don’t have to deal with them. a real solution to your problems may demand a very narrow range of action that’s likely to be out of reach at this moment, but death is sold on every street corner, so it feels like a more realistic fantasy than happiness.

you don’t really want to die per se but it’s also not completely random chemicals swamping your brain for no reason. you want the pain to stop, you want to be somewhere else, you want to be someone else. it’s urgent. you don’t know how to do it. the end is not the end but a means that feels within your reach right now.

this is the wisdom of bell hooks: daily rituals of meaning and resistance and solidarity are part of slowly building a future where you can make the change you really need. and only alive people can do that. every step you take towards change and power is another step away from death.

typingtalk aac UPDATED!!! and its really cool!!!!!!!!

When I say I ran to the app store!!!

"I like the new update!".

it's so cool i like it so much!

The borders are very useful for additional info & I like the "images in textbox" - I'd say it's a good way to have ppl not know what you're tying. And the option to have the buttons click when are pressed!!! To show you're typing and fill the space! Very good.

I need to go and update my board fully (and I need to reorganise things anyway) but idk if I have time... hopefully soon! I did update my more common folders though :).

#ive been busy with a lot of stressful things recently #but this made my day :)#thank you for telling me!#typingtalk

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it's wild how setting up stayfree differently for different apps has been so helpful...

5 tumblr opens a day, plus a limit of an hour and behaviour surrounding it is much different. I hope it continues this way

took caffeine and instead of cleaning up like I need to do i made a cover for my bug spray out of an old denim shirt

#moral of the story is that caffeine helps u focus but you still dont get to choose what you focus on #actually adhd #adhd things #adhd problems #adhd

figured out how to take notes on my g1! I can just use the messages :) (you can even attach media!)

went outside, took aimed pictures & some notes. it was nice.

chat is me being too anxious to go into the kitchen to get dinner bc there's people (friendly people, no less) a sign of maybe not being well

#chat as in twitch chat #not chatgpt #this is an issue i have had for quite a while #sometimes i can do it but normally i cant #i assume my dad will take it as a bad sign #so

Discovering dry heat as a brit is fucking MAGICAL.

#no wonder other people are ok or even like the heat #this is way better than the bs mugginess we have #dehumidifier my beloved #making the heat wave WAY more bearable #dehumidifier + desk fan #the best duo #and add a water spray bottle #ts is alright #manegable #as long as i dont go outside

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brain is fried after doing image descriptions... not even complicated ones...

#not a good sign tbh

I don't know how true this is but it fells like consumer generative ai ethos is an extension of "people won't work unless they're forced to" thinking, hence why ai lovers struggle to understand the desire to put work into things.

anti bug spray!

Added essential oils bugs hate to the almond oil base, and spray nossle from another bottle fits it ✨️

Bugs don't like strong smells and I'm scared of bugs so made skin safe bug repellant. I also use the oils on windows to keep them away, as well a bug net. hoping will be able to recover from the fear enough that I don't need the bug net.

going to be homeless soon, hoping to get emergency housing... not sure how to feel...

#im definitely stressed #very stressed #but everyone ive talk to about it have been very nice #i told the woman in the call from the councel and when she heard my situation she went “owhh”#like “owh you poor thing”#which could be taken badly #but ive been treated as more capable than i am my entire life and its nice that ppl appear to be taking my situation seriously

I feel like "are you in a crisis" should be more than just "are you a danger to yourself and/or others".

Maybe that's just how I've come to understand what a crisis is, since that's all professionals seem to ask about. That and drugs/alcohol.

#cw drugs mention #tw drugs mention #cw alcohol mention #tw alcohol mention #cw mental health #tw mental health #mental health #maybe its just me #i struggle to tell when my suffering is “enough” to warrent me calling my gf #because im not going to die or kill. so

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How did you meet your girlfriend and make friends as a disabled person? I'm also disabled so I'd appreciate some advice.

uhhhh it was on a uni trip? (just to be transparent I have her & 1 friend, and I know a few people just bc I interact with them frequently but we're not friends).

I was talking to a staff member on the uni trip and she went up to talk to said staff member & i don't remember exactly how it happened but we ended up talking and were basically glued at the hip from that moment on, and started dating like half a year later. We already knew each other's "dating specifics" & life goals by that time so it was a lot easier. I've never done the normal "dating scene" I've always dated friends.

As for my friend, well my gf loves fire (it soothes her) & there was a fire pit where we were staying so she lit it up & it attracted like, all the autistic people on the trip so we all stood around the fire talking & it just so happened my future friend was there & we're still in contact.

I'm sorry this isn't really "practical advice", I've never been able to "willingly" make friends I just stumble upon them. I'd say it's probably easier the more different groups of people you interact with, especially those that share interests with you, but I'm not really a good person to ask 😅. If I don't make any friends where I am I don't have any drive to actually go seek them out, it's always been more akin to an accident that I found people I get on with. If I don't stumble into any I just don't have friends 😅

#personally I only really get along with autistic people #Not as a hard rule just an observation ive made #if you have socialisation altering conditions it might be worth seeking those communities out #im sorry im not very helpful i legitimately just have friends & a gf by accident #my social drive is like #negligible #disability #autism #actually autistic #autistic adult #disabled #autistic #actually adhd #adhd

I sincerely thank the rise in "easy meals" for making it so i can get smooth tomato pasta sauce

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