Hey taters n' skaters! You can call me Tato and my pronouns are he/him and she/her!
This blog will be more for lurking and reblogging than for original posts, but if you want to see some random content that follows my hyperactive brain, feel free to stick around! I'm in lots of fandoms, but at the same time it feels like none at all, lmao.
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🩵Tato
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💙 Biromantic aegosexual
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💙Roman Catholic ✝️(don't worry, not the kind who hates everyone and tries to force conversion. That's actually entirely what Jesus is against.)
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🩵Favorite pastimes: Drawing, reading, writing random music that pops into my head, petting animals, playing various video games, watching TV and YouTube
💙Music Taste: All over the place lol. Some of my favorite artists include:
Set It Off
Hatsune Miku
LongestSoloEver
Lolirock
I Prevail
TheFatRat
Memphis May Fire
CG5
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And of course, there will be fandom tags.
HOWEVER- I am too lazy BUSY to go edit the tags in all the stuff I've already posted/reblogged (cause it's a LOT). So anytime I edit my tag system, womp womp. Anything I posted before is still the same tags or lack thereof. Sorry, yes, confusing.
And for posts that date back to before I changed my alias to Tato, the tags are:
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Am i the asshole for breaking up with my bf who insisted on me giving him a footjob (I'm openly asexual but yeah give in every now and then i was just really really tired today and want to sleep :(
I can't believe something like this could be said by a woman
I hope this is a ragebait
Shame
Shame on you you shouldn't even have your nick censored SHAME ON YOU
Never ever i said anything like this in this blog existence usually I'd silently delete the comment but this absolutely pissed me off
"men have their needs" this wasn't even sex blahblah like what the fuck?? From a woman?? Do you have basic knowledge about autonomy? OR CONSENT? FORCED CONSENT IS NO CONSENT
Marriage rape is illegal since like 90s too by the way if you're not up to date with some news
Don't worry I was not planning to delete anything - why should I?
Maybe rather ask yourself why a woman having enough brains to be objective about the situation, instead of blindly accusing the man of things he didn't do is so shocking to you.
You acting like he tried to rape her or something when all he did was ASKING his girlfriend to do a tiny little thing for him. Just look at your choice of words here "marriage rape" because a man asked his partner for a simple footjob? Are you crazy? You sound like one of those crazy feminists who run around claiming all men are rapists and I don't think I need to tell you what a harmful mindset this is.
The guy did nothing wrong here, he didn't force her to do anything. All he did was asking his partner for something, which is his good right. (Just like it is her good right to say no, obviously. I never said it wasn't. I just think she shouldn't make it bigger than it is and like I said, if she ends a relationship over something silly like this, then her feelings for him can't have been all too serious to begin with. Because again, if you love someone you don't break up with him over something like this).
He didn't just ask for it. He insisted upon it. That means he WAS NOT TAKING NO FOR AN ANSWER. He was continuing to nag and pester her about it. That is COERCION, which is RAPE. And I suggest you look up the definition of a footjob, because that is very sexual. You're a moron. "Men have needs" is not a fucking excuse. And you're not even allowed to use the "English isn't my first language" excuse, because MULTIPLE people have informed you of these possible misunderstandings on your part and offered you a chance to back down, but you refuse to change your stupid opinion. People like you are the reason victims are so often failed by society. People like you are the reason evil men get away with things, because YOU are trying to make it sound like a "waa waa these feminists just hate all men" problem. You need to EDUCATE YOURSELF. And if you're too stupid and lazy to do that, then DIE like the SCUM you are.
18 Jahre alt hm? Meine Güte.... das hätte ich in dem Alter mal wagen sollen, so mit jemandem zu sprechen der doppelt so alt ist wie ich. Auf so eine Idee wäre ich gar nicht gekommen. Aber okay, ich bin auch noch zu einer Zeit aufgewachsen wo Internet und Social Media noch nicht den Alltag beherrscht haben und meine Generation hat noch Anstand gelernt, was man von dir offensichtlich nicht behaupten kann. Aber seis drum, dass ist nicht das Thema.
Erstmal mein liebes Kind musst du mir nicht erklären das es sich bei einem Footjob um eine sexuelle Handlung (sexual act) handelt - ich hab schon Footjobs gegeben da war an dich noch gar nicht zu denken und folglich bin ich mir voll und ganz bewusst was das ist. Jedoch ist eine sexuelle Handlung nicht gleich Sex wenn wir uns an die klassische Definition halten, diese wäre ein vollzogener Geschlechtsverkehr (penetration) wovon hier in keinster Weise die Rede war. Nein, es ging lediglich um einen Footjob, was dein Gerede von "Vergewaltigung" (rape) schon mal komplett sinnlos macht, denn selbst WENN er sie gezwungen hätte, wäre es keine Vergewaltigung sondern "lediglich" ein sexueller Missbrauch (sexual assault).
Siehst du? Ich war sogar großzügig und hab's dir auf Englisch rausgesucht, da ich sicherstellen möchte das es hier nicht zu Missverständnissen kommt. (Alles andere musst du dir jedoch selbst übersetzen, da ich es nicht einsehe warum ich mich hier mit einer Fremdsprache abquälen sollte, vor allem um mit einer Person zu sprechen für die Respekt und Anstand offenbar Fremdwörter sind. Unter uns, wenn du möchtest das man dich ernst nimmt versuch davon abzusehen Menschen zu beleidigen oder ihnen den Tod zu wünschen, dass lässt dich nämlich nur wie ein unreifes Kind wirken welches sich nicht anders zu helfen weiß und während dieses Verhalten vielleicht noch auf dem Schulhof funktioniert, wirst du damit später nicht sehr weit kommen, vor allem nicht in der Arbeitswelt.)
So...nachdem das geklärt wäre und du jetzt (hoffentlich) gelernt hast das ein Footjob, selbst wenn er erzwungen wäre, keine Vergewaltigung ist, da für eine Vergewaltigung eine gewaltsame und gegen das Einverständnis der betroffenden Person erfolgende Penetration nötig wäre, sollten wir jetzt mal zu der Frage kommen ob denn überhaupt ein Verbrechen vorliegt.
Die gute Frau Anon sagt ihr (Ex)Freund hätte auf den Footjob bestanden, jedoch hat sie mit keinem Wort erwähnt das hier irgendeine Form von Zwang (force) vorgelegen hätte. Nein, sie sprach lediglich davon das er mündlich darauf bestanden hätte, in Form von wiederholten Fragen, verbalen Drängen und wahrscheinlich betteln. Ja nun, Männer tun das manchmal. Wenn das Blut nach unten wandert und der Herr erregt ist, fängt er schon mal an mit einem anderen Körperteil als dem Kopf zu denken und dann bedarf es eventuell nicht nur einem, sondern zwei oder gar drei "Nein" von Seiten der Partnerin. Und das kann ganz schön nerven, ja, aber es ist Weiß Gott kein Verbrechen. Ein Verbrechen - in diesem speziellen Fall ein sexueller Missbrauch (sexual assault) hätte vorgelegen wenn er sie entweder mit körperlicher Gewalt oder unter Androhung von Gewalt dazu gezwungen hätte.
Hat er das?
Hat er sich ihren Fuß gegriffen und sie gezwungen den besagten Akt auszuführen?
Hat er sie bedroht, eingeschüchtert oder erpresst um zu bekommen was er wollte?
Soweit uns bekannt ist hat er nichts dergleichen getan (und ganz ehrlich, ich bin überzeugt das die anonyme Dame es erwähnt hätte, wäre es zu irgendeiner Form von Gewalteinwirkung gekommen, andernfalls würde es überhaupt keinen Sinn für sie machen ihre Frage hier zu stellen, da die Leute einen komplett falschen Eindruck von der Situation hätten)
Er hat also lediglich rumgenervt. Okay, der Mann ist anscheinend eine Nervensäge, aber das macht ihn in keinster Weise zum Verbrecher, geschweige denn zum Sexualverbrecher. Er hat von Rechtswegen nichts unrechtes getan und folglich sollte man sich hier nicht aufführen als wäre er der zweite Ted Bundy oder sowas.
Du sagst Menschen wie ich wären der Grund warum (echte) Sexualverbrecher ungestraft davonkommen.... Mein liebes Kind, mein liebes verwirrtes naives Kind, es sind Menschen wie du die dafür sorgen das Männer die nichts illegales getan haben, zu Unrecht einer Straftat bezichtigt werden. So sieht's aus.
Fine. Whatever. He was trying to commit sexual assault, not rape. That does not change the fact he was refusing to take no for an answer, guilt-tripping her, and manipulating her- which he WAS doing, if you actually look at the responses to your hideous comment. A footjob is a sexual act, that anon did NOT want to do. She also mentioned that he HAS pressured her into sex before, despite her not wanting it. THAT'S NOT OKAY. Forgoing logic and morals and instead thinking with "that part other than their head" is WRONG, and if any man does that they need to be held accountable. No means no and it should ALWAYS mean no the first time. Anyone who needs to be told no more than once is a scumbag.
People like me are the reason innocent men are accused of things? No. I am calling it like I see it, the way this woman reported HER experience. She has been coerced into sex despite being asexual. She was about to be pressured into it again. Instead, she said no and broke up with him. And you said she clearly must not have actually had feelings for him then, if she would break up with him over something so "silly." Silly. You called it SILLY. You DIDN'T CARE despite the clear testimony from the victim. That is exactly what happens to millions of women and girls and boys and men every day. That behavior is EXACTLY what I meant. YOU ARE HEARTLESS. And I have no problem telling someone like that to die.
Am i the asshole for breaking up with my bf who insisted on me giving him a footjob (I'm openly asexual but yeah give in every now and then i was just really really tired today and want to sleep :(
I can't believe something like this could be said by a woman
I hope this is a ragebait
Shame
Shame on you you shouldn't even have your nick censored SHAME ON YOU
Never ever i said anything like this in this blog existence usually I'd silently delete the comment but this absolutely pissed me off
"men have their needs" this wasn't even sex blahblah like what the fuck?? From a woman?? Do you have basic knowledge about autonomy? OR CONSENT? FORCED CONSENT IS NO CONSENT
Marriage rape is illegal since like 90s too by the way if you're not up to date with some news
Don't worry I was not planning to delete anything - why should I?
Maybe rather ask yourself why a woman having enough brains to be objective about the situation, instead of blindly accusing the man of things he didn't do is so shocking to you.
You acting like he tried to rape her or something when all he did was ASKING his girlfriend to do a tiny little thing for him. Just look at your choice of words here "marriage rape" because a man asked his partner for a simple footjob? Are you crazy? You sound like one of those crazy feminists who run around claiming all men are rapists and I don't think I need to tell you what a harmful mindset this is.
The guy did nothing wrong here, he didn't force her to do anything. All he did was asking his partner for something, which is his good right. (Just like it is her good right to say no, obviously. I never said it wasn't. I just think she shouldn't make it bigger than it is and like I said, if she ends a relationship over something silly like this, then her feelings for him can't have been all too serious to begin with. Because again, if you love someone you don't break up with him over something like this).
He didn't just ask for it. He insisted upon it. That means he WAS NOT TAKING NO FOR AN ANSWER. He was continuing to nag and pester her about it. That is COERCION, which is RAPE. And I suggest you look up the definition of a footjob, because that is very sexual. You're a moron. "Men have needs" is not a fucking excuse. And you're not even allowed to use the "English isn't my first language" excuse, because MULTIPLE people have informed you of these possible misunderstandings on your part and offered you a chance to back down, but you refuse to change your stupid opinion. People like you are the reason victims are so often failed by society. People like you are the reason evil men get away with things, because YOU are trying to make it sound like a "waa waa these feminists just hate all men" problem. You need to EDUCATE YOURSELF. And if you're too stupid and lazy to do that, then DIE like the SCUM you are.
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It was a huge milestone of scientific and technological advancement. (Plus, at the time, politically significant). Humanity went to space! We set foot on a celestial body that was not earth for the first time in human history! That’s a big deal! I’ve never thought about it before but now that I have, it’s ridiculous to me that that’s not part of our everyday lives and the public consciousness anymore. Why don’t we have a public holiday and a family barbecue about it. Why have I never seen the original broadcast of the moon landing? It should be all over the news every year!
It’s July 20th. That’s the day of the moon landing. Next year is going to be the 54th anniversary. I’m ordering astronaut shaped cookie cutters on Etsy and I’m going to have a goddamn potluck. You’re all invited.
PITCH: We call it Moon Day, and then every 7 years when it falls on a Monday, that's an even BIGGER deal and we call that Moon Day Monday and go absolutely apeshit about it (the next Moon Day Monday is in 2026 so we have a couple trial runs first)