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i am building a machine greater than myself
i am able to make phone calls and appointments
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affirmations
i am a complex organism brutally engineered by uncaring forces of nature
i am a product of billions of years and trillions of deaths
i am building a machine greater than myself
i am able to make phone calls and appointments

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Deadass
The social cheat I’ve learned for this is to say:
“I have to check my calendar, why, what’s Friday?”
This says “Maybe” without saying “Maybe”, and giving you the option to make up a Doctor’s Appointment You Forgot About (or reschedule one you didn’t!) depending on what they say.
It’s an amazingly powerful sentence for my Autistic and ADHD ass - it gives me the ability to judge my social spoons, as well as communicating that “hey, I might have forgotten something, it’s not you it’s me” in a very non-offensive way.
“I have to check my calendar, why?”
THANK YOU FOR THIS
PRO TIP: do not IMMEDIATELY respond in the negative or affirmative once they answer. Maintain the ruse. Give yourself to the count of, like, 30, before saying yes or no.
fuck i love you
“maintain the ruse” no legit check your calendar though there might be something on there you don’t remember, especially if you have ADHD
And if you have your calendar open and it IS something you want to do, you can actually put it on your calendar to not forget or double book!
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Re: the popular questions
knew this woman who used to be a gay man and when he was a gay man he liked ‘ironically’ referring to himself as she/her and so when he came out as a woman he decided the next logical step was to also switch his pronouns to he/him.

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If it makes you feel any better, he hated it too.
This is the funniest and saddest sentence I've read all week
what about trans men that /do/ experience male privilege? like, i'm a transmasculine bigender man/woman that presents male in most situations offline. and i absolutely experience male privilege. jobs treat me better, strangers address me before my feminine partner, i get to live in a house that a woman was kicked out of by a misogynistic woman, people listen to me. i'm privileged for the male half of myself that i show to the world, and i would lose it if i wasn't a man and didn't present like one.
There's a difference between individual privilege and systemic privilege.
While there may be some individual transmasc people who are privileged, they still aren't systemically, nor do they benefit from the patriarchy.
Take for example, black people. Sure, you have the occasional successful ones (Ben Carson, Obama, Clarence Thomas, Tyler Perry), and even some successful black women (Oprah, Sheila Johnson, Mia Love), overall, these are outliers and by no means represent the wider black community, or women at large.
These individuals still can be affected by racism, or sexism.
In the same way, sure, there may be some transmascs who "make it" and beat the system. But, at the end of the day, even the most successful and privileged transmascs is still affected by reproductive rights issues, corrective rape, and other elements of transandrophobia.
The phrase "conditional acceptance" may be of assistance in understanding part of what's going on here. Anon talks about being privileged for the male half that they show to the world. That's conditional acceptance, because it depends on that presentation and a lack of knowledge about the other parts of anon's personhood.
Before I started medical transition, I presented as a woman who was married to a man. (This is not the case.) I also presented as someone who was in a monogamous relationship, if you didn't look closely/were at synagogue with me, etc. (This is not the case.) I don't "look Jewish," so I'm not immediately pinged with antisemitism if I'm not visibly marking myself as Jewish. I'm invisibly disabled a lot of the time, so unless I've got my cane or my scooter or you see my limp when I'm tired or... I don't necessarily get immediate ableism.
But the minute that someone knows I'm a dyke, knows I'm transmasc, knows I'm in a "weird" relationship, knows I'm Jewish, knows I'm disabled, all of that "privilege" dissipates like a drop of water on a hot skillet.
Conditional acceptance is not privilege. It is a cage disguised as privilege, and it is only ever individual, not systemic. It demands the sublimation and invisibility of the marginalized individual in exchange for a little temporary safety and promises that if you make yourself at all visible, you will not only lose that safety but may be subject to immediate reprisals or punishment for your "deceit."
(This doesn't just apply to the marginalizations I listed above, naturally -- think about the term "trap", its origins and implications. That is conditional acceptance, too, and the consequences of outing for stealth trans people are almost always violence.)
EXCUSE ME, my boobs are down here. Look at them when I speak to you. 💢

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gender-affirming surgery is a months-long dark comedy. what the fuck do you mean you're charging me double for everything. what do you mean they itemize the bill by left and right ball. what the fuck.
they billed me for three?? three balls???
dramatically and violently turns into a werewolf and then continues doing the same thing I was doing before
Btw I think it's worth mentioning that I'm like. In some ways an extremely cynical person:
Literally, one of my major opinions on humanity is "Humans really seem to like committing genocide???" (Looks, obviously genocide is a fucking atrocity, and I'm in no fucking way diminishing that. It's just also something that people keep fucking committing.)
I work professionally with survivors of abuse, rape, and incest.
I think that most people are (by design, aka evolution!) fundamentally self-interested (and also that that's usually okay)
I am more caught up on the news than like/at least 90% of people.
So when I say that I think that:
Hope is real
There is real, substantial evidence for hope
I think we're going to beat climate change
There is a ton of evidence that supports us beating climate change,
We're going (continue) making the world a better place
The good of humanity and the world ultimately outweighs the bad
It's not because I'm sticking my head in the sand. It's really, really not!
I'm saying that in very real knowledge of how fucking shitty things are and can be.
And despite all that, I'm still hopeful. I'm still optimistic.
I still think hope is going to win.
You don't need to be some huge optimist to have hope.
Anyway here's a link to my masterpost on why we're going to beat climate change,
And here's a link to a great article on all the reasons that this century is, on average, the best time to be alive in human history.
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imagine top surgery in the fallout universe
your options are like
a guy named sawbones jones living in a tent outside a radiation spill, claims he has performed the surgery once and that in general most of his patients survive
a robot named SURGBOT1778-C that hasn’t been turned on in 167 years at a medical research facility that had seventeen different scandals for inhumane treatment of staff and clients
My endurance stat is like 3 and I’m full of 200 year old beer let’s go sawbones jones
Being 30 is fun. I was discussing anime with a teen at work and asked her how much of bnha she had watched. She had trouble answering and wasn't sure how to approach it. I said "better question was who was your husbando" and she turned bright red before mumbling an answer. They never expect me to know how deep their love of anime boys runs....
One time she said she used to be into BL and another employee down the hall asked what BL was and I yelled back "ITS YAOI" which reduced the teen to yelling "ITS SOFTCORE! SOFT CORE!!" So I yelled back "ITS SOFTCORE YAOI" anyway I get why dads are like that now