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Competence and presentation are completely separate things and confusing them is how you end up dependent on other people for your basic survival which is worst position available to any woman regardless of how soft her life looks from the outside. You need to be able to survive independently, manage a home, handle emergencies and navigate the physical world without requiring a man to be present and willing every time something needs doing. That is just basic adult functionality and opting out of it because it feels incongruent with a feminine identity is a form of helplessness that has been romanticized into something it is not.

My favorite time of day and lighting

Every time I look at you, I fall in love all over again. And every time I touch you, I want to show you how deeply that love burns… slowly, completely, until you feel it in your soul.

My love for you is the ground of all meaning. I possess you not as object but as the very horizon of my becoming, where every thought, every breath, returns to you as its origin and end.

DAYUM