chubby donuts

well apart from life being a lil overwhelming, another reason why I’ve been a little inactive on here is because I’ve been inching away from traditional social media and revisiting my love for the old/indie web, a lil passion that me and my girlfriend both share 🥹💕.

another thing the both of us share is that… obviously… we’re feedists. Finding community was what brought us together in the first place, and talking at length about how we’ve discovered and explored this kink throughout our lives has brought us even closer. what the both us (and many others in the community I have spoken to) have come to realise is that - finding community and resources surrounding feedism is hard.

from examining what this kink really is and what it means for us, working through shame and internalised fatphobia, navigating what it means to practice feedism ethically and in alignment with fat liberation, and of course, the fun stuff of actually practicing it, of building our own relationship with pleasure and hedonism. to answer these questions often requires many great resources that are scattered all over the place. every time I encounter a Cool Feedist Thing I’ve always thought - damn I wish I had a place to store, categorise and even talk about it in a way that doesn’t get lost in my blog (shh, I know tagging is a thing, it’s not organised enough for me!!!) amidst tighter cens*rship.

so here we are! after about a week of combining our coding, art (especially @doughyfatfox’s, look at our cute background!! 🤩) and writing skills, our site is live!

NOTE: It is still a huge work in progress, and I think it always will be. we want the site to continuously grow 👀 as our community grows, as our collective history gets richer.

what do we have right now?

an entire about page on feedism! (still a wip)

essential feedism resources (e.g., kink jars, RACK worksheet), mostly stuff me and @doughyfatfox used/are using as we explore this kink together

feedist and feedism-adjacent memes, credits to @doughyfatfox’s elite collection

a page about fat liberation (also a wip)

what are we working on?

the whole website essentially 😅. It’s still quite a big wip, but I think we do already have quite a cool selection of stuff on there, enough that we hope it’ll be a fun browse!