Fandom Problem #13,094:
The point of all my research and crowdsourcing (from people I know, mind, not tumblr children) was to portray a gay man realistically, with nuance, and without offensive stereotypes. It was not to covertly indicate to the reader that I am gay.
I am not gay.
I've never been gay.
I'm ace.
Just because something is realistic or vibes with you, it doesn't fucking mean the writer pulles that realism from themselves. Stop saying shit like "oh this was so written by an x person" in the comments. It's not quirky or funny, it's fucking presumptive and intrusive and feels like a boundary violation. Same as that transvestigation shit.











