Its A Sin

There is nothing wrong with being a feedist, no matter what society says. If you were affected by the content of the recent documentary and would like space to talk or process feelings, you can always reach out.

If you are currently struggling with concerns on how to practice feedism in a risk-aware way, would like tools to help you be safer when it comes to problematic behavior within the community, or are simply curious about consent and negotiations within a feedist dynamic -- FFL is hosting a RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) Workshop on Saturday, July 18, 2026, at 11AM PT/2PM ET/6PM GMT

if you cannot engage with fat people outside of a fetish context, you should not be engaging with fat people within a fetish context.

if you are unable to walk the line of differentiating a sexual fetish from how you fundamentally view & experience fat bodies & the vast complexity & deep humanity of fat people, you are not trustworthy with that fetish to begin with.

essentially: if fat people are so fused with fat fetish in your mind that it all blurs together & you can’t connect with us without the fetish being present (& we can always tell when it is, even when you think you’re being slick)…