Alex

"BuT aRoAcE pEOpLe caN sTiLL bE IN rElaTioNsHIpS aNd hAVe sEx"

yeah they can. Duh

you can also eat your neighbor alive. BUT DO YOU DO IT??!!!!

NO! EXACTLY

"I think love is the purest feeling people can have for each other.

Gender, social status, society, skin color, or education don't define you.

For me, love is wanting to take care of [him].

I want [him] to be happy.

I want to see [his] smile.

I want to hear [his] laugh.

I want to hug and wipe away [his] tears when the world is too harsh for [him].

I want to spend my life with [him] until we grow old."

people: you don't act like my kid/sibling/cousin/uncle/tv characters/etc

my AuDHD ass: [unknowingly says something inappropriate & unfitting]

people: you can't say that, that's inappropriate

[almost no media representation] aw dang it

["you just need to find the one"] aw dang it

[getting told to get therapy] aw dang it

[less visibility than other queer people] aw dang it

["I couldn't do that, that's such an important part"] aw dang it

[marriage and children being standard/expected] aw dang it

["that's gonna be such a sad life"] aw dang it

bi

trans (still bi)

trans, pan

agender, pan, asexual

nonbinary, gay, asexual

gender fluid, gay, aroflux, asexual, poly

trans, gay, asexual, poly

trans, aroace (with microlabels)

And still people try to say we choose this for attention?

dear fellow humans, shut the f*ck up, I would never have chosen this. Do you know how many restless and crying nights that brought? how many mean comments? How often I hated myself and wished to be "normal"? You tell me, someone would choose to be hated and hate themselves because they wish to be like those other people?

me, now: you're aroace

me, then: can't be. I'm panromantic (&asexual) and polyamorous

me, now: and why do you think you're pan and poly?

me, then: *defensive* because I like everybody the sa- *realizing* holyyyyy! okay, nevermind.