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I’m not a feminist. I am also not bashing women or body empowerment.
Let this be stated now.

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Part 2, literally just scrolled down and AGAIN. How is this valuable to anyone
Disgusted that as a young woman these are my suggested reels. Didn’t record them as live reels but the video feed (i.e. purpose) of these reels are much worse. A flaunt of sexuality with no substance. Absolutely no relation to anything else I follow. And absolutely no elevation for the women who post these. And bc yeah, Venom hangs out in a pink accented bathroom
i don’t think there’s anything inherently wrong with women wearing revealing and sexually inticing clothing, women showing off their bodies, and women being sexual. but PLEASE stop acting like just bc ur going against christian modesty that it somehow means you’re doing anything for feminism. you are not liberating women by wearing a tight see-through dress. you are not liberating women by calling your boyfriend “daddy” and following his sexual demands. you are not liberating women by talking about how much you love sucking dick and being sexually submissive. you are not liberating women by playing into your own objectification. you may be fighting against puritanical modesty but you are not fighting for female liberation, you’re just playing into a different aspect of the patriarchy.
I am sick to death of every single music video with a female artist focusing solely on how many sexy poses or dances she can do. What happened to a fucking story? Something? Even with a half assed story, the woman becomes little more than a product to be consumed.
While I find this to be a trend in general, it’s even more upsetting when the subject of the song is supposedly about female empowerment and shit.
I know Ariana Grande claims she does this in her videos because of female sexual positivity, but I don’t buy it. There’s a difference between expressing your sexuality and just being the object of the male gaze.
Don’t we want more for ourselves? Men don’t act like this in their videos. Because being seen as powerful and in control, for years, in music videos for them has had nothing to do with being scantily clad, writhing around, sticking out their ass, caressing themselves, and submissively cocking their head to the side constantly, etc.
Like, okay, I want people to not look at women as sex objects; I want women to be able to sing about sex without being called sluts. But we are not on an equal playing field.
I don’t know how to quite put it into words. But it just hurts my heart to see women objectified in music videos, valued for their body parts, wearing heavy makeup, doing all the same dance moves and posses–and that’s like the whole video–in the name of “female empowerment”, when it really is the opposite.

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Girl #4, 2006, Wanda Ewing - Joslyn Art Museum, Omaha, NE
Music videos of male artists: women get objectified.
Music videos of female artists: women get objectified part 2.
How The Male Gaze Affects Our Real-World Perceptions
Ellie Moody (3/3)
(1/3) What Is “The Male Gaze”?
(2/3) Behind The Camera: Female Representation
The media we consume shapes how we view the real world. It’s hard not to internalize the things that movies and popular culture teach us. Laura Mulvey explains how the fourth wall gives the illusion that what we see onscreen is unaltered or manipulated by humans and equipment. It appears natural and true, so we absorb it and begin to view the world (specifically the roles of women) that way. It naturalizes the dynamic of “woman as image, man as bearer of the look” (Mulvey 840). This carries over into societal gender roles, and affects how women view themselves. Women have been conditioned by society to constantly perform for male acceptance or to fill a need to be desired, thus perpetuating the patriarchal male gaze within themselves.
Having more women in writing and directing roles would definitely help to bring authentic female representation in films, but even female filmmakers (such as Sofia Coppola) still execute their films to perpetuate male gaze subconsciously. It’s become so internalized, so can we even subvert it?
The only answer may be social change.
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On Ethical Research for Sensitive Topics
I admit this blog can be very biased to my emotional-fueled input at times. I try to balance my perspective with research I find or happen to see on news outlets, etc. to truly grasp the whole picture of this Instagram-and-marketing-of-women thing. And I want to reiterate that I don't negate social media platforms for the incredible feats they have over olden day communication infrastructures. I evidently use social media. I receive a lot of important information through these outlets. I just think they're headed in the wrong direction (especially with the emergence of TikTok but that's a whole other discussion for a later post). One concept I was able to capitalize on this semester was Stasis Theory. That is, developing research conjectures that are inclusive to opposing information to the perceived issue I am investigating. I want to share this with you guys because I want you to know that I'm not just habitually Googling "female objectification exists" or "how male values are predominant in media", I really try to stay aware of avoiding that one bias where you are researching using terms to confirm your own bias, self-fulfilling prophecy I think? Here are the Stasis fundamentals I try to stick with: Facts: what is actually happening in the world around this issue, good and bad, how did it start, who's involved, and can it be changed
Definition: what exactly is the issue, what's the nature of it, to what larger events does it belong to, who/what influences this issue
Quality: is it good/bad, how serious is it, and what happens if we don't do anything
Policy: should action be taken?

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Picture This! Objectification Versus Empowerment in Women’s Photos on Social Media Amber L. Horan Bridgewater State University "The sexualized photos did correlate with the motivation statements of obtaining attention and more friends/followers" Need some more statistics?
hOt BoDy tHiCk bOsS bItCh wItH tHe BiG bOoTy GTFO You don't oppress other women to feel better about yourself. That's male standards manipulating you and you don't even see it. Women collectively putting each other down so only the most male-appealing types win? Get out.
There's a long-standing debate in feminism about sexual empowerment: How do we know when someone is being sexually liberated versus being se
Whew, this is a heavy article. I think this can help females understand their freedom to empowerment but also understand that boundaries can be established to ensure they are receiving the substantial praise and value they deserve. Again I'm not a feminist nor do I routinely follow this website.
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Implicit association tests are clear. But they shouldn't be an excuse.
Implicit association tests reveal the unconscious inferences we make between things. "...even when those inferences may connect with a prejudice they thought (or had hoped) they did not hold." With these tests in use, research suggests that globally, there is a larger dehumanization of the female body as compared to the male body. This is based off of a controlled environment where male and female subjects were objectively presented with male/female body images exposing revealing body parts, nude, half-nude, or in form-fitted clothing. If you're willing to take anything away from this, whether it is in concern for my topic or not, at least consider this: "System two (conscious) feeds off of system one’s (unconscious) objectives—whether to objectify or not to objectify—thus, system two must be readily monitored, avoiding consciously objectifying or self-objectifying, in order to discourage system one’s unconscious objectification." You've heard it before, once the media has control of your subconscious (fears, anxieties, trends, inclinations) they have control over all of you.

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How social media negatively influences in the women’s mental health through the objectification and dehumanization of their bodies.
An annotation on the most important aspect of this issue (in my opinion and with reference to the linked article) It's a market. Social media is no longer a medium for friendly communication and "catching up". With the proliferation of images of people share of themselves and their lifestyles, of the whole world looking intimately at what we do with our lives - those capitalistic brands are sharks, hunting down lives to exploit for their own profit. This is the "influencer" occupation. Branding items in your own personal way to influence the people closest to you that the product is valid. But it's not enough for you to just brand it. You don't get to do it your own way. You are at the hands of the big name company paying you for it. And do you know what their standards are? "... where capitalism and patriarchal system dictate the standards of beauty and behavior... woman's appearance and body couture takes precedence over their internal attributes and self worth... Most of these companies are focused on women with hourglass figures, proportionate size of breasts, the size of buttocks, as well as fairness of skin..." Deboramayer. (2019, December 11). Women’s body objectification. Medium. https://medium.com/at-the-intersection/womens-body-objectifiction-abad04fa5058 And I just had a separate epiphany that I'll share on another post.
An observation in my community
This is also in reference to my annotation of the "Woman's body objectification" article. Pre-professional modeling start-ups are emerging in my city. I don't know if this is the same every where else. I think it's funny though. These start-ups are purposed to give the average citizen, typically an 18-24 year old female (in my observations), the opportunity to take professional images of themselves. They learn how to walk runway-style, what photographic body postures to assume for the best body capture (to make them look taller, slimmer, curved - you know where this is going and it humors me), what camera lighting to use, what make-up to wear, what photo filters to apply: to ultimately achieve that Vogue image of themselves. It's really a thing out here! And again, I'm not talking about genuinely professional modeling local agencies helping youth who truly want to be Top Models. I mean these sideshow, one-or-two-man-run gigs for Insta. It's a tad cringy to me. Check out some sources, but please hear me out until the end of this post because I know you're thinking "well everyone has a right to use the tools, what if they really want to become models and don't have the money" and I totally get that part and using the most affordable resource, but just: https://www.instagram.com/elpmodels/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/modelcastings_elp/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/elementsmodelmanagement/ ... Where I see females using it most and sharing their images on is Instagram. That's it, it's just for Instagram. All of that effort, money, time, detail; invested into these couple of images. In turn for a few Likes. Yeah, maybe a few hundred Likes. A hundred or a thousand Likes makes no difference to me, they are one ultimate entity, one unit: validation. All of the excessive expenditures to get validation from followers who at the end of the day, only approve of your images because they resemble the same content that all other models, Influencers, and other amateurs assume to get the same result: Likes. It's all fed into itself: Likes = Body image = Likes
Open your eyes. They all really do look the same in the end.