Fun ways to ship Mensah and Murderbot
Objectors to shipping them need not respond, I am celebrating all the potential and fun ways they can be explored.
Because there's so much potential built into the canon and so little time for me to be the only one writing it so psppspspspspspspsps come explore mensahbot with me:
Hurt/Comfort - the staple fanfic trope!
Murderbot whumping is just standard at this point, may I introduce you to the delicious Mensah whump
Mensah has been shot, blown up, kidnapped, tortured (psychologically at minimum and likely physically), isolated, objectified, traumatised, legal battles, had family members kidnapped, assassins sent after her, family members shot at, has PTSD and anxiety and ruminating thoughts, GIANT guilt complex about Murderbot...
These two are constantly sacrificing themselves for each other! DeltFall! GrayCris Team! Pretending to be prisoner! GrayCris confrontation! Beacon explosion! Exit Strategy! The combat SecUnit in ES! The company, the company gunship, so many assassinations, Mensah dropping everything to go rescue it in NE.
Murderbot's anxiety and PTSD!
Mensah's anxiety and PTSD!
Fluff - the other staple fanfic trope!
So much tender loving care between these two!
Always rescuing each other!
Hugs, holding hands and grabbing collars are intimate acts between the two
Mensah is the only one allowed to touch it and the only one it finds not-terrible to touch.
It likes to hang out around her and see media with her and go to her family with her.
Medical/sick fic opportunities!
Family slice of life with or without children!
Trauma treatment and therapy together!
Comfort comfort comfort all the comfort
They fucking love each other so much. She's the only one it has said to her face how much it likes her. It calls her its favourite. It was worried she was its friend. She's so relieved its alive.
They revolve around each other constantly even as they recognise the codependency as bad and support each other in maintaining health independence and a healthy relationship!
Dark fic - everything can be dark or freaky or toxic when you're not a coward
She legally owns it, explore those power dynamics or take it to its extreme
Thiago thinks it is taking advantage and isolating Mensah from her family - hell yeah potential seed for abusive relationship. The interrogations and suspicions of Mensah's family. It COULD be abusing or manipulating her, it would be so easy for it do to!
She's the planetary admin and power corrupts, corrupt her. It would be so easy for her to manipulate and lovebomb Murderbot. Have her abuse and manipulate it.
The codependency and guilt.
Murderbot's suicidal idealisations.
The power dynamics - Martha Wells herself has talked about where they would have had a dark relationship and a power imbalance if it had stayed at end of ASR.
The way Mensah ignores its physical boundaries when she's anxious.
The way SecUnit ignores her privacy.
The way SecUnit casually manhandles her all the time.
Martha Wells said they would be toxic if it had stayed at end of ASR.
Martha Wells said Mensah has a savior complex!!!
TV specific - she did SPINAL SURGERY ON IT. Her hands were in its SPINE and she pulled out its NEURAL CORD. Pretty freaky!
She also did lubricant surgery on it
Gilded Cage/Saviour complex AUs where the intentions are pure and the actions are not
Hell go full delusional let Mensah lock it away in a storage box to keepit safe
Mensah misunderstood it so bad in ASR that it ran away. Plenty of room for misunderstandings to happen between them in this classic trope
Cultural clashes between a human and a construct, Preserveration and Corporation Rim, Planetary Admin and ex-slave
They argue all the time. Back and forth arguments since ASR where it argues with her about its place on the team and that continues and turns into banter.
She literally owns it and this is repeatedly brought up as a source of tension between them. It gets sharp, sarcastic and makes jabbing jokes. The power imbalance dynamic is a HUGE spaceship in the room that they're both afraid to talk about.
It has trust issues with Mensah, they specifically talk about this in Exit Strategy. She is its friend, and yet for a significant portion of the series it doesn't trust her and it has to slowly learn to trust hurt. This hurts her and she understands it.
The whole codependency thing? Tension and conflict with a huge side of guilt in both of them!
(book) Mensah siding with it against her team, her councillors, her planetary advisors, her family, her children. It's presence brings so much tension into her life in all corners of it! We have repeated examples of Mensah getting into angry stressful arguments for it.
(TV) Mensah siding with it against her team, then siding with her team against it during charged emotional moments, then siding with it again against her team.
THE MURDERING?! It's like a key plot point in Exit Strategy? And Fugitive Telemetry? And Network Effect?! She is willing to argue with it over the murder and it backs down and is willing to stop killing for HER.
Fun witty banter/bouncing off each other:
Murderbot's very first joke in both book and TV is with Mensah. Mensah also jokes with it. They also argue in jokingly fashions. They are needling at each other, poking at each other, nudging on boundaries from the very first book.
Murderbot is sending her wild purchase magazine requests during meetings.
Mensah's response to it asking how her trauma treatment is going is to poke fun at how it got kidnapped and nearly died.
Making self-depreciating jokes and poking at each other's weaknesses.
SO MUCH SHARED TRAUMA TOGETHER. Most of Mensah's trauma, Murderbot was the only one there! and a significant amount of Murderbot's trauma during the survey and after happened around Mensah or because of her!
Mensah straight up thinks about how similar they have been treated in being held captive, treated like an object, had choices taken away.
They are both soooooo anxious and they are both having flashbacks (Mensah having flashbacks and invasive thoughts and Murderbot having [redacteds])
Mensah is its medical proxy.
Mensah is reluctant to undergo therapy, is stubborn and pretends like she is fine so well that NOBODY but Murderbot KNOWS she's an anxious codependent wreck that has to be blackmailed into getting therapy that nobody else knows she's undertaking.
She's doing so badly she had to quit one of her jobs.
Murderbot asks her about how her trauma treatment is going because it is interested in getting trauma treatment.
Mensah talks with ART about Murderbot's trauma and it knows this and doesn't mind.
The whole reason she understands it so well is because she mirrors it perfectly and constantly? She knows instantly that its helping. She doesn't need to be threatened or governor moduled because Murderbot is doing what she would do.
They're both anxious sacrificial wrecks who put saving everyone else on their own shoulders? Who keep everyone behind them and protect everyone else?
They are both unravelling and losing it throughout the books and then they are both getting trauma treatment and slowly getting better!
They both have flashbacks/memories interrupting their lives and relationships...
Have you not read the short story where they both have the same thought patterns about each other?
And Mensah specifically muses about how similar they are, as does Murderbot constantly comparing itself to Mensah, and then in the TV show there is an entire episode dedicated to exploring how despite how different they appear - they are the SAME.
They are each other's heroes in each other's eyes.
They understand each other so much because of their similarities. Mensah thinks about how similar they are. Their internal narrations and concerns about each other and other people are the same type of anxiety and fretting written in similar ways.
They are both constantly watching each other and making notes of each other to the exclusion of everyone else.
Emotions about each other:
They are obsessed with each other. SecUnit is constantly thinking about her and what she means to it and what it means to her.
It compares people it meets to her on a grading scale
it mimics how she would respond to things
it is nice to people it doesn't like purely because they are important to Mensah.
And Mensah is constantly thinking about it, it left and she watched Sanctuary Moon so she could better understand it despite never knowing if she will ever meet it again.
she is the only person it will follow orders from
she is the only person it actively changes how it approaches problems to please
she is the only person it has said that it likes - repeatedly, she is the only person it has said it doesn't want to leave.
She watched its shows when it wasn't there to understand it, she sacrifices parts of her life for it, she loses reputation and money and family members for it.
They both take turns sacrificing themselves for each other.
Mensah's spot in its life:
It is at its most relaxed around her, she is the only one it seeks out to hang around with while others it waits for invitations.
She is one of its homes and it wants to go back to her. It doesn't want to be apart from her. It WANTS to stay with her! But it also wants to be free. And it can have both and she supports it.
Basically canon something :
Whatever they've got going on is so fucking weird multiple people are confused. They are both constantly asked by other people what their relationship is and what Murderbot's intentions to her are.
Generally that's not the kind of thing you ask someone you think is taking on a child/student role.
It started in ASR when Murderbot picked her up and put her into the hopper and everyone stopped what they were doing in an emergency to stare at them. Mensah was unaffected
They have relationship "breaking up" dating jokes with each other.
They also have serious discussions with each other about their relationship and how they DONT want to break up.
They are incredibly intense about each other, orbiting each other constantly and thinking about each other all the time.
She's the only one it touches and lets touch, including in casual manhandling ways where they both grab each other all the time.
When Martha Wells said ART is the most important person in Murderbot's life she immediately followed up with a clarification that Mensah is ALSO the most important person in its life.
She legally owns it in the Corporation Rim
She also owns it in Preservation under the Guardianship program - it does not have full rights and compares this to being a pet.
Mensah's daughter also owns Murderbot.
Mensah is the PresAux survey team lead.
Mensah is the Planetary Admin/President and it is a slave/ex-slave
Life experience disparity (Age disparity/gap)
Freedom of movement and choice
Mensah is regarded as a person everywhere and Murderbot nowhere, not even Preservation.
You could totally swing unrequited feelings about Murderbot by Mensah. Role in her partners!
Murderbot thinking about her constantly and comparing everyone it meets to her and missing her and wishing it was her - totally can be explored as unrequited
Multishipping - OT3, OT4, OTMORE
TMBD is a world where poly relationships are not only canonical, they are common.
Mensah is already poly, what's another to the group?
Canonically her partners are supporting her in what the fuck are you with Murderbot. They speak to it, the work around it, they don't blink when Mensah holds its hand and they kiss her while she does so. Murderbot is some kind of part of what's going on.
This is the easiest relationship in the series to get poly with tbh.
ART is over the moon about Mensah visiting, Murderbot is baffled by it. It cleaned itself over and over like it was dressing up for a date. ART and Mensah have private conversations with each other about Murderbot. Murderbot and Mensah have conversations with each other about ART.
SIMILARITIES BETWEEN THE THREE: All three of them have a drive to protect their teams/crew, all three of them are protectors, all three of them have been KIDNAPPED and held against their will and traumatised. ART and Mensah are incredibly similar, they both prioritise giving Murderbot choices and space, they both give it a home, they both invite it in and they both know the importance of leaving it free and LETTING IT GO. (fyi Mensartbot is a very active OT3 channel in New Tideland)
TV Gurathin has a crush on Mensah, pretty easy to turn that into an OT3 setup. Could be fluff could be dark. Lots of room to explore. The whole βWhy canβt you love meβ three way.
Mensahbotcule is an OT4 that is practically canon. Genuinely. Murderbot holds Mensah's hand while she kisses her partner and her other partner watches. It is involved in conversations about the whole Mensah family moving. Amena calls it Third Mom, it is basically a parent to the children, it looks after them, it goes to Mensah family events on the planet and other family outings.
It can be fun to explore unconventional dynamics and also her two partners are really cool and worth exploring.
Mensah/Ratthi/Murderbot - hello its two favourite humans???
Murderbot diaries specific - Kinky it's not sex but it's also not sex
CANONICAL. ROBOGORE. SURGERY SCENES. BETWEEN THEM. She carved a sapphic vulva into its back and it made jokes about it being her "first time". The scene involved it tastefully stripping and letting her touch it.
Holding hands can be kinky and sexual when you are these two.
Also holding collars/necks.
Cubicle as restraint devices. She has repeatedly seen it naked and confined.
The unhinged intimacy of those two holding hands or hugging.
Mensah has an internal implant.
We know SecUnit can feel her emotions over the feed since All Systems Red, since it was in connection with her damn near 24/7, and we know she can also feel its emotions over the connection in Exit Strategy.
SecUnit cut the connection to Mensah's implant because the malware attack would have hurt her like an augmented person.
She's not augmented but she's certainly capable of non-biological feed sex.
Also they seem to be messaging each other near 24/7 over the feed for everything. Conversations are partially feed and partially verbal.
Murderbot diaries specific - It's a construct, she's a human
SecUnit is canonically fascinated by her faces. It tracks and records her wrinkles, her blemishes, her eye bags. It notices her hair. It has drones repeatedly up in her face to get maximum looks at her.
Mensah has narrated how she thinks about it physically, how she likes its bulk, how she feels safe around it.
Murderbot diaries specific - friendly to QPR, third thing, AAA, aroace etc
they are undefined and open to exploration
They go from strangers to cautious friends with one-sided trust to boss/security guard to family to therapy buddies to ??? WHAT ARE THEY?!
Neither of them can even define their relationship, they are the definition of "What is your relationship?" "I don't know"
Mensah is clearly willing to work with whatever Murderbot wants or desires. She has two partners she can be sexual with.
Most Mensahbot shippers ship them for their queerplatonic third mysterious unlabelled thing (according to a poll in our tumblr group)
ready made incest is right there, put her in a motherly role and go to town!
legally, she owns it. go forth slavery!
BDSM/Ds etc Murderbot canonically likes hurting people sometimes. And who knows maybe Mensah can see the appeal or maybe she likes to let go once in awhile from her stressful job.
tbh I'm not sure what a forbidden kink really is, isn't that all kinks?
found a list: mindwipes/brainwashing - well their dynamic is just RIPE for that! (or if you're really creative, check out the mensahbot fic where Mensah has amnesia!)
Misgendering/gendering/sex parts - install them on Murderbot, give Mensah a strap on, have Murderbot freak out about its gender after sex and panic in her arms that it's a sexbot
exploring how they always find each other through alternate meetings!
they will always save each other
everyone else around them thinks they're weird
Role swaps! Species swaps!
Human AUs of light hearted fluff or never ending angst and despair
Soul mates! Can SecUnit's have them?
Omegaverse! Who is what? Is Murderbot anything? How do they handle being in heat?
Vampirism! Who's the vampire? How did it happen? How is it handled?
Animal AUs where Murderbot is magical mystical animal (or a Murderwolf)
THERE IS SO MUCH POTENTIAL TO EXPLORE BETWEEN THESE TWO
I could genuinely write more but I must sleep. If you have anything to add to this list, I'd love to hear it because otherwise I'm going on a rampage in google docs to keep collecting all the things Mensahbotters love about Mensahbot to explain why we love and enjoy it and that there's so much to enjoy!