what if i was. space ship

and

Too many I know, give more than asked and run themselves ragged.

You are NOT anti-harassment if you make exceptions.

If you sit there and go 'well, yeah, it's bad to tell others to kill themselves.' and then turn around a yell 'TERFs kill yourself!' or whatever, you aren't anti-harassment.

Do I like TERFs? Hell no. Do I like Nazis? Hell no. Do I like homophobes? Hell no. And there are a million other people and groups and whatnot that deep down in my heart, I absolutely detest.

However, you are not the better person for telling them to kill themselves. You are not morally superior or whatever. You are not remaining pure or some shit.

What you're doing is half-stooping down to their level.

What you're doing is still telling another human being to harm themselves.

What you're doing is still harassing another human being.

fandom is a hobby, not a form of activism

adult women aren’t inherently creepy for being in fandom and having hobbies apart from raising babies and doing taxes

the vast majority of people pushing back against the worrying trend of instigating harassment over fictional characters and relationships aren’t incest supporters or pedophiles, actually

liking a m/f ship doesn’t make someone a dirty heterosexual invading your space

preferring gay ships doesn’t make you ‘’woke’’ and good

no one owes you a disclaimer that they are a good person who recognizes that their favorite fictional villain’s actions are evil and that they don’t condone those actions irl

liking a fictional villain is in no way comparable to advocating abuse/murder/genocide/etc and you’re a fucking idiot if you believe that

just because a woman is attracted to a fictional villain doesn’t mean she’s promoting toxic relationships or going to end up in a toxic relationship. assuming women can’t tell fiction and reality apart stinks of internalized misogyny 

some rando’s a/b/o fanfics have none of the level of influence that popular tv shows and movies spreading propaganda have

no one owes you a detailed description of their traumas and mental health problems

abusive relationships are not the same as enemies to lovers ships

y’all need to chill the fuck out over people, relationships, actions and events that don’t actually exist and learn how to enjoy and discuss them like normal people

fandom is a hobby, not a form of activism