A Sexual Being

The Back Side #febphotofest

I really like the angle of this image, and yet I find it difficult to share. I embrace my big butt, wide hips, and thick thighs. It’s ridiculous to pretend they don’t exist when they’re right there. But like so many of us, I get caught up in what other people will see. And the image I often present is the booty pop — back arched, knees slightly bent, butt out. It’s a good look, but so is this.

Wh…

Masturbation Monday: Week 231 by Molly Moore and Michael Knight @mollysdailykiss @domsigns

When I whispered, “We need more cock around here” into the void, the Universe responded. With an email from Molly Moore, saying, “You need more cock around here, and I can help!” This week, we get Molly’s amazing photography skills and Michael Knight’s (aka DomSigns) amazing cock. I can’t wait to find out what kind of smutty goodness this image inspires!

Image originally published as Je t’adorean…

Developing Your Strengths in D/s and BDSM

When you hear the word “strength,” what comes to mind? All kinds of things, probably. This week, we’re taking you on our winding conversation through what it means to be strong as a submissive, in a D/s relationship, and the strengths that don’t often get celebrated or acknowledged as strengths.

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I’m so happy to welcome Sorcha Rowan to the Masturbation Monday round-up challenge. I say challenge because I know exactly how difficult it is to pick three favorites when everyone brings the smutty heat. If you don’t know Sorcha yet, you need to pay attention. She writes smut that’ll set your screen on fire — the definition of a one-handed read. 

First, I want to thank Kayla for asking me to do…

One day I’ll have to admit to myself that I may have some chronic health problems. That day is not today but only because I don’t have the bandwidth for it right now. But I will admit that my health takes a huge chunk out of my sex life.

For two weeks, John Brownstone and I gleefully planned the kinky fuckery we would do over the course of a weekend. Not justbecause we really need more of that in…

Why I'm a Masochist #guestblogger #contributor #masochism #kinkyfuckery

I’m not sure exactly when I realized I was a masochist but I always knew that I had an unusually high tolerance for pain. I was that kid that poked my bruises, licked my cuts and liked Indian burns a little bit toomuch. But my pleasure in pain didn’t become sexual until college. My boyfriend and I experimented with rope, light bondage and fumbling attempts at rougher play. It’s funny to think…

The Calendar Man by Dr. J #MasturbationMonday #podcast @DoctorJAuthor

I love Dr. J. Her writing, her personality, HER! She writes some of the steamiest, sexiest smut, and ]always with fully developed characters, clear lines of consent, and sexy, kinky fun. This week’s story, The Calendar Man, is no exception!

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John Brownstone reads The Calendar Man by Dr. J.

Originally published during Masturbation Monday Week 174.

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I love, love, love F. Leonora. I might have mentioned that a few times. Not only is she writing one of the longest-running sexy storylines I’ve ever read, she’s a great writer and a massive supporter of the sex blogging community. This week she chose the top three posts for Masturbation Monday!

Teasing Touch by Ode to Dinah

I have been using my reddit all wrong! I love this sexy exchange from…

Masturbation Monday: Week 230 by sub-Bee @sub_bee

I adore sub-Bee for so many reasons. She’s funny, kind, sweet, and smart. She and her partner also have a (wonderful) habit of taking photos that turn you on, make you think, or (my favorite) beg for a story to go with it. This week’s prompt is one of those kinds of images. 

Image originally published as Name That Tune and published with permission.

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Going Slow and Having Patience in D/s Relationships

It might seem strange for a notoriously impatient person (Kayla, here!) to tell everyone else to be patient, but the world is a strange place. Also, in D/s relationships and new kinky experiences, patience tends to make things better — long term. But we get it. When you figure out you’re kinky or you want to experience it with someone, you want it RIGHT NOW. This week, we’re making the case for…

Spells in Waiting by Michaela L. Cane #ShamelessPromotion #eroticromance #paranormal @MichaelaLCane

I’m officially bringing back Shameless Promotions — where I pimp out smutty authors with newly or kind of recently published books. Because if you’re the type of person who reads the smut Iproduce, I imagine you’re the type of person who reads in general and enjoys smut. With so many books being published all the time, it’s hard to know where to begin. This week, a big welcome to Michaela L. Cane…

Why Patience is Important in D/s

Patience. It’s a word often associated with a certain stereotype of Dominant (the patient “wolf”). Patience is also the one thing that a certain stereotype of submissive lacks (or so we’re all told).

But really we’re all different and unique. Some people are wired to be more patient than others, regardless of their role. More of us are impatient than others — we might just be better at hiding it.…

I Want So Many Things #MasturbationMonday

I want so many things…

Time to lie in bed, snuggle under warm covers, and exist by your side.

Your hands skimming the outline of my body as you memorize the shape of me.

Cruel, unrelenting pleasure I’m convinced I can’t handle, but I will…for you.

Slow, seductive warmth that seeps into every cell, permeating every part of who I am.

I need so many things…

Your touch, your gaze, your focus.

A…

How We Get Kinky with Panties #KinkoftheWeek

We’ve said it before, and we’ll say it again…anything can be kinky, and there are multiple ways to get kinky — with any single item. Thanks to inspiration from this week’s Kink of the Week (all about panties), we’re sharing ways we’ve gotten kinky with my panties.

Feel free to use or adapt these ways to your own kinky fun.

*Note: In this discussion we’re focusing on panties worn by anyone who…

Gargoyle and Another Dream by F. Leonora Solomon #podcast @fdotleonora

F. Leonora Solomon is a close friend, an amazing blogger, and a great storyteller. Since the very early days of Masturbation Monday, she’s kept up a storyline that always leaves me wanting more. Some scenes need a lot of context of what’s going on and others don’t. This week, because the posts are so short, we have two vignettes from Sabrina and Harry (the current main characters) that need…

Masturbation Monday: Week 229 by Violet Fawkes @fireandhoney

↑↑↑ This lovely image? That’s just the tease. Scroll down a bit for Violet Fawkes, the lovely writer of smut, in all her glory. Violet is no stranger to Masturbation Monday. You may have heard her story, Yours, in a recent Masturbation Monday podcast. Or maybe you’ve enjoyed her previous prompt (Masturbation Monday 186). Either way, whether she’s writing it or inspiring it, Violet Fawkes brings…

Sexual submission is a huge part of our D/s relationship. While we know sex isn’t part of every power exchange, for many people, it’s central to it. It’s unique to all of us, but there are things we’ve learned about this part of our D/s over the years, especially recently as we’ve decided to focus more on our sex life.

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Not every submissive…