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do you have any suggestions on getting into (IRL) kink as a trans girl? I've tried the more general scenes and they're all some flavor of hopelessly transmisogynist (usually of the "we'll say you're a woman I guess but dont ever expect us to actually act like it" variety) and if there's a transfem-specific or even just trans kink space they're not advertising themselves publicly. I feel sort of stuck, or I guess more accurately kept out, no matter how much I put myself out there
Ha. Uh. Yeah. It fucking sucks.
In my experience, that will likely continue until you find an actual transfem specific space. Though transfem run spaces are usually less bad, it can be hard to seek those out.
Practically, the way you find in person kink as a transfem is by seeking out not 'transfem specific kink space', but just 'transfem specific space' and within those spaces flirting and finding people who share your interests. Or, alternatively, by exploring transfem kink online and finding people in your area through brute force. That's what I did!
Downstream from this, there do exist rare transfem specific kink groups and activities, but they don't tend to advertise too publicly. Combination of "know someone to get in", "invited by word of mouth", and "someone found you attractive at a public activity and invited you to the next one".
Anyway, good luck. I wish you the best.
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restrained summer fun. tied up summer fun. bound and gagged summer fun.
the polyamorous sadist would like you all to organize yourselves into a wack-a-mole type arrangement
Wizard girl glamouring her clothes so that anyone who isn't sapphic sees a modest outfit instead whatever incredibly slutty clothes she has on (or just her fully nude body).
Prev this is gold why would you leave it in the tags
You can add new erogenous zones if you hit her hard enough
Why do white people need to do anything differently about kinks with racialized histories? If you don't feel comfortable calling a white person master or being whipped by one, shouldn't you just tell them you don't want these things when you are discussing kinks and limits? It seems like proper communication resolves all the issues involved here.
You are 18 so I’m going to answer this in good faith.
Unless you are racist and plan to never date anyone non-white, or are monogamously partnered to one person your entire adult life, if you do not consider the boundaries and histories of your kinks even if you still perform them, you WILL eventually at best say something horrifically offensive to a partner/potential partner without their consent, or potentially harm them worse with unconsidered bigotry.
To give a non-racial example that happens to me a lot, I’m going to mention Caning. I’m disabled, and use a cane any time I’m not at home as a mobility device critical to my ability to exist. I’ve had several potential partners, and far too fucking many strangers, ask me some variation of “oh it would be so hot if you caned me with that, will you?”
There is nothing wrong with caning as a form of impact play. However, this always, ALWAYS comes off as fetishization of my disability. There are ways to ask/talk about mobility devices being used in kink that aren’t ablest or nonconsensualy fetishizing! But they require the person not using a mobility device to have actually thought about the ways that bigotry could inform their kink and how to ask without being ableist.
It’s similar with race. To continue the maid fetish example, there are colonized countries like the Philippines whose main export is their people into service industry outside of their home country, especially into domestic work. Many of these jobs are modern day slavery, and people in diaspora may have people in their direct families affected by this. To bring this up to them without their consent due to your own ignorance would be you asking if you can fetishize the suffering of their people, even if you weren’t doing it with intent to harm. Filipinas in particular are often flooded with ads/content marketed towards whites specifically trying to promote the enslavement/kidnapping/assault of Filipinas while trying to interact with their identity both within and without nsfw spaces. (As a note, I am not Filipina, this was written with input from my Filipina friend)
So yes, you do gotta know what’s going on with your kinks and ways you interact with them even if you’re white - you don’t have to stop fuckin doing them, you just have to know how to mitigate potential harm, which is a bare fuckin minimum for participating in a kink with other people.
My mother, Filipina, was the only Asian woman in a many-mile radius in 90's backwoods Tennessee, and she was only there because she'd been strongarmed* into a teen marriage with a white husband who was even younger than her—
*I am not yet enough at peace with my memories to use a stronger word for it. I hope it comes soon.
—and he didn't want the marriage either but that didn't stop him from raping her (conceiving me!). Her English was terrible, she couldn't drive and there was nothing you could walk to through those woods, all she had was a couple white-woman friends at church to keep her going. And they called her Lingling.
And... I derive sexual enjoyment from doing housework for white partners. But I do not enjoy reciting all that ^ damage for them. I do not bear the moral responsibility to educate an endless train of bitches.
So I need them to come to the negotiation already understanding the titanic weight, the millions of deaths, of why a Filipina woman might want to do their housework. Of why she's going to start crying partway through, and why that's part of what she wants out of it.
Being inadequately critical of your desires makes you at best tedious to the people who might want to play with you, but more likely it will make you dangerous. I could have made this point better but I'm mad.

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pathetic succubus who cums in her panties when you stroke her horns the right way
disembodied hands my beloved
Woke little sister, flushed and in between heavy breaths: "we should be doing this. It's perfectly fine. Incest taboos are based in eugenics."
Woke older sister, panting softly: It’s just praxis, it’s just praxis, it’s-
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paying for transition surgery by signing up to be the demo unit
it'd be weird for other prospective patients to not try before they buy, right? practically community service, to let them feel up your newly round, full, silicone-enhanced breasts, massive and yet perfectly matched to your frame. to show off for them how much depth the surgeon gave you, helping them slide different sizes of candy-colored toy into you, watching each dot vanish past parted lips. to let them finger you, showing off your full range of orgasmic response, leaving you panting and begging as a testament to the work. to read through the recovery guides with them next to you, to list off the complications that failed to claim you, to guide their fingers across long-healed surgical scars, and whisper the truth that transcends your original biology and theirs: "this is where they cut out the parts that were holding me back." □

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the problem with hypnosis porn games made by straight people is that no matter how interesting they make the premise, a few hours in you realize that they genuinely think the hottest thing you could possibly do with hypnosis powers is have penetrative heterosexual sex with somebody who would otherwise not be interested
this is because to a cishet person, porn is inherently about penetrative heterosexual sex, and all other aspects of the experience are just background details.
ropeplay isn't about artistry and the pleasure of restraint, it's about tying a woman up so that a man can put a penis in her. Primal isn't about animalistic pleasure and the eroticism of predator-prey relationships, it's about a man growling a little while pinning a woman down to put a penis in her. Knifeplay isn't about violent power dynamics and sadomasochism, it's about a man threatening a woman with a knife so he can put a penis in her.
It's honestly pretty fucking bleak.
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