Techniques for Hotwives: by my wife
I absolutely love being a hotwife. One of the best parts for me is driving my husband insane with lust for me by giving him just the right blend of teasing and reassurance. Not only do I get the freedom and variety of choosing my own sexual partners, but I also get a husband who burns with desire for me. For the purpose of this entry Iβm going to use the term hotwife for any wife with permission to play, cuckoldress for a hotwife who emphasizes her dominance in the sexual relationship, huband for the hotwifeβs primary partner (could easily be a fiance or boyfriend), and lover for the other sex partner whoβs not the husband.
Here are some techniques I regularly use that Iβve found hotwives and cuckoldresses can use to make their encounters extra fun for their husbands and for themselves.
When Husband is Watching You with Another Man
Eye Contact* - Nothing will arouse and tease your husband like strong eye contact with him. Eye contact says, βLook at me!β and makes it impossible for either of you to ignore or trivialize whatβs going on. Eye contact can be gentle or fierce, depending on your style and the message youβre trying to send. I prefer to lock eyes for a long time, then wink or smile right before I look away. I like to lock eyes with my husband while Iβm blowing my lover.
Smile* - Smiling is both a tease and a reassurance. It says both, βLook how much fun Iβm having!β and βEverything is OK.β I love to smile at him when Iβm riding my lover cowgirl-style.
Say Something* - You donβt have to jabber away, but itβs fun to say things now and then. I love dirty talk with my lover while my husbandβs watching. I also like to interact with him, asking, βHow are you liking the show?β or βDonβt you wish you were doing this?β I also encourage my lover to talk about how good everything feels and how much fun heβs having. Moaning, screaming, crying, laughing, giggling, etc. are all great things to do, too. Itβs also cute to call you husband by terms of endearment like honey, baby, etc. when youβre being fucked by another man.
Dress Up* - High heel shoes, lingerie, nicely done nails, and perfume all say, βIβm putting effort into looking fucking hot for my lover!β You husband will be aroused by your appearance and jealous of the effort to look good for another guy.
When Husband is Listening from Another Room
Go Nuts* - Scream, cry, moan, laugh, beg, talk dirty, giggle, and slurp. Encourage your lover to slap your butt. These sounds will float through the closed door and to your husbandβs ears, driving him wild with desire and jealousy.
Emerge, then Vanish* - Take a break from fucking. Go out into the room where your husband is: hair a mess, makeup smeared. Have a glass of water. Say hi to your husband. Then, go back to the bedroom. Close the door. Lock it.
Make a Movie* - Film your bedroom romp. Hook the camera in your room to the TV in the room where heβs sitting so he can watch live feed! Heβll be scratching at the door in no time.
When Husband is Not Around
Call Him* - Itβs fun to call him and put the phone on speaker phone while youβre getting railed. Then, husband can listen! Even more fun (for you cuckoldresses) is let your other guy call from his phone instead. Itβs more humiliating.
Texts* - Like above, but text dirty things. What youβre doing, feeling, etc. Have your other guy send husband dirty pics of what youβre doing.
Get Caught* - I love having my husband walk in on me when heβs not expecting anything. Just make sure that you know heβd be OK with this, and that your lover is also OK with this. Some people donβt like surprises.
Leave Evidence* - Your lingerie lying around the bed, sex toys on the nightstand, or a condom in the garbage all remind your husband of what you were doing in his absence.
Make a Movie (pt. 2)* - Film your bedroom romp and leave the recording on the nightstand for him.
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