Assigned Bastard At Birth

i think there is a phenomenon where sometimes a trans person will go “hmm. i am treated as a man when it is convenient for others, and a woman when it is convenient for others, and often as a freakish third thing excluded from the advantages of both. surely, because of the gender binary, the Other Type of trans person experiences the opposite: they reap the benefits of maleness and femaleness at once.” like babes no they can do it twice

This applies to a bunch of other subgroups of the queer community too. Asexuals are made to feel like freaks for not being sexual enough by the same society that makes everyone else feel like freaks for being too sexual. Lesbians feel pressured to be bi even while bi women feel like they'd be more accepted if they were lesbian. Butches, femmes, and wlw who are neither are all made to feel like they're doing it wrong. PLUS unique facets of shittiness for every shade of non binary PLUS different attitudes towards mlm and wlw PLUS divisions within mlm spaces etc etc etc. And these frictions and differing needs and experiences are absolutely worth discussing, but every time we decide the problem is just that Those Other Queers have it easy we are making the actual problem worse.

Its nice to be corporeal by which i mean having a physical form with which to interact with the world around you but i will not lie to you there are problems associated

I like when you click a link and it turns purple its like youre bruising it

dude’s fucking TORN about whether or not to buy a beret

i like how all cats regardless of species can either look rlly badass and cool or just incredibly silly stupid

interacting with the cool mutual while full of fear and anxiety

one trick to learn (and this is easier when you're older) is that absolutely no one is cool. there is no such thing as a cool person. anyone you think is cool is just anxious about things you haven't learned about them yet

I… what? Are you ok Alice? Is this a cry for help?

No it's just funny. At least to me.

[recommending something i sincerely love] ok so the thing about it is it kinda sucks

I will never stop loving trans men and transmascs and trans boys and transneutrals. You are so so incredibly loved by me, if no one else. I will always protect this community because you all DO mean the world to me. No one will ever shame me out of loving my trans siblings and my trans brothers. No one will ever convince me that loving marginalized people equally is wrong.