[[I was with you until you mentioned that in lore Man'ari are pain perverts.]]
That isn't what was said at all. If that was your interpretation, you're either doing so on purpose or you really can't separate the idea of sex from something. No, canon says they prefer to torture or otherwise be violent INSTEAD of being lustful. In place of. As in, they do not feel lust. They want to hurt people. Stab and burn. Nothing further.
There is no "pervert" part. No sexual pleasure is derived. You added that yourself you weirdo.
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