in what ways would wonpil indirectly show affection to his so?
so we already know that wonpil is a big cuddly baby, like being near you is enough to make his heart flutter
he loves seeing you happy, and he loves it even more if heβs the reason behind it
firstly, i think holding hands is a really big thing for him in terms of his love language. although it doesnβt seem indirect to you,
for him he can express his love to you through it
for example, if youβre out in public with him, if your fingers are laced together he knows that youβre by his side, and that heβs not going to lose you in crowded places
depending on the situation too he can comfort you if your hand is in his, heβd rub his thumb over your knuckles, and give your hand a gentle squeeze to soothe you and to let you know that heβs here for you, right next to you
and at times where he canβt hold your hand, heβll brush his pinkie finger against yours
another thing would be to always make sure that you both get time together in the day to talk, whether that be physically face to face, or a facetime call
he would never let you go a day where you donβt hear from him, like if his schedule is filled to the absolute brim heβs still going to make sure he takes at least 5 minutes out so he can make sure that your day is going okay
it doesnβt matter to him if heβs had the worst possible day of his life, he could be having trouble songwriting, recording, or missing home, he has to make sure that asks you how you are
and if he has had a bad day, and he asks you how your day is and you reply that itβs bad too, his full focus will go on you, heβd forget about all his worries for a moment he just has to make sure that youβre alright
he would never want you to feel as if youβre forgotten, no matter how many times you reassure him that itβs okay for him to put his work first sometimes, he canβt let himself
wonpil would also do small things that make your day go a little smoother
if he has a day off and you have to go to work/school, heβs going to set his alarm for the same time as yours to make sure he can spend as much time with you as possible before you have to leave
(even if he just whines the whole time at you to stay home and cuddle with him)
i can see him being the type of boyfriend to leave you little notes in your lunch too
heβd always make sure that your headphones were in your bag, because he knows how much you hate to be out on your own without them
heβd install an app on your phone that sends you notifications throughout the day reminding you to drink water, and you stop for a minute and try to remember when you downloaded it, not knowing that wonpil did it it for you
heβd always be buying you little trinkets and gifts he sees during his day
if heβs away in another country heβd return home with half his suitcase full with little gifts for you
even if itβs just things like a small little keyring that reminded him of you
most of the conversations with his family would be about you
heβd gush about you so much to his mum
heβd talk a lot about having a future with you
heβd speak about things you could get to put in your big house youβre going to buy together and how youβll decorate it to make it cosy
βwe can adopt a dog!!! baby we have to adopt a dog!!!!! we should look at adopting a dog right nowββ
on days when he comes home from the studio late and youβre waiting up for him to get home, heβd walk in and be like
βhave you eaten yet?β
cue food dates at 1am while youβre both dressed in cosy hoodies and sweats
he would want to try and live the most normal life as possible with you
so late night dates would be one of his favourite things, because he can freely walk around the city without a mask and hat on, and show your relationship off to the empty streets
heβd stare at you a lot too, almost in disbelief that youβre actually his
he wouldnβt be able to believe that you still have the same affect on him as you did the first day he met you
heβd smile softly at you a lot, especially when youβre doing the most normal things
even if youβre just sat across from him scrolling through your phone, he looks at you like youβre the most precious angel in the world
when youβre sleeping and curled up next to him
some nights heβd purposely not fall asleep, just so he could watch you
the reason being would be because you inspire him so much at times like this
when he can trace the soft features of you face with the soft brush of his fingers
heβd take in every detail of you, from your eyelashes, to the curve of your nose, and the colour of your lips
heβd have so many half written songs that youβre the meaning behind
but he wouldnβt want to share them with you just yet, so for now heβd just hum the melody while you lay in his arms
and heβd whisper out the lyrics heβd already got down, and his heart would just feel so content
because yes, youβre asleep and you have no idea of the thoughts that go through your boyfriends head at 3am
but youβd also have no idea that youβre also his muse, because even if wonpil canβt scream from the rooftops that his heart belongs to you
the meaning behind any song heβs written, is always you
