Trans man, he/him. 36. Here for my fellow trans people who were 30+ before realising- it is not too late. Most of my posts here are rambling emotional messes- be warned. Art blog: merry-thought.
When you are three small bears and you totally have your 'three small bears in a trenchcoat' disguise ready to go, but then it all goes wrong! They are not making it out the door are they...
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I do think I am being passive-aggressive-d by the gender critical couple infesting my eco circle. Like, I used to know you! We weren't friends friends, I didn't know them like that, but we were comrades, you could say. We worked together on eco activism stuff, alongside a lot of other people, united in a cause. Now you're going to passive aggressively offer to get drinks in to everyone but me at our mutual friend-comrade's wake?!
This piece is from a fic by @chilicia titled Meeting Another New, specifically a scene where Sonic carries a young Ivo Robotnik on his back - check out the work here!
Also check out the other artworks from my fellow artists, @sparksketching and @alephzdraws !
It was a delight as always taking part in this years @sthbigbang - happy 35th birthday Sonic!!!
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I don't think I'm going to the trans parliament activism rally on 25th June
I talked it over with my work LGBTQ network. A member had been last year when they did this just after the supreme court ruling. The member said that it really would work best and be most useful if my MP would meet me. I said there's basically no chance that he will. :( In my town in the eco activism circle, we are all familiar with his constant refusal to engage with anything. He knows that the best way to keep his seat is to never, ever do anything you wouldn't expect from a Tory MP who has been MP of his constituency for a VERY long time.
Then the member said, what has he said on this issue? Maybe there's something you could work with if you green card him for a discussion on the day? So I looked it up and turns out he is indeed a vocally anti-'trans lobby' pro 'common sense' man who was quick to praise the supreme court ruling.
So I decided there is nothing there. I'm sorry, I can't. I don't want to talk to him at all and I cannot see any benefit in doing so. He won't budge on any green issue, there is basically 0% chance he would budge on this. And on top of that, it's forcast to be like 33C that day and for UK infrastructure that's put out a weather warning heat, so I don't feel I can even justify going out there just for a show of numbers.
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I don't think I'm going to the trans parliament activism rally on 25th June
I talked it over with my work LGBTQ network. A member had been last year when they did this just after the supreme court ruling. The member said that it really would work best and be most useful if my MP would meet me. I said there's basically no chance that he will. :( In my town in the eco activism circle, we are all familiar with his constant refusal to engage with anything. He knows that the best way to keep his seat is to never, ever do anything you wouldn't expect from a Tory MP who has been MP of his constituency for a VERY long time.
Then the member said, what has he said on this issue? Maybe there's something you could work with if you green card him for a discussion on the day? So I looked it up and turns out he is indeed a vocally anti-'trans lobby' pro 'common sense' man who was quick to praise the supreme court ruling.
So I decided there is nothing there. I'm sorry, I can't. I don't want to talk to him at all and I cannot see any benefit in doing so. He won't budge on any green issue, there is basically 0% chance he would budge on this. And on top of that, it's forcast to be like 33C that day and for UK infrastructure that's put out a weather warning heat, so I don't feel I can even justify going out there just for a show of numbers.
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Transphobia is about to be signed into law in the UK. We can fight this.
I am begging the UK trans community and its allies to attend the Mass Lobby at Parliament on June 25th, 11am-4pm, organised by Trans Solidarity Alliance.
Last year we broke the record for an LGBT+ mass lobby of Parliament. Will you help us break it again? Join us on 25th June 2026 to demand be
The new EHRC Code of Practice pushes trans people out of toilets, hospital wards, and community spaces. It normalises gender policing based on appearance and stereotypes. It becomes statutory guidance in the UK by the end of June.
Trans people are now legally their assigned gender at birth and must join gendered spaces accordingly, but if they are perceived as their lived gender, they can also be ejected from those spaces. The guidance says: either break the law, or don’t pass too well.
A mass lobby is where you invite your MP to discuss your concerns with you in-person. Ask your MP to:
Demand full parliamentary scrutiny, debate, and use their free vote on the EHRC Code of Practice.
Support any motions rejecting the EHRC guidance. As of June 4th, Labour MP Nadia Whittome has submitted a prayer motion - Early Day Motion 240.
Write to Bridget Phillipson, the Minister for Women and Equalities about our concerns
Your MP does not have to be an ally, they do not have to respond to your email for you to show up and greencard them (details below the cut.) What matters is that as many people as possible show up.
I cannot stress this enough: Showing up in person matters. It is much more effective than petitions, emails, and letters.
It is a horrible, stressful time, and I am so sorry if you're trans and live in the UK. But I was at last year's mass lobby and the line for greencarding alone stretched around the back gates. It was a record breaking mass lobby and made us impossible to ignore. Let's do even better this time. Details under the cut:
Worried about what to say?
Bring your personal worries about transphobia being signed into law, and trans friends being excluded from public spaces. You are a living person who deserves dignity. Remind your MP of that. You will also get guidance and brochures from Trans Solidarity Alliance that outlines our demands. This is mine from last year.
Money issues?
Trans Solidarity Alliance provides a travel bursary that you can sign up for via the link.
Got a refusal or no response from your MP?
Come anyway! You can request a same-day appointment with your MP through a process called greencarding. They will come and see you if they’re already in Parliament. Even if they don’t, they’re made acutely aware of your cause because you showed up in person. This is my greencard from last year.
Here is the EHRC Code of Practice in full. It's a tough read, but some highlights are:
Organisations can’t provide trans-inclusive, single-sex services, or they risk being sued for discrimination.
e.g. domestic violence support for women including trans women, men’s rugby group including trans men (12.68).
Trans people will have nowhere safe to pee.
If you’re a trans man, businesses can't allow you to pee in the men's, and you can also be ejected from women’s bathrooms if you’re perceived as a man. Vice versa for trans women. EHRC suggests a ‘third space’ bathroom, which is discriminatory and unworkable for most businesses. (13.130-133)
Sports organisations must exclude trans people from single-sex competitions (13.73).
A women’s only sports competition must exclude trans women because of their biological advantage or face potential lawsuits (13.74), but a trans man who has undergone testosterone treatment can also be excluded based on fairness rules (13.81).
Trans women are stripped of the legal definition of ‘lesbian’, and therefore no longer have legal protections if they’re discriminated against on the basis of sexual orientation. (2.50, 2.92).
Here is the Good Law Project's better explanation of the EHRC Code.
I have also made a PDF printout of QR codes for the government petition, email your MP tool, and mass lobby link to pass around your communities. DM me and I'll send it to you.
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