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how manual wheelchair users move (explainer for non-users)
frequently when iâm out and about with someone walking, they canât anticipate what path i will take and therefore theyâre in my way pretty frequently. this is fine! i can politely ask them to step to the side. but it makes me think about how little non-wheelchair users understand the way wheelchair users move. as someone who used to walk everywhere, it was an adjustment period for me to figure out how to navigate the world in a chair. here are some things that didnât occur to me so that you donât cut off your friend right as theyâre building momentum to go up a ramp đ
for context, i use an active manual chair. the world is very different in a power chair. even among active manual chair users, there is a huge diversity in physicality and strategies for getting around. this is a general guide that i think will apply to most manual wheelchair users. iâm starting super basic and getting more complicated as i go.
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1. manual wheelchairs are a momentum game. it is very easy to maintain speed and direction. but speeding up, slowing down, or turning, is hard. one thing this affects is if weâre on a wavy sidewalk or other twisty-turny walkway, that is a pain in the ass and i am taking as straight a path as i can.
2. wheelchair users also have to pay attention to the slope and condition of the pavement, so our path somewhere will be different than yours, even if weâre taking the same route to the same place. for example, i usually have to go down slopes straight, not diagonally, to avoid tipping over sideways. one area this affects is crosswalks. many intersections have one curb cut for both roads you could cross, which means i will go down curb cuts to a crosswalk as if i am aiming for the middle of the intersection.
your path in orange, mine in blue. to you it seems indirect, but to me itâs the path of least resistance.
i also will be building speed in the second half of the crosswalk. this is a much easier way to tackle a ramp. if i approach with momentum, i wonât have to drag myself up the slope once i get to it.
3. building momentum and maintaining it is only half of the job. the other half is stopping. manual wheelchairs cannot stop on a dime if theyâre moving with any kind of speed. if i tried to stop immediately when going downhill, i would fly out of the chair. so donât walk right into the path of a wheelchair in motion and then stop! i will have to turn to the side very quickly and hope i donât tip. i canât tell you how often parents pushing strollers will stop their stroller directly in my path and then get offended when i am alarmed and turn sharply to avoid hitting their child. from their perspective, i was being careless and going âtoo fast.â in reality, normal walking speed takes a few feet to slow down from and stop.
4. in terms of slope. see this street in san francisco?
i canât go down this street, itâs way too steep. i would give myself friction burns on my palms trying to control my speed. if i was in a situation where there was no avoiding this street, like in an emergency, i would be breaking my straight-slope rule and zig-zagging in the middle of the road.
this would require several zig-zags back and forth, more than the four that i drew. i also could not go up this road other than with this method. up or down, i risk tipping over sideways if iâm not careful.
4. in a similar vein, consider terrain. slopes with grass or carpet take huge amounts of energy to get up. this grassy hill isnât insurmountable, but it would take me like thirty minutes to get up there. honestly i would probably go backwards, because itâs easier to pull yourself up a slope than push yourself.
other types of terrain can be completely immobilizing, though. this decorative gravel pathway is beautiful, and inaccessible to me. my casters (front wheels) simply will not go through that.
5. in terms of walkways and obstacles. if thereâs a deep gap in the pavement lined up the way iâm going, and itâs, say, an inch wide, that is an obstacle for me. my casters are one inch wide, and my back wheels are an inch and a half. iâll get stuck in it like a train on a track.
i have to straddle this, even if it means being too close to the middle of the sidewalk and preventing us from walking side by side.
similarly, if a crack is greater than an inch high, iâm gonna wheelie over it. at two inches, i have to. a wheelie may require a change in speed, either faster or slower depending on the person.
i have 4 inch casters, so a lip as little as 2 inches will stop me in my tracks. a lip as little as one inch, hit with any speed, can knock my casters out of square. casters can get knocked out of alignment pretty easily depending on the chair. iâd rather not have to pull out an allen wrench and a level, so iâm gonna wheelie.
this happened when i hit about a 1.5â lip on a pavement crack when i was going downhill at maybe 3mph.
6. putting it all together. see how diagonal this crack is?
this is another situation where i have to go straight relative to the slope. because that crack is wide, it will probably also require a wheelie. if i tried to approach that straight relative to the sidewalk, my left caster would get up the slope, iâd wheelie, then my right caster would land in the crack. i have to go this way.
(also lol at the trash can blocking the curb cut)
these are just a few things to keep in mind when walking about with a wheelchair user! ofc the best strategy always is just to listen when someone asks you to move out of their way đ but i think being able to anticipate movement a little better will help it seem less random. feel free to ask any questions!
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A quick guide for trans people who are using/ forced to use the disabled toilet due to transphobic bullshit in the UK when you wouldnât otherwise need to do so. From a transgender wheelchair user who has given this topic a lot of thought.
Remember you are a guest in this space. I donât know a single person who would rather you shit yourself or get assaulted than use the disabled toilet, but please remember that these toilets are built and designed for disabled people after a huge amount of campaigning and activism.
Donât touch or move things you donât need to. If youâre not familiar with how things work or why they are where they are just leave it be. The position of a bin might not mean anything to you but it could be really important to a wheelchair user who needs to change their tampon. Donât touch things like grab rails either â while theyâre fairly tough and youâre unlikely to cause any damage itâs not impossible and if you donât touch it, you canât break it.
Related, but important enough to have its own point: please donât touch the red cord. Do not tie it up, do not wrap it around anything, donât tuck it behind a bin. Donât touch it (The only exception to this is to untie a cord thatâs been tied up) If the cord doesnât fall freely to the floor it could prevent a disabled person calling for help in an emergency. If youâre worried about accidentally pulling it thereâs almost always at least one reset button in there with you. Press that and it cancels the alarm.
If possible allow other people waiting to go first. A lot of disabilities, both visible and less apparent, can cause problems with incontinence, urgency or pain that make it difficult for someone to wait to use the toilet. If thereâs someone else in the queue and you are able to do so, offering to let them go first might really help them out.
If you want to get a radar key, get it from disability rights UK or give a small donation to a disability charity (again only if youâre able to). Iâve seen a couple of trans orgs giving away free radar keys and itâs unclear how they are being sourced. Knockoffs are common but only ârealâ RADAR keys are from Disability Rights UK and any profits help fund their charity work. Bear in mind that most disabled people also have to pay for these keys which are about ÂŁ5. (Disability Rights UK say their keys are to be sold to disabled people or organisations only, this is a legal thing they have to say about VAT relief. There is no real way of following up how disabled someone who buys a radar key is because you donât need to claim any benefits to be eligible for VAT relief and keys are a low value item that isnât worth anyone looking into when things like adapted cars exist. Be gay, do crime, support disabled people having rights.)
Know the difference between a standard accessible toilet and a changing places toilet. Donât use a changing places toilet if there is any other safe option. These have a different symbol and are bigger and fitted with extra equipment for severely disabled people and our carers. That equipment is more sensitive than anything youâll find in a standard accessible toilet so if you do find yourself in one touch nothing. Especially donât move the hoist (lifting equipment) as it can cause it to run out of power and make the whole space functionally useless if itâs not in the right space on the track. (To be fair this is an unlikely scenario as there arenât that many of these toilets, but just in case)
Donât suggest renaming accessible toilets. Theyâre primarily there for disabled people who canât use an alternative, and disabled people will be looking for an accessible toilet. For most spaces you can look for an accessible toilet and have a good chance of finding a gender neutral space, but that doesnât work the other way around. Calling it an âinclusive toiletâ or âgender neutral toiletâ tells me absolutely nothing about whether my wheelchair will fit.
something i think a lot of abled people donât understand is that i donât do a lot of stuff outside of my house not because i donât want to, but because i just donât have the time to recover.
for example, i did a lot on saturday with my family, but now itâs tuesday and my body is still in severe pain. at the time i enjoyed it and it felt really nice to engage with people and places outside of my routine, but i basically need a few days of rest for each thing, and i did like 4 things so i am out of commission for the rest of the week
being disabled isnât just not being able to do things like holding a job or going to school, it literally makes you unable to even simply enjoy time with others or do most of the things you want to do because your body either canât handle it at all or the time you need to recover isnât compatible with the pace the rest of the world runs on

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Friendly reminder to check the feet/tips on your canes and crutches; do they need to be replaced?
Also, don't forget to check the feet of your shower chair/stool occasionally âď¸
I donât care how theyâre marketed, these things are not wheelchair accessible, especially for large power chairs.
ID: a yellow and black plastic cable cover which is approximately 5-10cm tall with steep sides and looks like a small speed bump /end ID
Every time I go over one I need someone to help hold my chair and get me over it. Even with that support it hurts like Hell and has caused whiplash injuries for me in the past. Itâs also very unsafe for others because even with support I cannot 100% control the angle my chair will end up lurching over it (and my chair weighs over 150kg without me in it so itâs not something you want to collide with). Itâs also terrifying and makes noises that make me very concerned for my chairâs structural integrity.
If you want your event to actually be accessible to wheelchair users then consider using something more like this:
ID: the same kind of cable cover but itâs fitted with a much shallower ramp with the international symbol of access embossed on the black plastic. The ramps are about a foot long on either side of the cover /end ID
they should invent a doctor that is useful