Non kinkists have to have it worse tbh. Imagine you got like a condition that is making it hard to lose weight and 1st in the morning you hear some parrots launching curse words at you like you’d wronged them or sth + everyday you look at the mirror and feel disgusted by urself, barely hanging on to stay focused & motivated.
it’s definitely a different perspective and while i appreciate the fact that as a feedee/fatliberated person (is that a term?) i appreciate my body and am not trying to change it because of my hatred towards it. it still hurts that the majority of people DO hate my body and hate fat people and hate being fat. and that is my own internalized fatphobia to work through or just something i have to make peace with as a fat person that LOVES being fat
non kinkists that hate their body are experiencing fatphobia externally and internally, which IS hard and awful and horrible for them.
buttttt enjoying and appreciating my own fatness does not absolve me from experiencing fatphobia. i cannot escape it. none of us can escape it. most of us were brought up with it and it is ingrained into us so deeply that even though we may appreciate our bodies … we still experience internalized fatphobia because its effects are so wound up in our dna and also because society is just … fatphobic <3
