Tony was never trying to kill Bucky because he wouldn’t have stopped and had a conversation with Steve. He would’ve just attacked Bucky off the bat. Yet when Steve watches one of his “friends” die on screen, he doesn’t break a sweat because he doesn’t have the emotional capacity in which he cares about others besides Bucky. What sets Tony off is when Steve tries to lie straight to his face.

He attacks Steve first and turns knowing that Bucky will most likely try fighting him for Steve’s sake. Yet the facts still prove that it was Steve’s fault for the fight occurring in the first place because he didn’t tell Tony the truth about his parents and never intended to do so all the while claiming to be Tony’s friend.

Really Bitch? Look who’s talking Mr. I know your family was murdered and that it was orchestrated by hydra and Obadiah Stane but I’m not gonna tell you because my self interests come first.

People say it was wrong for Tony to attack Bucky but he didn’t attack Bucky, he attacked Steve and Bucky joined in because he was in a tough situation.

Anybody who says that it wasn’t right for Tony to fight can choke on dusty ass flakes. Tony watches his parents die infront of his very eyes and the part that hurt him the most was that Steve could watch it with no emotion and still try to lie about it.

Steve reminds me a lot of Obadiah Stane. They both lied about Tony’s parents for years while acting like their deaths hurt them.

watching your child cry and screaming at them to stop and invalidating their pain and reasons for crying makes you an abuser.

staring at your child in disgust and contempt after they displease you makes you an abuser.

threatening to your child to take away their basic resources if they don’t give you exactly what you want makes you an abuser.

forcing your child to feel ashamed for not living up to your ideals makes you an abuser.

using slurs, hateful names and insults on your own child without any regard to what it does to their mental health makes you an abuser.

forcing your child to chase impossible expectations and making them feel like they’re worthless for not achieving them makes you an abuser.

acting like your child is a burden and a waste of space and blaming their illness/disability/depression on it makes you an abuser.

behaving like your child will never amount to anything and isn’t worth any resources and nurturing makes you an abuser.

making your child feel like they’re never good enough makes you an abuser.

if your child’s heart is hurting because they know no matter what they do and how hard they try they will always be a failure in your eyes, you are an abuser.

if your child can’t look at themselves without self hatred because they had to look at themselves from your perspective and all they saw is disgust and hatred, you’re an abuser.

If your child is struggling to believe they have the right to live and to be cared and loved, if they can’t stop hearing your hateful voice putting them down and using their every action to prove they’re worthless, you’re an abuser.

If you watched your child in pain and assured them they deserved it, you’re an abuser.