the albatross

drunk at my little sister’s bach wondering if/why i was fated to be on my own

kenzie and sincere both being like “i’m sad i hurt someone’s feelings” tells me that they have empathy but little sense for why what they did was wrong other than the outcome. they both, in the moment, saw zero issue with what they were doing and that’s why their behavior will continue: their metric of right and wrong depends on whether or not they’re making the other person happy. if they make someone happy, but then that person or others later respond poorly to what they did, they’re torn and don’t know what to do because their metric is contradicting itself. they feel like they can’t win even though the answer is simple: be honest, be direct, and either stand by your decisions or apologize and do better next time. the trouble is they so badly want to make the other person happy that they can’t tell their own desires from their desire to please. until they learn to tell the difference between the two and how to act on their own desires more consistently, this will just keep happening

frankly i agree with kayda that kenzie has been moving like sincere in every way and she should say it louder

jen saying to kenzie “if this wasn’t love island i wouldn’t be your friend” GET HER FOR ME

what i cannot stand about kenzie is that if someone did to her what she’s done to corbin, caleb, and now dylan, she would go ballistic and rightfully so. but instead she just says it to these men’s faces like it’s no big deal and like it doesn’t even cross her mind that they might be hurt by what she’s done. it’s very manipulative and so sad to watch her do over and over with zero repercussions

KENZIE GET OFF MY ISLANDDDDD

i’ve said it before and i’ll say it again kenzie is a snake and a hypocrite and cannot be trusted

any other crocheters repulsed by acrylic at a sensory level... at this point I'm using pretty much only cotton/bamboo/linen

“still you rise i guess” im crying trinity my fave ever