TRUE, or FALSE? “God won’t give us more than we can handle.”
That’s false.
It is the often misquoted verse 1 Corinthians 10:13 - ‘No temptation has overtaken you but such as is common to man; and God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will provide the way of escape also, so that you will be able to endure it.”
The misquote is used as a way to comfort people undergoing the various heartrending trials of life.
However, notice the middle section of the actual verse: God will not allow you to be TEMPTED beyond what you are able [more than you can stand, or more than you can resist], but will provide a way of escape so that you will be able to endure it [without yielding and overcome the temptation]. The verse is not speaking of the trials we encounter in life, but of the temptations we encounter in life. The two are not the same.
While we are quick to quote the inaccurate form of the verse when undergoing trials, we seldom quote the accurate form of the verse when undergoing temptation. Why is that?
In all honesty, it’s because we want to sin. We like to sin. We have pet sins that we desire to keep and pamper. We don’t want a way of escape. James 1:13-15 explains: “Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am being tempted by God”; for God cannot be tempted by evil, and He Himself does not tempt anyone. 14 BUT EACH ONE IS TEMPTED WHEN HE IS CARRIED AWAY AND ENTICED BY HIS OWN LUST. 15 Then when lust has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and when sin is accomplished, it brings forth death.”
When we DO want a way of escape, to whom can we turn? 2 Peter 2:9 has the answer: “…the Lord knows how to rescue the godly from temptation….” We can turn to God. God can show us the way out of temptation.
But back to trials….Unfortunately, life itself can generally throw us more than we can handle in terms of trials. Look at Paul’s own experience as related in 2 Corinthians 1:8-11 - “For we do not want you to be unaware, brethren, of our affliction which came to us in Asia, that WE WERE BURDENED EXCESSIVELY, BEYOND OUR STRENGTH, SO THAT WE DESPAIRED EVEN OF LIFE; 9 indeed, we had the sentence of death within ourselves so that we would not trust in ourselves, but in God who raises the dead; 10 who delivered us from so great a peril of death, and will deliver us, He on whom we have set our hope. And He will yet deliver us, 11 you also joining in helping us through your prayers, so that thanks may be given by many persons on our behalf for the favor bestowed on us through the prayers of many.”
Paul basically said, “we couldn’t handle it!” However, he also said that God used their overwhelming trials to teach them something. Look at verse 9, “so that we would not trust in ourselves, but in God who raises the dead.”
Now that I’ve taken away your favorite quote for those undergoing trials, what can you use instead? 2 Corinthians 1:3-5 is wonderful! “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, 4 who comforts us in all our affliction so that we will be able to comfort those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. 5 For just as the sufferings of Christ are ours in abundance, so also our comfort is abundant through Christ.”
This verse tells us who God is, what His nature is, what He does for us, and what His purpose is for us. We need just such reminders when undergoing heartrending, overwhelming trials. The knowledge of these things warms my heart when I am overwhelmed by life: Christ’s Father is my Father. He is merciful and compassionate…He cares. He gives me all the comfort I need, and then He sends me out to comfort others so that they can know His comfort also.
If you are feeling overwhelmed today, may you feel the compassion and comfort that the Father of mercies, the God of all comfort, has to offer. May you know that He cares. May you have the opportunity to share His comfort with others. Be blessed and comforted, my friend, throughout this Christmas season.
















