So, you like Daenerys? Even though she has shown time and again to be a power hungry tyrant who only cares about gaining the Iron Throne, has taken pleasure in burning people alive for not agreeing with her and has talked about wanting to lay waste to cities since season two. But you donât like Sansa who actually cares about her family, her home and her people and does everything in her power to protect them? Wow. (1/2)
 (2/2) Oh and by the way, Sansa being âmeanâ to Daenerys is only because she knew right away exactly what kind of a person she was. She knew she was a tyrant from the first moment she met her. She had every right not to trust her. And her attitude toward Sansa made it clear to her. You just werenât paying attention to Daenerysâs arc.
⢠âShe has shown time and again to be a power hungry tyrant who only cares about gaining the Iron Throneâ
A power hungry tyrant you say.
And which part of her arc did you deduce that from, anon, other than her comical framing as a Disney villain in the last two episodes? Since, unlike me apparently, youâve paid so much attention to Daenerysâ story?
Is it because she had the audacity (!) to make use of her claim to the Iron Throne, like so many before her (Renly, Stannis, Margaery, Cersei, Robb when it comes to Northern Throne) in a show thatâs.. literally all about people trying to get the bloody throne?
But I guess only those born with a silver spoon in their mouths, that do actually only care about power should pursue such ambitions. The impoverished girl that was sold into sexual slavery marriage at 13 and actively used her power for a noble cause the moment she got access to it, is just⌠too damn annoying. Too bossy. Too ambitious.
And those poor slave masters and rapists she killed, with their whole lives ahead of them! What a bitch, truly.
The thing is, Daenerys committed the ultimate crime of putting her personal pursuit aside and chose to use the power she obtained through her dragons in order to help and protect those in need of protection, while the rest of the gang was too busy killing each other for the throne. She defied the powerful slave masters, singlehandedly abolished a system of slavery and empowered formerly enslaved people by raising them to positions of power and giving them access to it.
But please, do tell me how Daenerys is the power hungry tyrant among the virtuous feudal lords of Westeros that have been doing nothing but fight wars for their Housesâ personal vendettas without giving two fucks about the commonfolk suffering and dying in them
What is it that differentiates Daenerysâ quest and makes her âpower hungryâ when compared to Renly, Stannis, Margaery or Robb?
And what is your definition of a tyrant, in a world where democracy doesnât exist, unless for the privileged lords to laugh and sneer at when the concept is introduced to them?
⢠âDaenerys has taken pleasure in burning people alive for disagreeing with herâ
Letâs tackle the âkill people for disagreeing with herâ part first.
Do you consider someone murdering her unborn child and husband a mere disagreement? What about slave owners that crucify hundreds of enslaved children to make a point? Were the khals that were talking about gang raping her just people that âdisagreedâ with her too in your view? And the Tarlys, bannermen to Daenerysâ allies, that committed high treason against their liege lords and leaded the goddamn massacre of their entire House, and were even granted an opportunity to live as free men but turned it down? Is that just a disagreement too?
Or (since the case of the Tarlys in particular is a favourite one among antis rushing to âproveâ Daenerysâ cruelty/madness) do you think any leader in Daenerysâ place wouldnât have straight up executed them or taken them as POWs (as they fucking should) instead of giving their traitorous asses a second chance after what they did?
If your answer is âyesâ, I sure hope you judge other characters by the same standards, at the very least. Was Ned Stark a tyrant when he chopped the head off a terrified teenage boy that fled to save his life from the white walkers? What about Robb when he executed his bannerman against everyoneâs council, for a crime of a much, much lesser extent than decimating the House of his liege Lord? Cause I donât remember Lord Karstark having much of a choice in the matter like the Tarlys did. What about Jon Snow when he hanged a literal 10 year old? Sansa feeding her rapist to its dogs? Arya killing a room full of people and baking men into pies?
Or is it the whole using-dragonfire-for-executions gig you find too, ahem, inhumane for your taste? Would it have been okay for you had she used an enormous fucking sword to chop off her enemiesâ heads or handed them over to starving animals to devour or baked them into pies and given them to their fathers to eat?
As for the âtaking pleasure in burningâ part of your claim⌠it makes me physically fucking sick. You know who actually took pleasure in burning people? Literally took pleasure in it, getting aroused and proceeding to rape his wife after listening to his victimsâ pleas and cries? The Mad King. Thatâs what a pyromaniac looks like. You know who else took pleasure in killing? Joffrey and Ramsay, that were both fucking sadists.
Youâre entitled to dislike/hate a character, but if you are to claim that they take pleasure out of killing, at the very least base it on something. I dislike many characters in GoT but I donât claim they were sadists off the top of my head. Using violence against your enemies and actually relishing in it, including when itâs directed towards innocents and regardless of it, are two entirely different things.
Otherwise the same thing can easily be said for⌠literally any character in the show that has killed at some point. Ned and Robb Starkâs ânobleâ executions? Jon Snowâs killings and executions? Sansa smiling as Ramsayâs dogs ate him? Arya slaughtering a room full of people?
Sadists, the whole bunch of them.
⢠âand has talked about wanting to lay waste to citiesâ
And how convenient it is to leave out the context of these scenes, huh? How convenient it is that Dany antis always recite that s02 scene and talk about âforeshadowing!â thinking theyâre oh-so-smart, unlike the rest of us fools that didnât see it coming when âthere were so many signs!â. Because an empty threat of a dehydrated, barely-still-standing woman to a bunch of rich, powerful men that were about to close their doors to Daenerysâ people and leave them to die in the Red Waste, deeming them âsavagesâ unfit for their civilized city (and that only after she courteously asked them for help) certainly overpowers her actualâŚactions for seven and a half seasons. Same with Daenerys coming back to Meeren only to find it in the midst of a civil war, thanks to Tyrionâs genius negotiations, the masters about to take control of the city once again and the people she had freed about to slide back in chains.
Itâs not like this is a show where main characters, including ânobleâ ones, make homicidal threats all the time anywayâŚ
But why pay mind to details like that when you can have the cray cray infertile Dragon Queen to scapegoat? After she provides the resources to solve everyoneâs problems and eliminate the imminent threats that is!
⢠But you donât like Sansa who actually cares about her family, her home and her people and does everything in her power to protect them?
Actually, I never claimed I donât like Sansa. I supported Sansa for the entirety of seven seasonsâ well, the seventh one is a special case, since my opinion changed after it aired and a deleted scene of her and Bran came to my attention, where it is revealed she was about to execute Arya before Bran told her the truth about Littlefinger.
I admired her character development and the way she navigated political life while captive in Kingâs Landing. I was outraged when she was shoved into some torture porn storyline meant to provide a male character with a redemption arc, instead of following the booksâ narrative in the Vale. I was pissed as fuck when Jon Snow took precedent over her as King in the North in s06. And I was repulsed by the misogynistic âIâm so thankful I was raped because it made me strong and e m p o w e r e d!â lines fed to her character in s08. Hell, I even shipped her with Daenerys for a good period of time, and positively love her in the books.
Iâm not gonna stan a character thatâs written like a soap opera villain though, and thatâs exactly how the Starks came off in season 8. A cheap version of the Lannisters willing to do anything to gain power.
You claim Sansa âdid everything in her power to help her family and her peopleâ. When exactly did she do that in seasons 7 and 8, anon? When she was about to execute her own blood? When she was being a bitch to a woman the North needed as an ally, who (letâs be honest here) wouldâve rightfully told the Starks to fuck off and left them to fend for themselves upon such treatment, if she was acting strictly as a political leader instead of Jon Snowâs lover? When she spent the battle of Winterfell trashing the âDragon Queenâ as said Queen was out saving her peopleâs asses? When she betrayed her brother and almost started a civil war that would cost thousands of lives, including those of âher peopleâ?
â˘Â Oh and by the way, Sansa being âmeanâ to Daenerys is only because she knew right away exactly what kind of a person she was.
So Sansa was beingâŚâmeanâ to Daenerys because she oh-so-conveniently knew she would become a tyrant? Based on what? Did she even bother to learn anything about Daenerysâ past as a leader which she deemed to be some Sign that revealed the âkind of person she wasâ? Was it the whole liberating slaves bit that made her suspicious? Or does she possess some magical ability and can justâŚsniff out the potential bad guys?
Yeah, sorry but that⌠doesnât work for me. If you claim to be a serious storyteller, which this show used to be for the first four seasons at least, you need to show why your characters form such opinions, and act based on actual events and interactions. Not some⌠elusive sixth sense.
Did Sansa spend more than 5 seconds with Dany or listen to her plans as a future ruler before giving her the stink eye? And if she did have suspicions about her abilities as a leader, why didnât she interact with Daenerysâ people, in an attempt to extract information on the Dragon Queen and her leadership? Because as far as I recall her interactions with them were limited to holier-than-thou xenophobia and a âyouâre pretty, plus youâre not willing to give away the North just because I say so, ergo I hate youâ attitude towards their Queen.
At the end of the day, itâs not even a matter of liking or disliking someone; itâs hardly important to the story whether Sansa liked Daenerys or not. This is supposed to be Game of Thrones not freaking Mean Girls.
Daenerys was an ally the North needed and was there to save their asses. Sansa should have behaved accordingly. Personal affinities are simply irrelevant when it comes to politics. Instead, for some unfathomable reason, the girl who at 13/14 was clever enough to skillfully pretend in front of the people that murdered her family and constantly taunted and abused her, justâŚ. couldnât hide her dislike for the woman whose resources and help were pivotal for the Northâs survival.
â˘Â  She had every right not to trust her.
She had every right not to trust her right away, sure, as well as not to trust her brotherâs (lack of) competence when it comes to politics. Jon Snow might as well have brought a Cersei Lannister to Winterfell just because he was thinking with his cock; I can follow that line of thinking and find reason in it to an extent.
That doesnât excuse her openly hostile stance towards a vital ally (that was stupid at best from a political perspective) or the fact that her distrust of the Dragon Queen didnât change even when she found out that Dany offered to save the North without asking for anything in return and proceeded to personally fight against the army of the dead and save Sansaâs homeland and people.Â
Thereâs a difference between not being naive enough to blindly trust someone on sight and stubbornly insisting on distrusting someone in spite of their actions.
It is absolutely plausible for two female characters to have conflicting interests and be at odds with one another, like any two complex and well written characters. That is decidedly not how Sansa and Daenerysâ relationship was handled in season 8.
⢠And her attitude toward Sansa made it clear to her.
Oh, you mean being fucking indignant upon such a blatant display of ingratitude as to make demands to the woman that had sacrificed one of her children and was putting her people and her life on the line to save the bloody North?
Like, I know Stark stans think that the entire fucking world owes the Starks, and the show frames it that way too, but the reality is pretty fucking different.
At the end of season 6 the North was a region in open rebellion against the Crown. Meaning they could either win their independence via war (like Robb tried to do) or negotiation. Given that the ruling monarch at the time was Cersei it goes without saying that negotiation was out of the question, meaning a war against the forces of Kingâs Landing was due. Which is pretty damn unfortunate, since this is a region that isnât even capable of defending itself from an outside threat (the army of the dead), let alone marching against the Crown.
Enter Daenerys, who is, logically, their best chance at a nonviolent independence.
(Unless something completely craaaaazy happens out of the blue, a Stark magically ends up on the throne and nepotism solves everything at the last minute!)
Yara, for one, was smart enough to strike a deal with Daenerys by providing her ships and forces in exchange for the Iron Islandsâ independence; Catelyn Stark followed a similar route when negotiating with Renly Baratheon in s02.
Quid pro quo. You give me something, I give you something in return. We join forces against a common enemy to achieve our respective goals.
The Starks didnât even try diplomacy. They were facing an impending fucking apocalypse and instead of reaching out to potential allies and trying to strike a deal by any means necessary, offering whatever they could to save their people, they had the King they chose stroll into Dragonstone, stomp his foor on the floor, tell a bunch of ice zombie fairytales and expect Daenerys to give all her resources to the North..in exchange for what exactly? His cock?
And yet the evil Dragon Queen fucking agreed. She, the one with the huge army, the dragons and the upper fucking hand, pledged herself to the North, a region that expected to have their independence gifted to them, but not before having a foreign leader sacrifice her people and resources for their sake.
And Sansa had the nerve to shamelessly make passive aggressive demands to Danyâs face after she made such a stupidly selfless offer that went against her own interests in order to save the North?
Yeah, Iâd be fucking pissed too.