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hi! this blog is about platonic and queerplatonic love, squishes, and general joy of the aroace variety.

while i myself am full of love in a very distinctly aromantic way, i do want to let loveless aros know that i think you are all so cool! your identities and experiences belong in the aro community, and solidarity is important. same goes for other aspec identities! my blog is kind of tailored to my experience, but you're all welcome here if you want!

feel free to ask me to tag anything, and i'll try my best.

have a great day!

#intro post

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nostalgiafornothing

yeesiine

Did you get the love I sent you telepathically?

#a.

fishparasite

you will live and you will say the wrong things and make mistakes and people will love you anyways.

fishparasite

i made this post because i've got so many friends that think saying something wrong in a conversation is the end of the world. it isn't. you'll be okay. you don't have to be embarrassed about every little thing. you are alive and doing things and speaking to people. you will make mistakes and you will live.

lolababyy

Having someone match your wit or your weirdness without hesitation is actually so fucking comforting and fun.

#b.

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heavensickness

Do you ever wanna bond with someone so bad you’re like “damn i wish we were knights on a dangerous quest”

#long heavy sigh..............yeah.

handwrittenloveletter-deactivat

Backwards, Warsan Shire

#this is a promise. this is a promise i am making to myself and to the people i love.

canonkiller

waking from dreams where you are loved

#a.#dreamed the other night that i had my head on your shoulder and it was good.

julykings

from In the House With No Doors by Sarah Kay

flowerytale

Anne Sexton, from A Self-Portrait In Letters

#1:19 AM and i've abandoned my empty poetry document in favor of reblogging this post.#all this love and no words for it.#a.#<- queerplatonic boyfriend who i love and who i am thinking about right now. hello. it's 1:34 AM now. i love you.

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my boyfriend has tumblr now. >:)

i decided to give them my blog name and now we're following each other <3

watch me forget that fact. watch me post the most sappy rambles on earth and forget that he can see it. watch me.

(hi aries!! welcome to the blog where half of the posts are just rambles about how great you are!!)

#qpr #queerplatonic #a.#emotional vulnerability is HARD. i am NOT GOOD at saying nice things to people's FACES. >:(#(so i'm saying them to my laptop. which everyone can see anyways but whatever. it's fine. i have the illusion of talking to myself!)#anyways aries is awesome :)

starz4valen

i love aromantic love. i love qprs. i love close friends. i love caring about everyone the same amount. i love having no hierarchy in relationships. i love being affectionate with your friends. i love appreciating your friends. i love all of it. aromantic love—partnering or not—is fucking beautiful

#YEAH EXACTLY.#i love aromantic love!!!! aro love wooh!!!!#i love having friends!!!i love being in a qpr!!!! i love being aro!!!! i love being alive!!!! i love the world!!!!#<3 <3 <3 <3 <3

st-ivangeline-deactivated202501

i just think being aro really enriches my perspective on life and makes me better, it makes me more aware of the value of my relationships with my family and friends, i’m so glad i found the aro community which constantly challenges my internalized amatonormivity and my relationships with the people in my life

i’m proud to be aro

#yeah! i absolutely love being aro!! i love the community! i love the unique perspective it gives me!#i love forming my own connections outside of romance! i love what the concept of 'love' means to me! i love paving my own path through life #i love all the people who are a part of my life! i love the mindset of not being obligated to have a specific type of relationship!#to me aromanticism is freeing. and it's joyful. it's learning to know yourself. it's choosing the kind of life you want.#it's breaking down barriers and expectations. and (for me!) it's love as well. and it's a thousand other things for different people.#honestly. i am SO proud to be aro. it's a part of me that i'd never change.#and i admire and respect all the aros who've paved the way for this confidence and joy in my identity!#i'm so glad i found the aro community when i did. i'm glad i grew up knowing this about myself. i'm glad i had some support from older aros #anyways i'm forever grateful and proud to be aromantic. it's incredible and i'm so happy to exist as an aromantic person.

*screaming and howling* i!!! MISS!!! my FRIENDS.

*biting and maiming* i!!! MISS!!! my QUEERPLATONIC BOYFRIEND.

*covered in blood as my eyes glow and i make a nearby carton of eggs explode with my mind* i!!! HATE!!! taking practical steps to secure my academic and professional future!

*covered in raw eggs* ...well that didn't improve the situation. why did i do that.

#friendship #qpr #queerplatonic #platonic love #ignore me i'm registering for classes and waiting to hear back on a job application instead of experiencing human interaction.#but i'm being so brave about it!!#a.#b.#r.#m.#h.

squid-with-five-eyes

unfortunately i have fallen ill with a condition called loving my friends so much that i cant imagine who i would be without them. yeah. theres no cure im just gonna have to deal with the quiet euphoria of knowing and being known whenever theyre around. thanks for understanding

#okay this is perfect timing.#just last night i was crying because i felt like my intense love for my friends would just make me miss them even more when we're apart.#and i was really upset over it. like full on sobbing. because i get lonely very easily. and i always want to be around the people i love.#but like. this post really put that into perspective. and i just read it and thought to myself:#“what am i THINKING?? as if loving my friends is a sad thing?? as if it's not the most wonderful thing in my life??”#and i call myself a POET. and yet i forgot the basic poetic theme that's present in like thousands of poems:#feeling things and loving things is going to hurt at some point! it's supposed to! and it's worth it!! aghhh.#i know these tags are all barely relevant to the actual post. but like. this post kind of snapped me out of my weird sadness.#i'll love with everything i have and be loved in turn and if the intensity of it stings a little then i'll try to appreciate even that.#(like when the salt stings your eyes in the ocean but you're alive!! and in the ocean!! and the sting just emphasizes that it's all real!!)#okay now that i'm back to my normal mindset of being happy about how much i love everyone and not waxing poetic in the tags:#good post. yeah its incurable sorry. i love my friends forever and ever. yippee!!!

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aroplatonic

i love being in love platonically!!! i love loyalty and intimacy and comfortable silliness and having them by my side and being part of a family of friends I LOVE PLATONIC LOVE

#yeah!!!!!!!! <3

my beloved friend whom i adore has sent me a little stuffed frog in the mail for my birthday!! he's made of felt, he has button eyes, and he is absolutely perfect. and she sent a felt lily pad with him!!

she's literally so wonderful aghhhhh. it's such a nice gift. i love her.

for those wondering, my new frog's name is Greenbean George.

#b.#friendship #platonic love #frogs #i love my friends so much i'm gonna yell about it!!!!#like. no you don't UNDERSTAND. my friend made me a ROUND LITTLE FROG who is SOFT!!!#i'm so happy and full of adoration. i love frogs and i love my friends. <3 <3 <3

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