Baby V

So, to recharge, we need space. We need time alone. But if we’re in a relationship, just be there. We don’t need you to leave. We want you to be there, but we also want you to leave us alone. It sounds complicated, but there has to be a balance.

We still want you to show us that you’re there. Because if you give an Aries woman too much space—we love space, don’t get me wrong—but if you’re not talking to us, if you disappear for hours, or if you leave us alone for too long, we’re not taking that shit lightly.

We’ll be like, “Oh, you’re giving me space? Cool. I’m about to use that space.” And then we’ll take all that space. But when you come back, it’s like, “No, you were giving me space. Leave me the fuck alone now.”

We need our space, but we still want you there.

I don’t know—it’s really not that hard to find the balance. And you’ll know when an Aries woman needs space because we’ll start getting irritated by a lot of little things that we’re usually okay with. It’s just our way of saying, “Leave me the fuck alone.”

Just go to the other room. But still bring me a coffee. If you’re getting something to eat, bring me something too.

And it won’t take that long for us to recharge. It doesn’t even take a whole day. If you’re in one room and I’m in another, watching TV or doing our own thing, I’m probably going to miss you. I’ll come bother you for a little while, then I might go back and sit by myself again.

Because I want you to be there. I want to know you’re there.

For an Aries woman, space doesn’t mean, “Damn, leave me the fuck alone.” It means, “Leave me the fuck alone—but stay close.”

If you get it, you get it.