#ariesnewmoon

So, to recharge, we need space. We need time alone. But if we’re in a relationship, just be there. We don’t need you to leave. We want you to be there, but we also want you to leave us alone. It sounds complicated, but there has to be a balance.

We still want you to show us that you’re there. Because if you give an Aries woman too much space—we love space, don’t get me wrong—but if you’re not talking to us, if you disappear for hours, or if you leave us alone for too long, we’re not taking that shit lightly.

We’ll be like, “Oh, you’re giving me space? Cool. I’m about to use that space.” And then we’ll take all that space. But when you come back, it’s like, “No, you were giving me space. Leave me the fuck alone now.”

We need our space, but we still want you there.

I don’t know—it’s really not that hard to find the balance. And you’ll know when an Aries woman needs space because we’ll start getting irritated by a lot of little things that we’re usually okay with. It’s just our way of saying, “Leave me the fuck alone.”

Just go to the other room. But still bring me a coffee. If you’re getting something to eat, bring me something too.

And it won’t take that long for us to recharge. It doesn’t even take a whole day. If you’re in one room and I’m in another, watching TV or doing our own thing, I’m probably going to miss you. I’ll come bother you for a little while, then I might go back and sit by myself again.

Because I want you to be there. I want to know you’re there.

For an Aries woman, space doesn’t mean, “Damn, leave me the fuck alone.” It means, “Leave me the fuck alone—but stay close.”

If you get it, you get it.

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Venus in Aries!

Mercury in Aries!

Sun in Aries!

There is a vibrant, fiery energy with this new moon, which may feel weird and conflicting with Venus currently in Aries. Venus (ruled by Libra) wants to talk it out and resolve problems diplomatically, meanwhile Aries (which is ruled by Mars) is all action and passion. Venus is exiled in Aries, this isn’t necessarily a BAD thing, it just feels out of place, like having the right shoe on the left foot.

Meanwhile, Mercury is still in Aries which brings reactive communication. Try not to be too impulsive and don’t take things personally. Adventurous thoughts and creative ideas are at the forefront of our minds, which can be a wonderful change of pace for some. It truly feels like SPRING is in the air, and with it, change!

New Moons are dark, introspective times for us to set our goals and intentions while giving thanks for all we’ve received. Good rituals to do during this time include writing your intentions down/ journaling, meditating, soaking in a bath and cleansing your space. That includes altars as well as any divination tools you may have (crystals, decks, etc). I know I’ve mentioned this often in the last few posts but the overriding message I keep getting is, CLEAN YOUR SPACE.

You cannot invite new blessings or energy into your life until you clear out all the old and stagnant energy still residing with you. It’s an exchange, you have to give in order to receive. Sometimes we unknowingly block OURSELVES by not taking stock of what’s really holding us back, in the haste to welcome something new. Use this time to do a true spring cleaning. Donate, give away, sell what no longer serves you. It’s easy to become a hoarder, especially coming out of a worldwide pandemic. There is a lot of fear that motivates these impulses and it’s important to recognize that and not let it control you.

Of course, this doesn’t just apply to physical possessions. People, places, habits, the way we think and speak are all things we can and do hold onto out of fear and complacency. Remember, comfort zones are just that: comfortable. Nothing grows there, it just stays the same. In the end it’s not a loss on your part, you’re simply making room for the next, best thing. Think of it as finally letting go and paying it forward. What no longer serves you can be exactly what someone else is looking for! Sometimes our own vision stops us from seeing the big picture because we are too busy focusing on one specific thing. We assume we know what’s best for us because we are focused on a single goal and ruled by our ego. Sometimes we just gotta let go and trust that even if the outcome isn’t EXACTLY what we wanted, it is in fact, what’s best for us.

In a nutshell: Clean! Make room for new energy! Be open and receptive to change.

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